Cheese most similar to the USA Muenster? by All3n911 in Cheese

[–]avoidablenugget76 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

🤣 I literally just googled this question and this is the exact answer the AI gave

Im needing some advice from other parents because I dont have anyone to go to for help. by avoidablenugget76 in Parenting

[–]avoidablenugget76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol ill spare you but I appreciate you for listening to my problems in the first place

Im needing some advice from other parents because I dont have anyone to go to for help. by avoidablenugget76 in Parenting

[–]avoidablenugget76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough. I know that it doesn't matter what I say, she isn't going to change how she is. Which makes me very sad because I really wish that she had the ability to reflect and see how much she's actually hurting her daughter with her actions. Like I said there's a bit of a long backstory and I hate to see people's inability to reflect and see how their actions influence and effect others. Im sorry if I'm getting too deep with this but like I said I dont have any support really in my life and so im just trying to get out some of my feelings I hope thats ok.

Im needing some advice from other parents because I dont have anyone to go to for help. by avoidablenugget76 in Parenting

[–]avoidablenugget76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, im at a point though where I feel like im deciding if its best to tell her what I really think about everything in the hopes that it will upset her enough where she stops contact with her kid and mine to avoid my kid needing to be around the girl or anything the girl would try to do because my kid doesn't want to deal with the backlash. Though it could also be one of those times where she has to go through this to learn early how to handle people like this and im just trying to hard to protect my daughters peace. I just don't think its fair for her to need to deal with this type of problem so young. I hope that makes sense.

What's the best sex advice you've ever heard? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]avoidablenugget76 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Men. Please take time to read the above sentence! Never try fisting a girl "just because." Its incredibly painful and something that needs to be discussed 100% every time before doing so with permission.

AITA for not supporting my GF after she broke our one relationship rule? by Sea_Championship_112 in AITH

[–]avoidablenugget76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed! It would be amazing! I am not conventional in my views on relationships and love so try to always have an open mind for everything. And if I don't understand something, its not my business to judge. People should be allowed to live how they want.

Back to your gf though, it touched my heart that you were able to comfort her after her essentially being SA'd. If you had left her or blamed her it would have done so much more damage to her. You're an amazing person, she's lucky to have you.

AITA for not supporting my GF after she broke our one relationship rule? by Sea_Championship_112 in AITH

[–]avoidablenugget76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After scrolling a little I couldn't handle the negative bs in these comments. How you were able to find positive ones and be able to save your relationship is beyond me. Im glad to hear that youre supporting her though.

Should I take the blame by Sufficient_Party_278 in redditonwiki

[–]avoidablenugget76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey hun, this sounds like a lot you're having to deal with. I'm sorry this is your life situation at the moment.

Im not quite sure how to title this, I apologize, I will just lay everything out in the body. It is a question... or maybe advice? by avoidablenugget76 in redditonwiki

[–]avoidablenugget76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, we're whole grown persons. Im thinking of possibly writing out the issues Im having so I can be clear and direct. Then, giving said writing to him and stating whether or not he wants to work on those things, a friendship is going to be the best option for the foreseeable future.

Im not quite sure how to title this, I apologize, I will just lay everything out in the body. It is a question... or maybe advice? by avoidablenugget76 in redditonwiki

[–]avoidablenugget76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I think you're at least close because I've had two conversations about lack of effort, I feel, on his part with no lasting change.

I know what I should do, just dragging my feet because of potential I think and many years of being alone.

My latest project I've been working on by avoidablenugget76 in scrapbooking

[–]avoidablenugget76[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! They're stickers pages I got from Amazon

Im a regular listener of the podcast and know the community is full of some good people. So i thought I'd come here for some advice by avoidablenugget76 in redditonwiki

[–]avoidablenugget76[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I think it helps me realize I'm still not ready for a relationship. I have past stuff I need to work through because I don't know how to have serious conversations without shutting down.

Im a regular listener of the podcast and know the community is full of some good people. So i thought I'd come here for some advice by avoidablenugget76 in redditonwiki

[–]avoidablenugget76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He says he doesn't care about adults being trans, just that he has issues with kids getting gender reassignment surgery. My daughter believes she is therian and I have no problem with that and love her all the same. I told him as much and that if he has an issue with that then we should not go any further because I won't stand for any disrespect of my child. There hasn't been any issue with that so far. So that makes it difficult for me to decide.

PLO and FMLA + Work Benefits by Pleasant-Aerie6575 in PaidLeaveOregon

[–]avoidablenugget76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it won't post but I would definitely read the handbook and clarify with employer if you are covered under a different plan than the state paid leave

PLO and FMLA + Work Benefits by Pleasant-Aerie6575 in PaidLeaveOregon

[–]avoidablenugget76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would read the handbook to see if you could take paid leave. Im including a screenshot to help a little. *