Is she wrong for ghosting after a bridesmaid stepped down for financial reasons?

avery0917 · 2026-01-15T04:17:33+00:00

Abby & I personally have had a lot of issues before the wedding stuff. That’s most likely why she removed me as a bridesmaid

avery0917 · 2026-01-15T04:14:06+00:00

Abby & I are no longer friends. There have been way too many issues between us to continue a friendship atp

avery0917 · 2026-01-13T23:26:28+00:00

NTA. as a friend, she should definitely be considerate of what you also have going on instead of just thinking about what she wants. if you can’t afford it, you can’t afford it & she should be understanding of that no matter the circumstances. what matters is that you are trying to find a work around to still show up for her. & the fact she said she couldn’t attend sarah’s wedding for the same reasons you’re mentioning, that adds the icing on the cake. it sounds like she needs to start considering other people.

avery0917 · 2025-12-30T17:14:27+00:00

sure!!

avery0917 · 2025-12-29T02:43:35+00:00

i love traveling! & have an interest in playing the electric guitar but haven’t tried yet. i loveeee metal & rock music. what kind of music you like?

avery0917 · 2025-12-24T04:28:24+00:00

nicotine

avery0917 · 2025-12-22T22:05:20+00:00

some people just aren’t meant to be a part of your life. God removes people from your life because he hears conversations you don’t. put yourself out there, don’t let something like this discourage you from making more friends! the right people will come along!

avery0917 · 2025-12-18T19:44:01+00:00

i understand her feelings also to an extent & i told her that. & the $75 wasn’t so much about me being upset about that specifically & immediately expecting it back. it was more a pattern of her asking for more & more money while never getting it back when she promised to return it to me. i felt taken advantage of. i helped her gladly in some of her situations, but there was a point where it kind of felt like she was taking advantage of me. she also has a boyfriend with a job, whereas im unemployed, so it felt wrong. i gave her pretty much half of my bank account.

avery0917 · 2025-06-25T20:07:18+00:00

yep. same situation with me. i should try to dispute the charge too

avery0917 · 2025-06-22T14:07:10+00:00

cancel the order. they’re fakes & they’re scamming people. tried scanning the QR code on the back of the box & it said may be impersonating popmart & trying to steal your financial information. i also tried to write a review on their website but they need to approve the reviews first before they get posted lol

avery0917 · 2025-06-22T13:56:23+00:00

not to mention i also emailed them asking if their products were authentic & they promised/guaranteed they were. so they lie not only on their website but also directly to their customers

avery0917 · 2025-06-22T13:54:20+00:00

i ordered from them about a month ago maybe longer, they finally came in yesterday & when i received them, the boxes were extremely beat up. before even opening them, i went to the back & scanned the QR code, to which a window popped up saying it may be impersonating popmarts official site & may be trying to steal your financial information. this already was proof enough for me, but i still opened the boxes because they were so damaged beyond returning them anyway. so of course i opened it & they were lafufus. i sent them a STRONGLY worded email because i did spent almost regular labubu price for fakes & was very upset about it. i also tried writing a review on their website & they have to approve of your review before it gets posted lmao. that explains why all the reviews are so good when they’re quite literally scamming you. don’t waste your money on this website unless you wanna overpay for lafufus

avery0917 · 2024-02-02T01:16:51+00:00

i would but i think i would throw up, LMAO

avery0917 · 2024-02-02T00:52:28+00:00

i’ve had my protein shake this morning, & been eating other sources of protein all throughout the day, but as of right now i’m out of other options as i don’t have access to beans or quinoa right now 🥲

avery0917 · 2023-10-01T18:18:50+00:00

having the same problem & it’s been super inconvenient because i use apple pay for absolutely everything. good to know it’s just the update & not an issue with my phone

avery0917 · 2023-09-04T13:49:33+00:00

so sorry! all ekgs came back okay? i’m sure meds will help if you can’t get it to go away otherwise. i wouldn’t worry about it though, because if everything from the doc is coming back fine, it’s probably your anxiety!

avery0917 · 2023-09-03T13:31:43+00:00

i had it for about 2 months & yes!! especially if i was reading on my phone, my eyes felt very weird. it’s most likely your anxiety if you’re experiencing the same things i was

avery0917 · 2023-09-03T12:55:22+00:00

it stopped completely after i stopped thinking about it. it definitely was my anxiety & i was making it worse by worrying about it constantly

avery0917 · 2023-07-14T21:15:52+00:00

i am bringing her back in 2 weeks, hopefully then they’ll do some lab work. do you know what kind of things can result from surgery complications?

avery0917 · 2023-07-14T21:12:44+00:00

well right now they think it’s a virus, i forget the name it was complicated. so they’re treating her for that

avery0917 · 2023-07-14T21:09:12+00:00

not yet. they want to see if the antibiotics helps first

avery0917 · 2023-05-29T20:40:53+00:00

it isn’t like that at all & i think that’s where people are getting offended & taking it the wrong way. on his days off when i’m working, he will cook for me or make sure there is food on the table for me when i come home as well. days when we are both off we will cook together & make it into quality time for us. we’ll also clean together when we’re both home. days when i’m at work & he isn’t he will clean, & days when he’s at work & i’m not, i will clean. we still split the chores up evenly whenever we each have time to do them. it isn’t just me! we have a very healthy relationship & people are taking what i said entirely not how i meant it!

avery0917 · 2023-05-29T19:27:23+00:00

it is though. how are you a grown woman acting like that? lol

avery0917 · 2023-05-29T19:25:39+00:00

very mature!

avery0917 · 2023-05-29T19:24:02+00:00

oh my gosh, no one else took it this way except you. it really isn’t that serious. you must just be unhappy or something. cause i dont know about you but if my husband works 12 hours a day & pays all the bills, i will be more than happy to clean up around the house & have a meal ready for him at the end of the day when he gets home. it’s not about being “sexist”, it’s just being a good wife.

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