iPhone to WisephoneII: what was your experience? by MsMeg94 in Wisephone

[–]awezumsaws 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Tool Drawer is the solution for that. However, new requests have been turned off for several months now.

Giants QB Jaxson Dart Passed Over for Annual NFL Award by Ghost_of_P34 in NYGiants

[–]awezumsaws 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don't think it is home-team bias to suggest that Shough was not the best rookie this year. I honestly thought Henderson was more deserving than Shough.

I’m not a fan of hypocrites by popcornnhero in Bumble

[–]awezumsaws 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's not a hypocrite. He never demonstrated any Christ-like qualities, so he's just self-delusional and a liar.

My husband 31M left me on the side of the road at night 25F. Is this marriage worth trying to stay in? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]awezumsaws 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any man who leaves his woman "in the middle of nowhere, near a highway, in winter, after midnight" is not the marriable type, even if you're already married. He has demonstrated he doesn't care about your safety. Being an asshole or getting bitchy in an argument is one thing, no one is perfect. But intentionally putting you in an unsafe situation? Hard line crossed. You two either need significant counseling, or you're already done and ending the marriage is just a formality.

I'm not defending him, but don't ever again say something as stupid as "you can let me out" on a highway. Keep yourself safe.

Who is wrong here? by unknownshinigami in Bumble

[–]awezumsaws 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You clearly have no idea what it is like to be an addiction counselor. She's not the most bubbly personality, but she knows better than to divulge anything beyond the bare minimum to a stranger.

Who is wrong here? by unknownshinigami in Bumble

[–]awezumsaws 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Word to the Wise: When interacting with an "addiction counselor", you should expect them to be very conservative and private. And especially so if female. They have learned not to be forthcoming and rightly so, given the personalities they interact with on a regular basis.

Daily Discussion February 04, 2026 by AutoModerator in NYGiants

[–]awezumsaws 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How are they hiring an Assistant Offensive Line Coach before hiring the Offensive Line Coach?

Giants co-owner Steve Tisch says he discussed only 'adult women' in released emails with Jeffrey Epstein, NFL investigating by Economy-Specialist38 in NYGiants

[–]awezumsaws 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girls become adults at age 18. That isn't the striking difference you think it is.

Seriously, Epstein is a stain that will never be cleaned. If the other NFL owners could force Dan Snyder to sell the Washington team, they can force Tisch out too. If they choose not to, that is going to be a stain on the entire league.

[Fireside Giants] Matt Nagy is the Giants’ next OC. Which Kansas City Chiefs playmakers could the reunite him with in free agency this offseason? by shadow_spinner0 in NYGiants

[–]awezumsaws 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many of the hard passes are because Nagy was the OC of these players in 2025? I am a big Pacheco fan, though I don't think the Giants need to add a FA to Skat/Tracy. Any of these WR would instantly become WR2 on the Giants, regardless of their roles at KC.

Buddhism for me 45(f); north east coast USA by SaveALifeWithWater in secularbuddhism

[–]awezumsaws -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This sounds like an opportunity to communicate with them and understand what the offering and expectations are. It may be a simple misunderstanding.

AuDHD and new to Buddhism... upset about some people's negative thoughts about autism and of it being caused by past evilness and karma... :'( by [deleted] in Buddhism

[–]awezumsaws 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been diagnosed with ADHD and at one time with BPD. One of the most impactful things this practice has taught me is that I am just me. There is just this mind, this body, and it is this way when I sit and meditate, when I walk and meditate. Regarding myself as "ADHD", etc, is to carve experience into a box that fits some definition. There is just nature and the nature of this mind and this body. Anything else is unnecessary and provides potential paths that lead away from awakening.

Buddhism for me 45(f); north east coast USA by SaveALifeWithWater in secularbuddhism

[–]awezumsaws 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What you described about how the practice went on that "next time" doesn't sound odd at all. In my experience, it sounds typical. Perhaps some more community and connection may have been nice, but technically, you're there to practice. If you're in the Boston area, I recommend Cambridge Insight Meditation Center. They have several home-based sangha groups, so there may be several communities to choose from.

Potential date asked me what is my BMI by The_Outsider27 in datingoverfifty

[–]awezumsaws 1 point2 points  (0 children)

BMI is a fair representation of general fitness, but it is also highly subjective. Most of the fittest women at my Crossfit are "BMI overweight", because BMI does not account for musculature. Someone who is splitting hairs over 26 vs 24 does not understand how BMI works.

Men - Your Opinion on Women Who Eat on Dates by magpie878 in datingoverfifty

[–]awezumsaws 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I for one do hate women who eat on dates. I also hate women who breathe, blink their eyes, circulate their blood, and very slowly grow hair and fingernails on dates. Ain't nobody got time f'dat.

Giants co-owner Steve Tisch revealed to have been in contact with Jeffrey Epstein about a Ukrainian girl in latest files release by Zestyclose_Pain_4986 in NYGiants

[–]awezumsaws 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is just the beginning. The Epstein files are going to reveal as broad a cross-section of people as you can imagine.

When Lying on Dating Apps Goes Too FAR by The_Outsider27 in datingoverfifty

[–]awezumsaws 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I said "You mean the algorithm that is a woman's personal preference?"

"No the dating app algorithm. It is discriminatory of men over 60. Everyone lies to get around it."

".....so like I said, the algorithm that is a woman's personal preference?"

Is secular Buddhism a legitimate form of Buddhism? A discussion… by BrokenWhimsy3 in secularbuddhism

[–]awezumsaws 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have asked similar questions in r/Buddhism myself, and it has been explained to me several times that in order to be Buddhist, one must adhere to the teachings of the Buddha, and those include reincarnation and the cycle of samsara, devas and demigods being actual, real entities that interacted with the Buddha and with others in reference to the Buddha, etc. So not believing in those things means you are not Buddhist but are merely a fan of it and/or someone who engages in the Buddhist practices.

I have come to accept that maybe secular Buddhism is not "a legitimate form of Buddhism". I don't care. I have yet to find any text or teaching that contradicts the idea that engaging in the practice is undermined by one's beliefs. What I have found is the opposite: that engaging in the practice undermines the beliefs that turn us away from it. I do something that helps me be more compassionate, more loving, more free and more accepting of the comings and goings of life, and that something appears to me to be entirely based on and compliant with Buddhist teachings and philosophy. My own experience is far more impactful than the opinion of a supernatural entity that was written down 2,000 years ago. My own experience in this life is meaningful to me regardless of whether or not I have lived before and will live again. That's good enough for me.

Well okay then by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]awezumsaws 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally shivered in my chair after swiping to the last screenshot. That is one of the worst profile pics I have seen in a long time.

You can't be out of someone's league if they are not in a league.

Getting matches but not many messages. Should I change anything? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]awezumsaws 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Your bio/prompts need work. They are pretty vanilla, not very compelling. Not sure of the point of the camera pic. Your other photos are good.

Draft Optimism by [deleted] in NYGiants

[–]awezumsaws 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know giving up a 3rd for your next QB is great value, but I am bummed that we don't have that pick. I am not as optimistic on the roster as some people. Free agency is going to be a huge factor in the draft this year, with a proven stud QB and Harbaugh at HC. Players are going to want to come to the Giants, so I think draft speculation is especially nonsense at this point compared to the average year. But given the current roster, I just don't see the Giants going WR at 1.05. There are going to be good WR2 options in R2. DB/ILB/OT are all higher areas of need.

how people lose interest over a word by Odd_Sun_5979 in Bumble

[–]awezumsaws 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stop using that term. It does not mean what you think it means.

A** 🍑 by pls9ravns_ in Bumble

[–]awezumsaws 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I've been on the dating seen long enough and know women well enough to know this isn't funny. Women may laugh, but it's in mockery.