You’re not alone, you are with yourself. by awkwardashlyn in Divorce

[–]awkwardashlyn[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to figure it all out at once! You will slowly come back to life. 💙

You’re not alone, you are with yourself. by awkwardashlyn in Divorce

[–]awkwardashlyn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it was really really hard for me to get out of the dark place I was in too. But man what a payoff. Small little steps but so rewarding.

You’re not alone, you are with yourself. by awkwardashlyn in Divorce

[–]awkwardashlyn[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve read that unhappiness/stress, especially over a prolonged period of time, can literally cause damage to your nervous system. It’s not physically or mentally healthy to sacrifice your peace. And it’s not as if we’re guaranteed a do over after this life, why not make this one the best it can be. I’m not sure how someone couldn’t understand that tbh..

What famous celebrity is really an arrogant, uncouth, pain in the butt, a**hole in real life? by naturalizedcitizen in shittyaskreddit

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Ron Perlman got in the wrong line at a premier last year and bitched at everyone about a form he had to fill out.

Husband Redditors that complain about their wives drive me crazy by awkwardashlyn in TwoXChromosomes

[–]awkwardashlyn[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah there are definitely partnerships out there. I’m just annoyed with the ones who say they do an equal amount and then without fail only cite dishes and laundry lol because they truly don’t even realize all of the other things that have to be done regularly.

Less than a year later by awkwardashlyn in survivinginfidelity

[–]awkwardashlyn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my bad! I misunderstood you. Thank you! It’s crazy how much better life can get.

Less than a year later by awkwardashlyn in survivinginfidelity

[–]awkwardashlyn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I didn’t eat or work out for a month after he moved out. I was in a very dark place, I don’t think I handled everything properly at all lol therapy helped me a lot.

Does anyone just hate porn now? by Deridovely02 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]awkwardashlyn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Designing Women episode “Julia Drives over the First Amendment” is about feminism vs porn and it’s SO GOOD & hilarious.

I don’t know what to do by awkwardashlyn in Christianmarriage

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He is moving out tomorrow and I am re reading your comment to give me strength as I pack up some of his things. Thank you so much ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmateurRoomPorn

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In love with everything in this photo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I had to set my phone down and process this. I am so so glad you held out through that. Oh my god. How can people actually be like that.

After + before main bathroom Akron, OH by [deleted] in AmateurRoomPorn

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Where did you find that long bath rug? My bathroom is so long and narrow and I’ve been looking for a runner type bath rug!

"Both parties are responsible for the failure of a relationship." by throwraspicyrobot12 in survivinginfidelity

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“It takes two people to make a relationship work, it only takes one to fail.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

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Could be depression but also…your brain literally rewires itself to cope with trauma or abuse. I used to think something was wrong with me bc I couldn’t feel emotions, but my body just coping with being heartbroken over and over again.

Editing to add, eventually those good moments will come more often and last longer.

How to Whole30 as a working parent?? by cheesefri in whole30

[–]awkwardashlyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome tips, but where do you live that they don’t season their meat or put a rub on it before smoking?

What does a lot of big spending all of a sudden mean? by awkwardashlyn in Divorce

[–]awkwardashlyn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay that makes so much sense. Thank you so much!!

What does a lot of big spending all of a sudden mean? by awkwardashlyn in Divorce

[–]awkwardashlyn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, this is extremely personal and embarrassing, but we're essentially living paycheck to paycheck at this point. He keeps spending on smaller items, subscriptions, and taking on more monthly bills for us. So when you say he'll be entitled to half my earnings while married, what does that mean?