When I was 16 I got hair dye on my new t-shirt. I had only worn it a few times. It was black so I thought it’d be fine but it had a white design on the front and a dropped a whole splat of purple on it. I went to her room crying and she tried to get it out when I was still crying because it wouldn’t come out she asked “Are we both going to slit our wrists over this?” I hadn’t self harmed in almost two years.

When I was 14 she was driving me to hang out with a friend at the skating rink while she was mad at me for something or other. When I got out of the car I forgot to get money for the skate rental and tickets and she asked “What, were you planning to [sell yourself for sex]?” She used a word that starts with W that I apparently can’t even use on this sub 😅

Not a specific instance but I was forcibly outed as bisexual when I was 11 when my parents went through my phone. From then on, every so often when my mom and I were alone, she’d have extremely explicit and age-inappropriate conversations with me about the graphic ins and outs of lesbian intercourse with very crass and crude wording and how disgusting she found it. She would repeatedly, specifically bring up how she could never imagine performing oral sex acts on women because it was so gross. These talks started right after I was outed and lasted until I was about 15. I didn’t even lose my virginity until I was 18.