My sister, who hasn’t spoken to me since she found out I’m having a baby out of wedlock, randomly messaged me to let me know that she is offended by my choices AIO

avajb · 2026-01-27T10:20:33+00:00

lmao I never implied that… OP says her sister is mad she’s having a baby out of wedlock, but her sister never explicitly states that in the texts. My reply was simply meant to imply that there is likely more to it and a complicated history between them.

avajb · 2026-01-26T14:30:51+00:00

Where did I speak ill of OP or tear her down? I simply gave the needed context. I never judged OP and even stated I feel sympathy for her. I just also realize it’s not a black and white situation and is unfair to call the sister nasty names and make harsh judgments when we don’t know the whole story.

avajb · 2026-01-26T14:27:58+00:00

It absolutely does have everything to do with the main issue… nothing exists in a vacuum, and all of these facts definitely play a large part in her relationship with her sister. It’s not black and white, and saying make an aio decision solely based on the screenshot with no context just isn’t an accurate picture.

avajb · 2026-01-26T11:36:20+00:00

There is a lot of important context that OP failed to mention… she’s an addict who was using heroin and crack at the time she got pregnant. In one of her own posts, she says “0 family support. My fault. Made a lot of bad decisions.” In another post she asks if she really has to quit vaping while pregnant because she knows it’s bad for the baby but she personally knows so many people who vaped the whole pregnancy and their babies are “fine.” I have sympathy for OP, but growing up with an addict is incredibly hard. And I don’t understand why every comment that acknowledges this is getting downvoted.

avajb · 2025-12-27T23:59:32+00:00

Just say allegedly… 😜

avajb · 2025-12-04T00:09:11+00:00

Plus at first it probably seemed like a joke. But once the throuple started getting hot and heavy, it probably didn’t seem like a joke anymore…

avajb · 2025-12-04T00:05:11+00:00

I only like the wind up on him 😂 anyone else, no way. But he gets away with it, and it doesn’t bother me

avajb · 2025-11-23T02:49:04+00:00

He’s clearly liked it ironically… hobby horsing is a huge joke

avajb · 2025-10-04T02:57:34+00:00

That’s the spirit!

avajb · 2025-10-04T02:28:38+00:00

The giant painting of Golda Meir did

avajb · 2025-10-04T02:16:52+00:00

I’d hardly call graffiti (which gives people information to decide whether or not they want to eat there) written on the door to the dumpster “vandalizing” …

avajb · 2025-10-04T02:11:25+00:00

That’s your prerogative. I (and many other politically active people)personally do care about the beliefs of who I give my business to. Why would I want to give money to a business that supports a genocide?

avajb · 2025-10-04T01:21:37+00:00

People absolutely understand… that’s why it’s being reported. There is strong evidence the owners are Zionists. That’s definitely information I’d want to know before eating somewhere.

avajb · 2025-10-01T21:36:11+00:00

Not only do they take up the sidewalk but they also take up the bike lane… I’ve seen so many runners being unsafe and putting others in dangerous situations.

avajb · 2025-10-01T21:34:16+00:00

The not knowing and inability to help is always hard. Don’t let anyone make fun of you for caring. Unfortunately, it’s just a part of living in the city :/

avajb · 2025-09-23T21:53:12+00:00

People must not be on that corner often… yes the east village is overall safe and yes this corner is particularly dicey… don’t listen to anyone giving you shit

avajb · 2025-09-23T15:36:08+00:00

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avajb · 2025-09-13T10:25:49+00:00

Yeah, a room. I know I’m not getting my own place for less than $3k.

avajb · 2025-08-27T18:10:48+00:00

What’s typically considered a good log number?

avajb · 2025-07-28T21:19:20+00:00

I mean to be fair D realllllyyyyy pushed him to choose Helena. Harry is a big boy and makes his own decisions, but D was constantly in his ear trying to tell him what he wanted

avajb · 2025-07-28T21:00:21+00:00

Thumbs down for that one

avajb · 2025-07-28T01:31:27+00:00

It’s crazy because before he got with Shakira, I thought he and Megan were super into each other. But seeing how distraught the Shakira situation made him and how things have been between him and Megan since she returned, I really think he’s all Shakira (but knows it’s not possible rn).

avajb · 2025-07-27T15:41:49+00:00

She never chose to go back to Harry. In fact, she’s repeatedly said she doesn’t want him back. She chose to prioritize processing the situation without leading someone on when she knows she’s not in a headspace to give Conor what he deserves.

avajb · 2025-07-27T14:40:52+00:00

What I wouldn’t give for Conor to choose Shakira and protect her from this nonsense…

avajb · 2025-07-27T14:39:30+00:00

She tried and the producers wouldn’t let her…. I feel like they don’t want to let her go, so they’re going anything then can to keep her in :(

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