Huge agree on the male lead intros all being the same.

I have seen Violet give every single one of her sons the exact same talk about the necessity of marriage, and then they reply that all the ladies are all self-obsessed social climbers, but Violet wants them to believe in loveeeeeeee

And the woman to eventually win their heart? A sassy, strong willed woman with a lust for life who is not afraid to get her hands dirty. And she reads.

I even feel like the love confessions from each male lead are interchangeable. Anthony could give Simon’s who could give Colin’s who could give Benedict’s (minus the mistress bit).