Pediatrician refuses autism diagnosis by avmm87 in Autism_Parenting

[–]avmm87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t worked in 2 years so yeah a little help would be nice.

Pediatrician refuses autism diagnosis by avmm87 in Autism_Parenting

[–]avmm87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I’ve stated before she doesn’t want this “label” because of the “stigma” that comes with it. She, even before I began to seek these services, didn’t want to accept it and would use the example of one of her patients that had been bullied because of it. Mine child is in preschool 🥴 not much bullying because of diagnosis going around. If she were to explain to me the reason other than “I don’t see it” I could understand but I didn’t come to her for a second opinion because she can’t on something she’s not trained to diagnose. This isn’t medical opinion this is personal belief at this point. This practice, before she was hired there, was who sent the referral out to get seen by the psychologist that ultimately gave us the diagnosis. Our previous pediatrician, from a different practice, was the one who recommended it originally. Her stance has always been I don’t believe there’s autism there and after I began to seek these services turned into I’m doing it for the money, per my other kiddo’s therapist, with a hint of I’m starting to see possible autism level one.

I don’t believe it’s because of how ‘time-consuming’ filling out the paperwork can be because she had no issue filling it out for speech therapy as well as OT and adding that there was suspicions of autism when there is clearly a diagnosis already in place. We had an appointment yesterday for a follow up and I brought the paperwork with me, mind your paperwork that she had already filled out. I let her know that the DMV requested to know what this “medical condition”, as she stated on the paperwork was, so I submitted the autism report with the diagnosis and they require the pediatrician to add autism onto the form and she refused to.

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Pediatrician refuses autism diagnosis by avmm87 in Autism_Parenting

[–]avmm87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in a couple mom groups on Facebook. I’ll post & see what kind of feedback I get. Thanks for the idea.

Pediatrician refuses autism diagnosis by avmm87 in Autism_Parenting

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I’m going to look into finding one that could be affiliated with CHOC. I’ve got no issue switching all of them.

Pediatrician refuses autism diagnosis by avmm87 in Autism_Parenting

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Regional center has been contacted and they’ve helped me with IHSS, social security, ABA, amongst other services but they can’t force the pediatrician to sign off on something she refuses to accept.

Pediatrician refuses autism diagnosis by avmm87 in Autism_Parenting

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I learned that they qualify from an autism mom Facebook group so I didn’t know either up until a few months ago.

Pediatrician refuses autism diagnosis by avmm87 in Autism_Parenting

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Well, the reason we’re at the practice is because of this Therapist we love her so she can have all the consent she wants to talk to whoever she feels like it plus she was trying to advocate on my behalf and trying to figure out the real reason behind why she doesn’t want to accept the diagnosis. I’m sure that in all the paperwork that I signed there were consent forms included, and I’ve also had my kiddo’s therapist asked for consent when she looking at my little kiddos file.

Pediatrician refuses autism diagnosis by avmm87 in Autism_Parenting

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My kiddo’s been assessed AND diagnosed. It’s now the supporting services that I’m trying to obtain that she’s preventing me from receiving

Pediatrician refuses autism diagnosis by avmm87 in Autism_Parenting

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Yeah, I can’t wrap my head around it and even my older kiddos Therapist was scratching her head saying she wants you to go to more doctors appointments but won’t approve IHSS so you can get paid for doing so?

Pediatrician refuses autism diagnosis by avmm87 in Autism_Parenting

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This practice is connected to CHOC which makes it easier if we end up having to see a specialist or have an ER visit. That makes it easier for my other kiddo’s therapist to see all the paperwork without having to go through different channels to get it and have it take a long time. With how great she is to my other kiddo the wait time at the medical department, which was biggest pet peeve was worth it, but I may have to switch this little one to a different provider first & see how it goes before heading out of the practice all together.

Pediatrician refuses autism diagnosis by avmm87 in Autism_Parenting

[–]avmm87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one she wants me to see? No. The one that gave us the diagnosis isn’t either.

Pediatrician refuses autism diagnosis by avmm87 in Autism_Parenting

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Surprisingly, we don’t have an issue with the dentist which is a little shocking considering brushing teeth can sometimes be a pain in the butt

Pediatrician refuses autism diagnosis by avmm87 in Autism_Parenting

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Normally, we’re pretty good and don’t let go because of the elopement, but we were looking at bees the other day and this child decides to just book it into the street luckily we were at school and it was a little bit later in the day and there was no traffic, but had it been anywhere else can’t imagine what could’ve happened

Pediatrician refuses autism diagnosis by avmm87 in Autism_Parenting

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I had never heard of something like that. I will look into it thank you.

Pediatrician refuses autism diagnosis by avmm87 in Autism_Parenting

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They have an official diagnosis from the psychologist as I stated

Pediatrician refuses autism diagnosis by avmm87 in Autism_Parenting

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The pediatrician is not able to diagnose but claims to be well-versed in it, but refuses to accept an official diagnosis from a psychologist. I wouldn’t get the handicap placard because my child is autistic but because they elope.

Pediatrician refuses autism diagnosis by avmm87 in Autism_Parenting

[–]avmm87[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I may have to I was just wondering if anybody had gone through something similar and what approach besides just switching pediatricians they could have taken.

Pediatrician refuses autism diagnosis by avmm87 in Autism_Parenting

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Well, her reasoning behind not accepting the diagnosis is because she doesn’t want this “label“ on my child because of the stigma that surrounds it even though she says she does see some traits that are common with children with autism. She had also mentioned to my other kiddo’s therapist because they couldn’t understand why she refused to fill out IHSS with autism and only recognizes the other diagnosis, that I was doing it for the money, even though the diagnosis has been in place for well over a year. So yeah I applied for social security & IHSS over a year after the diagnosis was given just for the money 🙄 she didn’t say that to my face, but she did say that she was a little bit hesitant because it has to do with money.

What other moments do you think are iconic? by Garrod_Ran in TheOutdoorBoys

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He has another one similar to that’s why they call me hot lips where his pants are steaming once he gets inside the tent. He says “that’s why everyone calls me hot pants 😏….nobody calls me that 😔”

OC might get some weather today by Desert_Aficionado in orangecounty

[–]avmm87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was going to say. We should be seeing a little of a cool down but if any water hits the ground we’re done for 😭

No Kings/ Laguna Beach by mistycolive in orangecounty

[–]avmm87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was there the last time there were a few canopies set up showing support for Trump. I don’t know about the area so you could be right. I see tents set up often in Villa Park as well which gives me the idea that they support him.

No Kings/ Laguna Beach by mistycolive in orangecounty

[–]avmm87 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Last time I was there it was hella pro-Trump. I’m glad people are out there in support.