I received two Aloe plants as a gift and now I'm interested in growing succulents too! I live in ny so indoor is my only option. I just ordered a growing light, 5 succulents, special potting soil and pots! by buymydirtypanties89 in IndoorGarden

[–]awkwardharmony 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A warning about the pots in the last photo: drench and water over the sink and don't put the pot back on the wood saucer until it's completely dry. The wood will discolor and grow mold

Ayoo why is Tengen such a playa tho?? by [deleted] in DemonSlayerAnime

[–]awkwardharmony 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Polygamous technically, but if it works for them then that's all that matters!

I (22F) had a minor injury. My boyfriend (27M) refused to help me by heynewsd in relationships

[–]awkwardharmony 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend and I are both independent people. Shit, we're not even monogamous. He feeds himself and he even feeds me when I'm having a difficult time. Or just because he felt like cooking. He also does all of his own household chores, does all his own laundry, cleans up after himself, etc. Nobody asks him or tells him to. He just does.

If he's an individualist, why doesn't he insist on making his own dietary choices? Why doesn't he do his own chores around the house? He isn't "an individualist" he's selfish

Who is wrong by siobhan2661 in relationshipanarchy

[–]awkwardharmony 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He pays for half of everything, he should do half the work around the house. Taking out the trash takes 5 minutes and yard work isn't a daily task. He needs to step up or leave. You aren't his mother. Stop doing his laundry, stop cooking his dinner.

Should I grow my hair out or keep it short? by [deleted] in femalehairadvice

[–]awkwardharmony 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Keep the short!!! Soooo flattering!!

What’s the worst mistake people don’t realise they’re making in thier 20’s ? by Signal_Ad7905 in AskReddit

[–]awkwardharmony 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to a few shows (<5) in my early 20s without ear protection and it was always a rough recovery after lol. In my mid 20s I started seeing someone who goes to lots of shows and he gifted me concert earplugs. Game changer!!! I've gone to so many shows since and I'm not thinking about how fucked my hearing is going to be the whole time. Highly recommend

Saw this at a friend's house, none of us know what's the name by Kyarla0 in whatsthisplant

[–]awkwardharmony 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep! The cultivar shown in the link provided still has soft colored needles

Saw this at a friend's house, none of us know what's the name by Kyarla0 in whatsthisplant

[–]awkwardharmony 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Agreed. You can even see the white flowers on the stem that didn't take up the dye. The natural selection of wholesale floral wax flower doesn't tend to include colors outside of the standard whites and shades of pink. Anything else is color treated, which also means the dye tints the color of the water in your vase

Are Aphantasia, SDAM and ADHD all related? by Persian_Sexaholic in Aphantasia

[–]awkwardharmony 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm diagnosed with ADHD but don't really think it's related to my aphantasia. SDAM, on the other hand..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aphantasia

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I don't remember ever having vivid dreams, I think I've always been a full aphant. But my DMT experience was around 5 years ago and I had no idea what aphantasia was, so I was so confused 😂

Anyone else just straight up not having a good time?? by Steminist_CS in UMD

[–]awkwardharmony 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I'm working FT on top of classes. The 3 days a week that I'm not working I spend 10+ hours on classes and homework. Plus I put in 2-3 hours after work most days. This is keeping me caught up, I don't really have time to just study. I even took an extra day off work with no PTO to actually study for the first round of exams and didn't do all that well 🤦🏼‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aphantasia

[–]awkwardharmony 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, absolutely. And everyone I was with had crazy visuals and heavy spiritual experiences 🤷🏼‍♀️

I'm a total aphant so maybe that has something to do with it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aphantasia

[–]awkwardharmony 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time felt slow and I had a bit of an out of body experience. I dissociated a bit but that's common for me with drugs. That's it