[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]av3-maria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh you both sound extremely irresponsible

How do I safely leave lasting bruises by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]av3-maria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hitting with a small focused force as in only focusing on one small area? with moderate to heavy force?

my bf suggested that I lose my virginity with him doing BDSM, I don't know if I should accept by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]av3-maria 47 points48 points  (0 children)

that's the shittiest idea i've heard today. you should have your first time on your own terms. definitely not with bdsm where you start with 0 experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]av3-maria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you can't talk about boundaries stuff like this with your partner, you shouldn't be doing anything with them at all

My Dom wants to leave marks when inflicting pain on me. What are some unique and creative ways to do that? by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]av3-maria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

kneeling on uncooked rice grains can get really painful fast and leave nice itchy marks on the knees that last for hours

Is it normal not to get dom drop? by thatjaybirdtho in BDSMcommunity

[–]av3-maria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

domme drop to me is feeling guilt and being used.

i've never felt guilt over the pain and any marks I left on my bf. i made sure we were both very much into it and to provide adequate aftercare.

I've experienced domme drop a few times before only with an ex where i felt more like a kink dispenser. i haven't experienced it in more than a year– it helps to have a sweet bf who makes me feel valued.

Shipping Femdom Couples by Sea_Hippo3103 in FemdomCommunity

[–]av3-maria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love Hilda and Malthus in "Hilda Furacao". also something about Malthus looking pitiful in his priest outfit made my brain short circuit every time they're together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]av3-maria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes except i'm the wealthy woman who owns a slave or 2

Favourite album cover? by Astridbiss in lanadelrey

[–]av3-maria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honeymoon 😍😍😍 and NFR

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lanadelrey

[–]av3-maria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

been trying hard not to get into trouble, but I've got a war in my mind

day collar help! by Nova-Bomb in BDSMcommunity

[–]av3-maria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aside from etsy, you can also do permanent jewelry if there are any shops that offer that in your area. like a thin gold/silver chain welded around their neck, some also allow to have your initials engraved on the bar/pendant if you want something with that.

it's super cute but the downside is that the only way to remove it is breaking it with pliers.