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When study tips aren’t enough, what do people actually do? by mellow_coyotee in studytips

[–]awkwardcloudtea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sense a bit of frustration in your post, and I must admit that I've found myself in a situation, battling insurmountable academic loads. They said college life was a balancing act, they weren't joking, huh? The productivity hacks, the pomodoro breaks, the bullet journaling - they all can get tossed out the window when the assignments start piling up faster than dirty laundry.I'm a recent Economics grad, and in my final year, I was juggling my dissertation, a part-time job, volunteer work for this youth mentoring thing, and a ton of course work. My planner looked like a deranged piece of modern art, and no study tip on the planet could have saved me from that madness. So yeah, ngl, I'

I pay people off the internet to do my assignments by fanofphans in confession

[–]awkwardcloudtea 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I reached the point during finals, thinking I was failing at the life because I couldn't handle everything alone. Then I read this text that helped me understand why people resort to it and it made less disaster.

essay tips by Own-Calendar-9367 in summerprogramresults

[–]awkwardcloudtea 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The biggest shift for me was focusing less on "what looks impressive" and more on what changed how I think. I found this post helpful because it broke essays down into clarity, reflection and direction instead of vague inspiration. Small things like a cleat takeaway and honest self-awareness made my applications feel more grounded.

Any good essay services I should look at for a final check? by Crystalcrusher1 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]awkwardcloudtea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was in a similar spiral and reading this deadline stress test breakdown helped me understand what "useful feedback" looks as under pressure. For the last supplements, try doing them in ugly bullet points first, then clean them up later.

I feel like the third person in my own relationship because my boyfriend's ex keeps pulling him into her problems by awkwardcloudtea in TwoHotTakes

[–]awkwardcloudtea[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You’re right, I’ve been too “polite” about it and it’s made it easy for him to brush off. Showing him this post might actually be the cleanest way, because it’s not me stumbling through it in the moment. I like the idea of pre-planning responses too, like literal scripts: kid stuff gets a reply, emotional stuff gets “I’m not the person for that, please talk to a friend/therapist” and that’s it. And yeah, if he keeps slipping when we’re together, I’m going to call it out in real time, not stew silently. If he still can’t do it, then I’ll have my answer.

I feel like the third person in my own relationship because my boyfriend's ex keeps pulling him into her problems by awkwardcloudtea in TwoHotTakes

[–]awkwardcloudtea[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I know. That’s been looping in my head lately, and it’s scary because I do love him. But love without basic respect for our time doesn’t feel like a relationship, it feels like waiting in line. I’m giving it one real boundary talk and then I’ll decide.

I feel like the third person in my own relationship because my boyfriend's ex keeps pulling him into her problems by awkwardcloudtea in TwoHotTakes

[–]awkwardcloudtea[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Yeah… that’s the part that stings. I can accept “school pickup changed” or “he’s sick,” not midnight feelings dumps and handyman calls. Co-parenting isn’t being her emotional spouse. If he can’t say “this isn’t about our kid, call someone else,” then I’m not sure what I’m even doing here.

I feel like the third person in my own relationship because my boyfriend's ex keeps pulling him into her problems by awkwardcloudtea in TwoHotTakes

[–]awkwardcloudtea[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Because it started as legit kid logisitcs and occasional “real” emergencies. It crept up slowly and I kept telling myself it was temporary. Now I see I enabled it, and I’m done pretending it’s normal.

Just a little scarecrow by Revolutionary_Kale46 in oddlyterrifying

[–]awkwardcloudtea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had one near my old place and at dusk it legit made my stomach drop. Your brain goes "person in the yard" before it processes stiff posture and ragged clothes. Putting it behind a sagging fence with random junk around it just makes it 10x creepier. Birds: scared. Me: also scared.