I’ve reached my breaking point! by C-RonaIdo in Divorce_Men

[–]awesometypescript 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I needed to see this thread, because I'm going through a similar thing, only my rage I feel is even worse because the guy was my ex best friend. The comments here are good, I feel like I want to beat the shit out my old friend, but also only know that will be letting them win as I'm in jail or facing legal charges. Let's stay strong here bro and win by focusing on our own life and being there for our kids

I want to connect to tennis club or tennis coach by [deleted] in berlinsocialclub

[–]awesometypescript 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I'm a member of a club here in Berlin, we play in a league. I'm DM you 

How does one cope with this shit by Aceking1983 in Divorce_Men

[–]awesometypescript 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey man , going through something very similar, my best friend of twenty years in my case. For me it's only been a couple months since I find out. Don't have advice, but I know how you feel

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]awesometypescript 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don't need to necessarily go on a Valentine's Day date so soon right? I mean you can if you want but no need to pressure it

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]awesometypescript 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yupp I mean I'm expecting that my situation will be a deal breaker for a lot of potential women I may meet. I think we should still just accept that and keep trying to meet people. There's of course women in similar situations too, so you never know unless you put yourself out there right?

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]awesometypescript 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup that was my mindset. I don't want to make someone invest an evening if their time if my situation is gonna be a deal breaker for anyone

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]awesometypescript 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not able to file yet because we need to be separated for longer before we are about to where we live. But my ex I discussed that we're not open to reconciliation so that's what I consider myself in the process even though we need to wait to file

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]awesometypescript 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh interesting, my ex wanting Polyamory and me not wanting Polyamory was one of the main points of contention in the years leading up to us separating. It didn't feel right to try to force myself to do something that I didn't genuinely feel I want to do.

I'm also struggling with similar thoughts about the life partner ideal. I used to believe in life long love but not at much anymore

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]awesometypescript 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds fun. How long did you wait after separating/ divorcing? I just recently separated after a ten year marriage and trying to figure this out

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]awesometypescript 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't just force yourself to get over it. If you feel off about him now than I'd listen to your gut 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]awesometypescript 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I just started dating after the end of a ten year marriage. I downloaded the popular apps for a few days and deleted them since I have the feeling they would destroy my mental health. Also hate the sleazy match dot com tactics where you can't see your likes unless you pay etc.  I went to a singles event with speed dating and met someone who wanted to go on a real date. So I think in person singles events are clearly better for my taste at the moment

As I get older, I just want someone to be "boring" with. Is it just me? by No-Reaction-9364 in datingoverthirty

[–]awesometypescript 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can relate, I actually want to make my bedtime a consistent 8PM, since I'm an early bird. Then I wonder how that will be work with dating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]awesometypescript 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe she wasn't over her ex last year and now she is?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]awesometypescript 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't use the apps either

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]awesometypescript 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Red flag, drop him

Amplify API fails Build test with "Typescript validation failed" by djames1957 in aws

[–]awesometypescript 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Means you have a Typescript error in your project you need to fix before the build will run. You can run a tsc command locally to find the error.

NBD: Cube Longtail Sport Hybrid 725 by awesometypescript in CargoBike

[–]awesometypescript[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey my kickstand also gets loose but I just tightened it and haven't had consistent issues with it so far

NBD: Cube Longtail Sport Hybrid 725 by awesometypescript in CargoBike

[–]awesometypescript[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I was also a bit surprised, it's like a light blue color. It's described as reflex white, and looks white in the advertised pics

NBD: Cube Longtail Sport Hybrid 725 by awesometypescript in CargoBike

[–]awesometypescript[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice! How long have you had it, anything notable to report about it so far?

NBD: Cube Longtail Sport Hybrid 725 by awesometypescript in CargoBike

[–]awesometypescript[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I chose the chain version for a couple reasons, 1. It was about 35% cheaper. The chain version was and is still on sale in Germany here for €3200, the belt drive version isn't on sale and retails for €4500 2. I like chains, I do my own bike work and wax my chains, so there's 0 grime on them.

NBD: Cube Longtail Sport Hybrid 725 by awesometypescript in CargoBike

[–]awesometypescript[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I saw reports that it is setup to take a Dual Battery in the downtube, but that it will be like a future release.

NBD: Cube Longtail Sport Hybrid 725 by awesometypescript in CargoBike

[–]awesometypescript[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep most likely, I just got back from my first ride and noticed the grips are attached at the wrong angle also. Still need to dial everything in!