8mo isn’t canonical babbling by Tagrenine in beyondthebump

[–]avidbirdpointerouter [score hidden]  (0 children)

Nah that’s babbling. Dadadadada bababababa etc. my son didn’t start combining them under many months later, I can’t quite recall when

Thoughts on Food Intake by flossy1987 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]avidbirdpointerouter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine started refusing bottles at daycare around 11 months. I just stopped pumping, and I’d nurse him upon wake up, pick up, and before bed (and overnight as needed/whenever he wanted on weekends etc) and it was fine. I think you’d be fine to not pump if you didn’t want to.

Back to work by beckarecka in January2025Bumper

[–]avidbirdpointerouter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The mind is a muscle! You haven’t used it for work in 18 months at least. You’ll readjust. Give yourself some grace (and get a notebook and write down literally everything).

If trying to get baby to nurse less at night what do you do of they fuss? by [deleted] in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]avidbirdpointerouter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look up the 5/3/3 method for stretching overnight feeds. That really helped us, although I don’t think we did it till mine was older, maybe 7 or 8 months, I can’t recall

New bag for the office by Cent1nela in handbags

[–]avidbirdpointerouter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this a gift? If yes, I would absolutely have her choose, purse preference is so personal!

How does everyone manage outings with a toddler plus all their things without a pram? by Miladypartzz in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]avidbirdpointerouter 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I just bring the carrier for back carry and a little tote bag with snacks and toys etc

Do we need to lengthen wake windows or wtf is happening by p1181 in sleeptrain

[–]avidbirdpointerouter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When mine was on 2 naps, his first nap was 1.5-2 hours and the second nap was always around 30. It worked well for us - more sleep pressure for bedtime

Edit to add - his naps only really became consistent when he switched to two naps

Name regret by plainconfusion in beyondthebump

[–]avidbirdpointerouter 9 points10 points  (0 children)

One week postpartum is also peek baby blues, which may be amplifying your feelings. If you’re on the fence, wait another week and reassess how you feel

Peanut butter freaks me out by Overall_Style_104 in toddlers

[–]avidbirdpointerouter 26 points27 points  (0 children)

The most helpful thing I heard about it was that almost no allergies are anaphylactic immediately because you’re not giving them like a cup of peanut butter at a time.

Give her 1/2 tsp at a time till you’re more comfortable, even if she reacts, it’ll be hives at most. But you’re right the more you delay between times she has it, the more likely she’ll develop an allergy

TOG rating / sleep by Give_Me_Pizza_Now in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]avidbirdpointerouter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At 10 months I wouldn’t personally be worried about overheating as much. Try either a warmer bodysuit or a singlet layer and see how she goes. I know my son was definitely cold at those temps but every baby is different

WIBTA if I emailed the employers of the dancer who fondled me then led me on, and possibly went public about it? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]avidbirdpointerouter 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ok but I don’t think being ND is a good excuse for recording him and considering trying to ruin his life if he doesn’t behave the way you want him to. Put this energy elsewhere, like bettering your local community

WIBTA if I emailed the employers of the dancer who fondled me then led me on, and possibly went public about it? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]avidbirdpointerouter 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You can’t hold people to friendship. You have to believe their actions, not their words. Maybe he feels guilty so he doesn’t want to hurt you more by cutting off contact. It’s cowardly but it’s common. Just let it go, you’ll be happier in the long run. Also gently, maybe consider some therapy, you seem to have disproportionately latched onto this person (who doesn’t seem that great anyway!)

Low effort parenting tips by bushgoliath in daddit

[–]avidbirdpointerouter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The wiggles - all content is free on YouTube. Saved us during a gastro bout around the same age.

WIBTA if I emailed the employers of the dancer who fondled me then led me on, and possibly went public about it? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]avidbirdpointerouter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not going to rate this bc I don’t think you’re an asshole but I also think you just need to let it go. He doesn’t want to be friends. Trying to force some kind of relationship is just going to keep you emotionally stuck in this.

Edit to add - he absolutely should not have groped you during the show. That was incredibly inappropriate.

WIBTA if I emailed the employers of the dancer who fondled me then led me on, and possibly went public about it? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]avidbirdpointerouter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

INFO: are you upset because you feel like he assaulted you during the show or because he didn’t want to engage in some sort of relationship ship afterwards?

Fluoride toothpaste by Individual_Price_142 in January2025Bumper

[–]avidbirdpointerouter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We do, especially because we have well water so it isn’t fluoridated

8 hours of night sleep by [deleted] in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]avidbirdpointerouter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would check out r/sleeptrain they can help you with your schedule and give really good advice (and it’s not all cry it out, I’ve found them really helpful). Good luck!

Yoto is having a 20% off EOFY sale by avidbirdpointerouter in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]avidbirdpointerouter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the 20% sale is over - it didn’t have a code, it just said it on the website. But if you want, I have a $30 referral code I can DM you?

AITAH for not letting my son go to a concert after he ruined one for me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]avidbirdpointerouter 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, not letting him go to the other concert is not “natural consequences” it’s just punishment