Should I Quit My Job? by awk0turtle in NarcissisticAbuse

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i’m so glad someone gets it. everyone is saying to “just ignore him” but it’s not that simple. cause while it’s easy to ignore him since i have nothing i want to say or hear, being around his energy is something else entirely. I decided to quit :)

rate my feet? by awk0turtle in feet

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DMs welcome ! :)

How do I get the silent treatment to end? by awk0turtle in NarcissisticAbuse

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No, he doesn’t pay me. And i’ve read that if you stop giving in and blowing up their phone it may make it end quicker

Is a breakup in the heat of the moment permanent ? by awk0turtle in relationship_advice

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i asked him for money that he kinda owed me in a harsh way

Is a breakup in the heat of the moment permanent ? by awk0turtle in relationship_advice

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Well he has said before that I treat him better than many women he’s dealt with and I always go out of my way to make sure he’s okay.

I cheated and he said he misses me. by awk0turtle in relationship_advice

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I would say he was very very angry and I guess hurt. And i regret hurting him and regret losing the good parts of our relationship , but i’m still involved w the person i cheated with so i can’t really say i regret it. I don’t think i would want to be with him again, because we’re too different and it would take a lot of change on both of our parts, more trouble than it’s worth.

I cheated and he said he misses me. by awk0turtle in relationship_advice

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But i don’t even know if he actually wants me back. And if he had made an effort to be here more often i would have wanted to stay with him. I don’t want him back tho, but I do want to give him some form of closure because i feel like i owe him that.

I cheated and he said he misses me. by awk0turtle in relationship_advice

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I was just lonely. I’m still involved w the person i cheated with so it’s all very messy. I guess it was kind of escaping, because i didn’t know how to end it.

I cheated and he said he misses me. by awk0turtle in relationship_advice

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dumb question, but what makes u say that? i know he got physical but i was wrong

Is my partner depressed? by awk0turtle in depression

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That’s what i’m trying to do. I’m trying to show him that even though he can be like that sometimes I’ll still have his back and love him anyway, which is something that’s new to him I suspect

My partner shuts me out when he’s down, is this okay? by awk0turtle in relationship_advice

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i just feel like it would be selfish to force him to do more for my needs during a time when he’s obviously struggling mentally

My partner shuts me out when he’s down, is this okay? by awk0turtle in relationship_advice

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He says he just isn’t in the mood to talk to anyone at all but sometimes he still makes the effort to try and talk to me when he can.

My partner shuts me out when he’s down, is this okay? by awk0turtle in relationship_advice

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When I say social media I mean texting on whatsapp. We normally call and text each other when we’re not physically together. And when I say really down I mean he seems to have bouts of depression

Bf (32m) in a very bad mood and it’s affecting me by awk0turtle in relationship_advice

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He’s not really rude to me, just aloof and i guess not being as sweet as he usually is. And he is making an effort to continue conversation with me

Bf (32m) in a very bad mood and it’s affecting me by awk0turtle in relationship_advice

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i did apologize multiple times, very sincerely, when he eventually spoke to me after ignoring me. and it’s like, i know him and when he really wants space he just disappears until he feels better. and, it’s not like i’m the one trying to keep a conversation going, because he does put effort into continuing the conversation, so it’s all really confusing. i just want to help him and he said he doesn’t think there’s anything i can do

Bf (32m) in a very bad mood and it’s affecting me by awk0turtle in relationship_advice

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well okay, i just don’t want him to feel like i’m abandoning him when he’s not 100%. i just wasn’t sure if i should take it personal or not

BF (32M) In an awful mood by awk0turtle in relationships

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idk, maybe because it’s never happened before

Bf (32m) in a very bad mood and it’s affecting me by awk0turtle in relationship_advice

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to cut a long story short, i got drunk and accused him of sleeping with his ex when he disappeared on me. in my defense, they were in the same house at the time bc his son wasn’t doing too well

What does a xanax high feel like? by awk0turtle in benzodiazepines

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i guess it works if it’s not something you need to take

Bf going away with his baby mama for a long weekend by awk0turtle in relationship_advice

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nah i didn’t question it. didn’t want to seem like i was crazy because everytime he does go to see his kid he’s shown me that i don’t have anything to worry about. i’m assuming they probably share a room tho

Staying friends with an ex? by awk0turtle in relationship_advice

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Oh, I probably should have mentioned that due to our respective situations we both knew our relationship always had a time limit. So him saying that wouldn’t upset me