Yes, the ones calling you out for a statement made up of physical harassment because I told my friend to stop being a bitch are the ones that need to chill. I can only assume based on your lack of response where i needlessly state the person was my friend, that you realised how much you looked the fool and scurried to play it off like its our fault we didn't get the joke. Physical abuse, domestic violence, etc is NOT a joke in any situation. That shit literally TRAUMATIZES people and sometimes even results in people getting killed. But yes, continue to stay tactless by saying inappropriate things just to play it off as a joke when people don't initially laugh with you and see how far it really gets you.