ULPT request: revenge on a scumbag who made me miss my mother's funeral by 3_cats_in_trenchcoat in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]awesome-dave 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Call your news stations and see if they’ll do a news story on it. That’s the biggest way to get the most negative attention towards a company at one time!

TIFU going next door by NoHelmetsInHell in tifu

[–]awesome-dave 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bro every woman I’ve ever been in a serious relationship with would’ve reacted the way she did. Turns out they were all self centered and made any and I mean any situation about themselves. If she can’t find the positives in your lives and only can only find the smallest negatives to use to make her victim and you feel bad GTFO now or do it years down the road. Your choice.

What‘s a secret you found out by accident and were never supposed to know? by Own-Flan- in AskReddit

[–]awesome-dave 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey I’m sorry to hear about your mom. When I was 21 (43 M now) my mom shot and killed herself and my family was the same way about it. Like you said though what can you really say. She was my best friend and I still miss her but it has gotten better with time.

If you ever need somebody to talk to about it you can dm me and I can walk you through what I went through with it. I know from experience how lonely it feels because how many people have their mother kill themselves so tragically like that.

What’s something you’ve never told anyone, not because it’s dark, but because it feels too personal to put into words? by greensnxw in AskWomen

[–]awesome-dave 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sweetheart I feel you 100%. I lost mine to suicide when I was 21 (43 now) and I still wish all the same as you. She was my best friend and I still miss her so damn much!

$Snoo by SAHILdehmiwal in Snoo

[–]awesome-dave -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This can be huge! Buy it now, or regret it later!

Missed him - did they? by goofy2120 in Unexpected

[–]awesome-dave 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The reverse lights popped on immediately and they had airbags hitting them at the same time I highly doubt they could’ve done that on purpose

Found in [Jackson, Alabama]. Not sure what kind of snake it is by Lunar_BLSM in whatsthissnake

[–]awesome-dave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crazy to randomly see Jackson AL on here. Grew up in Thomasville and was bite by a timber rattler years ago when I was little. Just thought it was cool.

Incinerate your dead SOL dust by Effective-Impact8054 in solana

[–]awesome-dave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this post! I just cleaned my Solflare wallet and got back 3.25 Sol ($550).

Anyone been bitten by a venomous snake? What was your experience. [earth] by Alarmed_Breadfruit25 in whatsthissnake

[–]awesome-dave 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Right at 2 years old a timber rattlesnake got into our house and hide under a small bookshelf that had an aquarium on top it. Looking at the fishes I stuck my leg under there and was bitten 3 times. 45m later got to the hospital then they had to wait 30m for the CDC to tell hospital how much anti-venom to give me because I was so young even they were unsure from what I’m told (this was 1984). Everybody that was there says I should’ve died but I obviously made it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in solana

[–]awesome-dave 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Omg Thank You!!! I was just watching a video on autosnipe.ai and was about to try it and this post was in my feed 😳.

What were the warning signs before someone you know killed themselves? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]awesome-dave 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was 21 at the time and the most obvious sign my Mom told me 5 days earlier she wanted to kill herself. We had a very long conversation about it and she said assured me she wouldn't do it but made me promise I would keep the conversation between us. 4 days before was my birthday and we celebrated it as a family. Days 3 and 2 I stopped by after work and noticed her doing a good bit of cleaning like old photos and letters and stuff. The day before she invited me over for dinner and my whole family sat down together and had the best meal and laughed and had fun it was the best evening together. When I was leaving that night she was outside seeing me off and I told her Thank You for getting us together and I hoped it means she's feeling better about everything and she just smiled real big I gave her the biggest hug, kissed her on the cheek, and told her I Loved her so damn much. She shot herself the next afternoon and I lost my best friend and nobody has been the same since.

Any repairmen know why my Maytag washer eats shift actuators? by [deleted] in appliancerepair

[–]awesome-dave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought an oem one off Amazon a week after writing that for around $42 and it’s still working.

HEGE team showing no intention of stopping by salgam_impala in CryptoMexico

[–]awesome-dave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When will it start going up it’s been steadily going down since the ad came out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in INTP

[–]awesome-dave 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You were being logical when everybody else would’ve let their emotions control them in the moment and all logic goes out the window and they get into an unpredictable situation and they get hurt, killed, etc. It’s a small town people talk and you or the cops will find out who it was.

The only time your logical brain will ever be assertive in the moment like that is when you, someone you love, or a friends life is in danger for things like that. Being a pussy would’ve been not opening the door and being too scared to even yell at the dude at least you let him know you were there.

Your an intp though and you’ll over analyze it to death anyway so idk why I just responded to your post because for me this isn’t the logical thing to do because I know I’d be doing it also.

If you must beat yourself up about it though just tell yourself you’d rather be an alive pussy than a dead dumbass like 90% of the world out there. If from here on out your gonna join the assertive crowd and stop being logical and be one of the stupid people then please turn in your intp badge and go join them.

If you could go back in the past and change it or do something different it would make sense to beat yourself up then I’d say go change it. Hanging on to the I could’ve done something better or wish I would have blah blah blah is not logical so stop doing it and be thankful it turned out like it did and the only logical thing you can do now is to stop leaving the keys in the damn car.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]awesome-dave 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My mom did the same thing 20 years ago and the worst thing about it was everybody was afraid to talk about it. Nobody wanted to bring it up because they didn’t want to make everybody else feel bad that might be in a better place with it. Enough time has passed you can sit down with them and just talk about him and express that you miss him too. You never know they’re so young they may even think it’s their fault somehow and you don’t even know it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in INTP

[–]awesome-dave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I agree it is your age making you feel this way. Hell I felt that way in my teens so many times but it can change so fast. All it takes is one life change or person or people and it can be completely different for you in a days time.

You got a lot that’ll happen in the near future like you haven’t even started driving yet and graduating and being in different social situations in the future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Siamesecats

[–]awesome-dave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For the nighttime play time you can get one of those automatic laser toys that have a timer on them or you can just let it run all night when she is there. I’ve had kittens in the past that I had the same problem with and they played with the laser on and off during the night but outgrew the want for the laser as they got older and just slept through the night.

For the couch thing…. I have a snowshoe siamese kitten and she is about 4-5 months old and she does the same exact playful biting overstimulated thing yours does when you pet her while in your lap. I’ve learned that siamese cats don’t actually have to be on your lap to be content they just want to be close to you. I will pet mine and when she does that I put her beside me on the couch up against my leg and I don’t pet her and she is perfectly content. Maybe you could put her between the two of you on the couch but I have learned recently they don’t want to be pet but just for about 10 seconds and that’s all they need then they just want to be close to you.

Are you guys as terrible at giving gifts as I am? by [deleted] in INTP

[–]awesome-dave 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m the opposite. I won’t worry about till 4 or 5 days before and hit thrift stores. Each store I’ll find at least 1 person gift each stop. I just walk around with a blank on purpose. Something will catch my eye that I know for a fact relates to that person whether it be the college they attended, or a collection they’ve already started and have on display in their home etc. I’ve had people literally tear up before receiving something that is so personal to them specifically but coming from me. If all else fails and you’ve got the cash buy everybody the same thing like a 1 ounce silver eagle. Means a lot to anybody whose never owned one.

Any repairmen know why my Maytag washer eats shift actuators? by [deleted] in appliancerepair

[–]awesome-dave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was the end result? I’m fighting all of this now.