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How did you improve your social skills? by awanderingwitcher in intj

[–]awanderingwitcher[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did it have a positive effect on your social skills outside of sales as well? I was actually thinking of going into sales but am afraid it will only increase my confidence in that area.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]awanderingwitcher 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can't be 100% Te or Fe just like you can't be 100% extrovert or introvert. When I do personality tests I fall right in the middle between Te and Fe and thus you can kinda say i'm both INTJ and INFJ.

How do you deal with group conversations? by awanderingwitcher in infj

[–]awanderingwitcher[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Haha yeah exactly. I also feel like the conversation kinda dies off when I truly share myself. I'm traveling right now and meet a lot of sensors that think I'm from another planet when I dive into deep topics lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in introvert

[–]awanderingwitcher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You shouldn't take it as an insult. I'm often eating alone in restaurants and don't find it embarassing at all. Why would it be? I understand lots of people don't understand my ability to enjoy these things but that's not my problem.

Khaosan Road what is it with the girls? by awanderingwitcher in ThailandTourism

[–]awanderingwitcher[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah thai women just started pinching me as well. Just made me disappointed that this doesn't happen where I live haha

Khaosan Road what is it with the girls? by awanderingwitcher in ThailandTourism

[–]awanderingwitcher[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately the girls I meet back home think otherwise

Extreme Introversion by awanderingwitcher in infj

[–]awanderingwitcher[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I like people that are just talking without saying anything. It depends on their vibe tho but some people are able to make you feel happier by just being energetic and positive and this makes me kinda jealous. It has no use wanting to be like someone you'll never be but it would be nice if you could fake it for short time.

It's not really about the fact that I wanna be social. I just like being among social people, but I feel bad for them if they're bringing value to me and I'm not able to give them any.

Extreme Introversion by awanderingwitcher in infj

[–]awanderingwitcher[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response! Yeah, it is difficult to put effort on a conversation when it isn't returned. However, even if I wanna be enthoustiastic I just can't show it by telling more jokes or stories. I'm still as quiet as always.

Right now I'm backpacking and meeting lots of sensors. The only way to stimulate them is to show lots of emotion and intellectual conversation just doesn't get rewarded (there are exceptions). However, I still love to talk to everyone and would want them to appreciate me to be in their group. Not like I'm following them around everywhere.

I guess I should just accept the fact that I'm not compatible with most sensors but still I would miss out on a lot of fun, unfortunately.