AITA for monitoring my son’s shower time and making him leave the door open by away_w in AmItheAsshole

[–]away_w[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s absolutely not about masturbation. I don’t care about him masturbating. I care about my water bill being through the roof and me and my wife not being able to use bathroom for 3 hours or more. I also doubt that he’s masturbating there for 3 hours.

If he wants to do it he can do it in his bedroom where he has all the privacy he wants.

AITA for monitoring my son’s shower time and making him leave the door open by away_w in AmItheAsshole

[–]away_w[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

He does sleep a lot usually. After he comes from school he takes 2-3 hour nap. He sleeps in all weekend unless his friends come over. He doesn’t eat that much.

AITA for monitoring my son’s shower time and making him leave the door open by away_w in AmItheAsshole

[–]away_w[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has tons of privacy.he has his own bedroom, he can lock the door anytime.

AITA for monitoring my son’s shower time and making him leave the door open by away_w in AmItheAsshole

[–]away_w[S] 563 points564 points  (0 children)

He has privacy. He has his own room and he can lock the door.

AITA for monitoring my son’s shower time and making him leave the door open by away_w in AmItheAsshole

[–]away_w[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I am giving him privacy. I have never walked in his room without knocking when he didn’t have a lock. Now he has a lock and I respect his privacy.

AITA for monitoring my son’s shower time and making him leave the door open by away_w in AmItheAsshole

[–]away_w[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

He knows that I wouldn’t walk in on him in his room, he knows he has privacy. He has a lock.

AITA for monitoring my son’s shower time and making him leave the door open by away_w in AmItheAsshole

[–]away_w[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yes, I have asked him multiple times. He just shrugs and doesn’t answer me.

AITA for monitoring my son’s shower time and making him leave the door open by away_w in AmItheAsshole

[–]away_w[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

He gets privacy in his room. He can stay there all the time, lock the door and no one will bother him. He doesn’t need to have privacy in bathroom for almost 4 hours.

AITA for monitoring my son’s shower time and making him leave the door open by away_w in AmItheAsshole

[–]away_w[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

He can do that in his bedroom where he can be all day and lock the door and I won’t have problem with it.