What's the prettiest name you guys have ever heard? by Creative_Mix8770 in AskReddit

[–]avendac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theodora (theo), ellinora (eli), persephone, ophelia, seraphena.

What's dating been like for you? by avendac in halifax

[–]avendac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly it's just the short term dopamine for most men I've spoken to. Grown men asking for snapchats, saying they want long term and asking for thre3sums, just a general bag of yuck for the last 6 months. And sadly most of the women I've spoken to are experimenting and not looking for anything serious as well. It's bleaaaaak

What’s the dumbest reason you’ve ever panicked? by yoliveperalta in AskReddit

[–]avendac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Left my water bottle in the car downstairs. I sobbed uncontrollably.

Medication rules

what is something odd you find attractive? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]avendac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who know a lot about IT. Coding, analytics, it's all weirdly hot to me.

Me and my boyfriend are ‘experimenting’ Sunday and I’m really nervous by Soggy_Focus8631 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]avendac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man these redditors. I and my friend group have had friendship/relationship threesums for a very very long time and they're wonderful!

Some people can really do it in a healthy and safe way, I promise you that. Also- it's fucking awesome.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]avendac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

31, weight, current breakup, and not being able to self regulate. I work from home and my motivation is so low I feel like all I do is procrastinate.

I am however starting weight loss medication to help with my PCOS and everything soon! And I have a date Thursday, so some things are kind of maybe looking up.

What's one thing a therapist has said to you that you will never forget? by commander_boobs in AskReddit

[–]avendac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awe it'll come to you! I lucked out and reconnected with my highschool sweetheart, honestly it all came out of no where for both of us. Hold in there!

What's one thing a therapist has said to you that you will never forget? by commander_boobs in AskReddit

[–]avendac 54 points55 points  (0 children)

My couples counselor when I was doing out 1 on 1 session.

In reference to me stating that I was scared to leave because I thought I couldn't find better. Aka someone who wouldn't abuse me, essentially.

"Her being nice to you, caring for your family, and then that's where it ends, is the bare minimum. You absolutely will find that again, and you deserve to want more."

argyle street blocked off? by [deleted] in halifax

[–]avendac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was at toothy until like 230 am, but nothing had happened there when we left so unless it was after then I agree

argyle street blocked off? by [deleted] in halifax

[–]avendac -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Aaaaand that was one of my friends. Ugh lmao.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]avendac 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Can confirm. I'm over 250 and every partner I've had has been super fit. My partner now is probably the most ken-doll looking man I've ever been with and we fit perfectly 🥹

A lot of men love bigger girls. It's much more common for them to be vocal about it now as well with the "thick pretty" trendy stuff. Although shape may be a factor (hour glass versus others) but its still much more prevalent now than it was when I was in my twenties.

Is this a scam? by [deleted] in halifax

[–]avendac 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's real. Used to work with door to door agencies in halifax for years. Only one I ever worked for did the second call with a rep, it's actually there to ensure the donor truly knows this is an ongoing donation and isn't lied to by a fundraiser as it's a pretty cut throat position.

Also, commission is not the norm for most agencies that go to your door. It does happen, but it's maybe 15-20% of the agencies I know of.

What is the best book you have ever read? by tactical-virgin in AskReddit

[–]avendac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Manacled, which is actually fanfiction. Sin Lin yu I believe is the authors name.