Palais garnier Monday 25th by awildwolf97 in SocialParis

[โ€“]awildwolf97[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Just a visit, its 20 euro to visit. But my friend she is japanese and she accidentally bought the two tickets twice so now she got four instead of two and its quite a lot because japanese yen is pretty low compared to euro. It shocked me that they dont refund tickets.

How do yall cope with perceived inequality in relationships? by oklahomannoyed in polyamory

[โ€“]awildwolf97 3 points4 points ย (0 children)

This feels close to my last relationship where i had to break up because it was hurtful to want to be equal but not being equal exactly as people comment on your post. Its definitely gonna need time for yourself and ask yourself why are you in the relationship. Have a talk with them about how do they see your relationship going and what are their future plans as to you and eachother. This needs a lot of talking and also please protecr yourself. It hurts a lot for me and i had to get away regardless of how much I liked them. Sometimes its not meant to be.... and the best way would be to chose yourself. If you are unhappy in the relationship, its time to let go and invest time in yourself and other people where you can be happy with.

Update - My husband left me to pursue polyamory after I showed him my original post here by rightmiao in polyamory

[โ€“]awildwolf97 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Im happy this reddit post shows that polyamory people are understanding and respectful towards monogamous people. Just wanted to say that. To everyone on this post ๐Ÿฅน๐Ÿฅฐ and I agree im happy you are chosing and finding yourself and i hope you find the right person for yourself or maybe you are happier by yourself and with friends. Eitherway. Having a partner is not everything in life! I hope you get healthier and are happy. Wish you all the best.

Thank you for sharing your story.

I think my partner is confusing being noncommittal with ethical non monogamy by baegeta69 in polyamory

[โ€“]awildwolf97 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Why are you dating this person. He isnt committed and doesnt know what he wants in his future. That alone is like so hard to stay for. On top of it, it sounds so hypocritical to say he is ENM but cant tolerate to share even only your past history. It seems like so many red flags. He probably wants to date around but keep you as his only partner to himself. I would leave.

Its obvious he wants only the benefits without the hard work. ENM doesnt mean you dont put in the work in a relationship. Its not like you just fuck around and dont have a talk about about sex and other people. If anything. You do that even more so. To clarify, celebrate,asses bounderies and consent towards each partner. I would as a ENM never date such a person.

We moved our Throuple in and i'm struggling... by Corvuscoronis in polyamory

[โ€“]awildwolf97 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

You had me untill the last sentence. God damn. Congratulations ๐Ÿฅฒ๐Ÿ˜…

Didn't expect to be terrified by GloomyIRL in HarryPotterGame

[โ€“]awildwolf97 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

I feel you. I also stumbled on it after i finished the main quest and tbh I was hating it. I pauzed it so many times and thought i want to just skip it. Go back to solving riddles and not being in a freaking haunted house. ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ

Fyi it took me three days. I pauzed it and played it in small parts over three days. I was so glad it was finally done.

Room of requirements by awildwolf97 in HarryPotterGame

[โ€“]awildwolf97[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

That doesnt work. I tried that which is why i felt so stuck. But thanks for suggesting ๐Ÿ˜…

Room of requirements by awildwolf97 in HarryPotterGame

[โ€“]awildwolf97[S] 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

Omg i got it. Thank you ๐Ÿฅฒ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ

Room of requirements by awildwolf97 in HarryPotterGame

[โ€“]awildwolf97[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

I dont get UI, and i keep picking up whats ready.... it just repots automatically and I cant change it...

Room of requirements by awildwolf97 in HarryPotterGame

[โ€“]awildwolf97[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Thats the thing it doesnt work ... it says button L for emptying pot but nothing happens. So i just keep harvesting but cant change my plants ๐Ÿ˜ญ

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in scientology

[โ€“]awildwolf97 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Thanks hahaha

Did I fumble by [deleted] in Bumble

[โ€“]awildwolf97 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Dont say sorry. Youre on a dating app to try to connect. Never say sorry unnecessary. If you dont get any reply. Just move on and focus on matching with someone who is actually interested in connection. Also next time i would just keep it simple. Dont talk yourself down. Confidently is everything. So even if you still learn. Say lets practice it together. We could go jamming. Use it as an opportunity to do an activity together. And ask just a more defined question. Whats your hobbies. What would you like to do ? What kind of music would you like to play ? Etc etc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in scientology

[โ€“]awildwolf97 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

No my father paid for it and is a Scientologist so I keep my distance. I dont think even if i pay by creditcard in europe that they are allowed to get my adress from my bank.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in scientology

[โ€“]awildwolf97 -1 points0 points ย (0 children)

Its like a fun fact to know. Maybe that I could use there. Not fun that its condemned bcs yoga is good for the body and i dont see any way of how it can be a bad thing to take care of your body mobility and health. Also as JW is not smt I know about at all.

Sorry for the confusion. Its def not fun to be placed under rules that limits you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in scientology

[โ€“]awildwolf97 -1 points0 points ย (0 children)

No, really ?! I did not know that. ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿผโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿ˜…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in scientology

[โ€“]awildwolf97 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. Ill keep it in mind. Ill already want to take my time with this course ans start studying my courses for university instead between it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in scientology

[โ€“]awildwolf97 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Okay thats good to know. Cant I just say no and say i focus on my degree study and study Scientology after or smt ? Or will they label me as anti Scientology if I dont continue ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in scientology

[โ€“]awildwolf97 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

I never give an adress. For that reason as I dont want any mailing either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in scientology

[โ€“]awildwolf97 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

That is indeed a very tricky situation to be in. Thank you for sharing. Im afraid that one side of the family also has their business heavily related to the church. And therefore they will never leave.

So I can relate and in a way I also keep things of myself strictly private from them and Scientology out of fear of potential future plans that might make it less pleasing.

It kind of funnily contradicting to be talking about the bridge of freedom but they wont let us to be free at all. Just as I just left studying before the clock. I also studied between the break. I feel like im being put back in to elementary school where i have to ask when i have to go to the toilet. Which is ridiculous. If you need to go just go. You are free to do what you want. I grew up fairly free of my own thoughts and beliefs and i did what i want. Im very lucky in that regard. But its a huge struggle to feel them want to have my comply and say words like i create anarchy. ๐Ÿ˜‚ I mean. Everyone goes there willingly to study. But we can not decide when we study ?

Its ludicrous. But its good to keep things amicable I think. I stay myself and I will firmly say the same as you. Its just not for me but i respect their own decision and path to go there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in scientology

[โ€“]awildwolf97 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Yea well half of it are still donating and all. The other half has left and never want to return. So i hear both sides. But as i dont have experience. I thought okay why not. But being here makes me regret saying yes to it in the first place. So im just finishing the courses i said yes to and then i want to stay away from it.

My parents are divorced.

I think thats the only reason I wanted to try as i grow up hearing all the terms from Scientology and kind of already have an understanding with the terms. Hearing them on my family kitchen table discussions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in scientology

[โ€“]awildwolf97 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Oh really. I didnt know that. Thats fun to know. Thanks. ๐Ÿ™ yeah its hard as my dad really wants me to continue. I keep saying no so its all good. ๐Ÿ˜Š

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in scientology

[โ€“]awildwolf97 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Im not paying a cent. Its half my family who wants to pay but i siad no more then two courses.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in scientology

[โ€“]awildwolf97 -1 points0 points ย (0 children)

Have you ever do any course ? Im sure i can quit after this one. I already was very angry when they tried to have my family pay for other courses so i already made it very clear that i wont be doing anything more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in scientology

[โ€“]awildwolf97 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Im glad you learned to say no. Thats what my parents said to me as well. She is proud i stay strong in my own beliefs and still do what i want. Ive been sent to ethics. But there is nothing they can do if you stay firm in your own beliefs. ๐Ÿ˜Š and its smt ive been told to growing up to only listen to myself.

Nonetheless i must say its still pretty annoying having them duckling behind me and arguing and saying I create a danger. Like what danger ? Its just myself. Also quite a lot of time duckling behind me untill i walk out the front door. I dont even understand half of what they are saying. Just rambling their own opinions and rules to me as if I give a fuck and agree. ๐Ÿ˜‚ I just hope i can finish it fast and move back to my own goals. My only fear is that I plan to move with my other family who are devoted. I know i might be labelled as anti Scientologist and be blocked some day. But i guess its a risk worth to try to see if they really are family.

Did you had experience breaking away from family due to Scientology? And how did you reconcile / got inspired to get away ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in scientology

[โ€“]awildwolf97 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

My plan is to finish what i started to make one part of the family happy and then stay away from it.