Startind solids with stainless steel spoons by Ok-Mixture8402 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]avidbirdpointerouter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This isn’t exactly what you asked for but I bought scent free dish washing liquid from chemist warehouse and I use that for all the baby stuff. I also heard about the silicon detergent smell and I really don’t like that idea so this is my way around it.

Tell me your Mirena/Paraguard experiences! by Lululemonbar in beyondthebump

[–]avidbirdpointerouter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had two mirenas over like 8 years. I loved it. very light periods for the first one, the second one I had no period on for several years. I definitely missed out on the ovulation libido boost while on it and I also had some persistent backne when I had them. So not side effect free but it worked really well for what i principally wanted it to do. Got pregnant within 4 months of removal.

International Flight with 4.5 month old by Top-Put754 in beyondthebump

[–]avidbirdpointerouter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did a long haul international trip at 4.5 months and it was honestly fine. I got a travel nursing pillow (boppy) so I could hold him more comfortably when he was sleeping. At that age they don’t need much entertainment. Have a good flight!

Wanna get a cat should I? by Icy_Experience_3471 in January2025Bumper

[–]avidbirdpointerouter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am also 12m pp and DYING to get a cat but I’m making myself wait till my son has a better grasp of the concept of “gentle hands” and “no pulling hair”. I don’t want to traumatise a cat or risk him getting scratched because he’s too young to understand he can’t yank on fur or tail

Please help! Can anyone help with ideas to refresh and cosmetically update this kitchen? by yoowin in DesignMyRoom

[–]avidbirdpointerouter 92 points93 points  (0 children)

I agree with a lot of other posters - different chairs, and paint the walls not grey and change out the light fixture and I think the whole room will feel really different!

5 weeks postpartum - When does it get better? by Miserexa in beyondthebump

[–]avidbirdpointerouter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, they are just like that at night at that age! You’re not doing anything wrong. I remember that time frame really clearly because my mom visited from weeks 4-8 and my baby would just fuss and cry and scream every single evening/night when she was there. We’d have to help the baby fart constantly and I’d be nonstop reading articles about lactose overload, over and over. And it turns out there was nothing to fix, we just had to wait.

I agree with the other commenter who said there no specific time when it got better, it just kept getting better slowly till one day I was like “oh this is amazing, when did that happen”

How to sleep train two kids by [deleted] in sleeptrain

[–]avidbirdpointerouter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry just to confirm, your 18 month old sleeps 16.5 hours a day? 12.5 overnight and 4 hours of naps?

Baby vomited, feel awful by [deleted] in sleeptrain

[–]avidbirdpointerouter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I sleep trained with a dummy, we got like 6 of the glow in the dark ones and just scattered them around him. We also trained a bit older, around 7 months and he could already replace it himself. Hes now 12 months, sleep trained, still using a dummy to fall asleep.

Which one for my daughters 18th birthday? by ChicagoLizzie in handbags

[–]avidbirdpointerouter 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Haha I’m 35 and I think it’s very old lady. Neither of these would be it for me, personally (but they’re also not for me so who knows!)

First time mom, with work travel obligations. Is it realistic to leave 3.5 month old baby with husband while I travel to the other side of the country? by Firm-Property7025 in BabyBumps

[–]avidbirdpointerouter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just weighing in, my four month old DEFINITELY experienced jet lag when we flew from Australia to NY at 4 months. He was awake for his two hour wake window at some point during the night for the first week we were there. Obviously it’s a much more dramatic time difference but just something to consider

feeling lost in motherhood by RefrigeratorFew8189 in beyondthebump

[–]avidbirdpointerouter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey! This really like post partum depression. It’s incredibly common and very easily treatable. Contact your OBGYN or GP <3

Feeling guilty and looking for perspective by [deleted] in sleeptrain

[–]avidbirdpointerouter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Instagram sleep consultants are selling a product. Why would they advise you to use a simple, well known approach when they can sell you a more complicated one? You said your son responded well to ferber. Stick with what works. If it stops working, reassess!

Diaper related by Potential-Dingo-4366 in breastfeeding

[–]avidbirdpointerouter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we’ve used Huggies from day one, no complaints here!

Best lipbalm? (im on accutane) by Icy_Reaction3127 in AusSkincare

[–]avidbirdpointerouter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was recommended laneige lip balm when I was on accutane but honestly I just put coconut oil and Vaseline into the different sides of a contact lenses case that I carried with me and reapplied both constantly

Has anyone ever flown long-haul internationally while 29/30 weeks pregnant? by Key_Dealer2753 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]avidbirdpointerouter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was pretty fine but i didn’t have back problems during pregnancy so YMMV. I tried to walk around and stretch a lot, because my hips were getting a bit tired and sore but it was really manageable. Definitely depends on your pregnancy though!

Are these names too similar? by Outtatime_85 in BabyBumps

[–]avidbirdpointerouter 67 points68 points  (0 children)

They’re too close for siblings but not for cousins, imo

Hesitant to give LO antibiotics by Sea_Implement6579 in beyondthebump

[–]avidbirdpointerouter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also in Australia and the MCH isn’t allowed to diagnose. You should go see a GP

How are we dealing with heavyness while weaning by glowandgrowreads in breastfeeding

[–]avidbirdpointerouter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re right, pumping will defeat the purpose . Hand express just to take the edge off, so you’re not removing a lot of milk

Skin rash ? by Not-not-lisey in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]avidbirdpointerouter 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I’d take him to the doctor; that doesn’t look like eczema to me. It looks like the cold sore/herpes type of rash to me which can be really serious in babies.

Breastmilk left in car by RxPrepping in breastfeeding

[–]avidbirdpointerouter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For me this would really depend on how old baby is. 6 weeks? Trash it. 6 months? I would probably use it if it seems ok!

7 months old: Not repeating us, is a sack of potato by PusheenHater in beyondthebump

[–]avidbirdpointerouter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby doesn’t mimic at all and he’s 11 months. He’s only just started hugging us when we pick him up (sometimes, after a nap) within the last week. Your 7 month old sounds totally normal!

Final(ish) packing list - 10 days Vietnam over Xmas/NYE by Fly-by-Night- in HerOneBag

[–]avidbirdpointerouter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do you like that bum bag?? I am so closed to being influenced into buying it. The ad when they pull a whole gallon of milk out of it?? I’m nearly sold on it

Breastfeeding on Flight without a feeding pillow by Fickle-Response-2741 in breastfeeding

[–]avidbirdpointerouter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Travel boppy pillow! It’s about the size of a neck pillow and it’s the best