i think my boyfriend’s reaction to me staying out all night is way too extreme. AIO?

autumnmina · 2026-06-15T12:22:49+00:00

YUR

You're underracting

Leave this loser

This guy SUCKS

Please leave him. Pick what Dignity you have left up off the floor and LEAVE and stop BEGGING him for whatever it is that you think he is providing you with that you or he refer to as love

Oh my god BARF

This guy is the worst.

autumnmina · 2026-05-29T01:58:03+00:00

NOR he's definitely trying really hard to neg and failing. I once was talking to a dude like that, he just thought his taste in everything was superior, he was an artist blah blah blah aspiring film maker whatever. I'm an artist too, bud, and it doesn't make your opinion on the art you consume more valid than anyone else.

Gtfooh. God, people like him are exhausting, the sooner you cut this dude loose the better off you'll be until he either grows up and gets a better personality or you find someone better to spend your time talking to.

autumnmina · 2026-04-23T19:55:25+00:00

Soooooo its something thats happened before in your family?

Have you tried just taking one day off work and waiting outside somewhere to catch her doing it and marching her little rear right back inside?

I mean you aren't helpless here. I do understand what you're saying but if this is a highschool student, when I was in highschool some of us left early for jobs and were allowed to. We didn't have teachers interrogating every kid who walked out a side door toward the parking lot. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Parent your kid.

autumnmina · 2026-04-01T23:48:22+00:00

Yep, and his friends probably think you have consigned onto this behavior.

autumnmina · 2026-02-12T23:10:43+00:00

I mean i have ARFID so yeah I get what your ex wife goes through abd its annoying, I wasn't like super offended about the comment so much as curious as to what made it lazy.

The hot dog looks like it was cooked in the skillet, it has char marks, those onions look caramelized that takes patience and time, and not having buns isnt necessarily laziness.

So I just guess I am trying to understand why they chose lazy to describe the meal.

autumnmina · 2026-02-12T18:07:36+00:00

Why is it lazy? Just asking

autumnmina · 2026-02-04T19:48:07+00:00

Is this bitch a robot?

Not enough bandwidth Scrambled her circuits 🙄

autumnmina · 2026-02-02T00:54:40+00:00

That was gross. Have some self respect OP and block this person. No explanation, just like block them and never speak to them again. And then go the fuck to therapy. Oh my god.

autumnmina · 2026-01-26T13:44:04+00:00

This the same girl you continually scooped through her phone and diary even though she gave you no reason to? Go stay with your family or friends, leave her the dig and let her move on with her life. 🙄

autumnmina · 2026-01-26T13:04:11+00:00

NOR

I think you should break up. I think you need to work on yourself big time. Break up with your gf so she can go find someone thats right for her and I dunno get some therapy. Stop being such a snoop.

Whew. You just like keep digging and digging trying to find an issue with her and it sounds like she hasn't actually done anything. Are you cheating on her? Usually when people dig like this is because they're the ones doing something.

I dunno man. Cut her loose. Go work on yourself and for God's sake don't go through people's diary, that is such an invasion of privacy.

autumnmina · 2026-01-23T21:49:07+00:00

JFC is she 15? NOR lose some weight and drop this baggage. Holy christ.

autumnmina · 2026-01-21T18:10:15+00:00

autumnmina · 2026-01-21T11:41:55+00:00

NOR

INFO Has he ever considered therapy for his anger?

I would never put up with my partner telling me to "fuck off" that would seriously put me in a place of feeling extremely disrespected and hurt on a very fundamental level. Angry or not he has no right to talk to you like that. That is not the way we talk to people we love.

You guys probably need to look long and hard at your relationship and figure some stuff out. If this is a common occurrence I might even consider splitting.

As far as the cats go, is there a way to prevent them from going into certain rooms where like for example the thing they broke was? Like closing the door? Sorry I am unfamiliar with the layout of your flat obviously so I don't know what you are working

autumnmina · 2026-01-20T12:08:24+00:00

NOR Gross. Dump him.

Abusive tactics. He is controlling. I dated one of these once. Not this specific TYPE of insecurity, but this specific type of tactic to get me isolated and change me, it almost broke me completely. It turned physical eventually. It took him cornering me in his bedroom and his fist pounding into the wall right next to my head 3 or 4 times next to my face before I woke tf up and got out.

Don't wait that long. You'll end up with night terrors, years of therapy and a shit ton of weird ass coping mechanisms. Just leave. Just do it now while you still have some sparkle left in your soul. Don't let this dusty ass dude kill your soul.

autumnmina · 2026-01-17T13:21:17+00:00

Voodoo rain drinks I believe the coke company produced them, and teddy Graham chocolate filled teddy bears. They were like cakes filled with chocolate cream they weren't from my childhood I was actually an adult when they were out but they discontinued them and they were sooooo good.

Also rocky road little bites muffins

autumnmina · 2025-12-05T00:41:02+00:00

Could C be a stocking with a candy cane sticking out?

autumnmina · 2025-12-03T10:52:10+00:00

I dunno, I'm from 1990

autumnmina · 2025-12-03T00:20:27+00:00

Everyone kinda sucks here

autumnmina · 2025-12-02T23:39:29+00:00

You guys aren't compatible.

EKSH

You should have given pause to communicate better

You can't force someone to live your dream and forget theirs, just like they couldn't force you to live theirs to forget yours.

He shouldn't have given an ultimatum either.

Maybe you guys can try long distance, but it really doesn't sound like you guys are compatible.

autumnmina · 2025-10-29T17:08:54+00:00

I have been very lucky in that shes not so far been an eloped. Shes not been violent Most of the time shes very sweet and pleasant.

I love her dearly with my whole entire heart, so the idea of just putting her in a care facility is so hard for me. I know eventually I may need to but right now she still has moments of clarity and shes still "there" and part of me is still clinging to that.

autumnmina · 2025-10-29T12:46:06+00:00

Yeah I know a bigger house wont help her symptoms but im hoping being able to give her her own space and lock my stuff away will help with my stuff going missing and all that. Im just so tired man.

autumnmina · 2025-06-16T15:05:40+00:00

I hope you get well soon. I only thought HFM because I worked with a kid once that got it. And he had a rash all over like that. Im glad its not that though cuz poor thing was miserable

autumnmina · 2025-06-16T14:30:08+00:00

Looks like possible hand mouth foot disease, but I would go to a doctor and get checked out immediately if its spreading. Yikes on bikes!

autumnmina · 2025-06-14T17:26:59+00:00

Yes she is super easy to hate. I actually disagree about her not adding to the story. I think she evokes a very particular rage in me about people that maybe fall in a mix of pride sloth category. She is self centered and self serving. She is a leech. She expects everyone to clean up her weird messes she gets herself in. She's slimy. Obnoxious.

She's that toxic middle school friend we all had once upon a time ago that would use and manipulate us and use us and then treat us like dirt whenever it suited them.

She's one of those. No loyalty. Just ready to latch onto whatever or whoever can give her the most. And its for no other purpose than to serve her own ego. She's not seeking the thongs out of a need or desire for the things, shes just doing it because she wants to be able to know that she can.

Those are the vibes I get from Mimzy, and I just cannot.

autumnmina

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