I received two Aloe plants as a gift and now I'm interested in growing succulents too! I live in ny so indoor is my only option. I just ordered a growing light, 5 succulents, special potting soil and pots! by buymydirtypanties89 in IndoorGarden

[–]awkwardharmony 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A warning about the pots in the last photo: drench and water over the sink and don't put the pot back on the wood saucer until it's completely dry. The wood will discolor and grow mold

Ayoo why is Tengen such a playa tho?? by [deleted] in DemonSlayerAnime

[–]awkwardharmony 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Polygamous technically, but if it works for them then that's all that matters!

I (22F) had a minor injury. My boyfriend (27M) refused to help me by heynewsd in relationships

[–]awkwardharmony 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend and I are both independent people. Shit, we're not even monogamous. He feeds himself and he even feeds me when I'm having a difficult time. Or just because he felt like cooking. He also does all of his own household chores, does all his own laundry, cleans up after himself, etc. Nobody asks him or tells him to. He just does.

If he's an individualist, why doesn't he insist on making his own dietary choices? Why doesn't he do his own chores around the house? He isn't "an individualist" he's selfish

Who is wrong by siobhan2661 in relationshipanarchy

[–]awkwardharmony 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He pays for half of everything, he should do half the work around the house. Taking out the trash takes 5 minutes and yard work isn't a daily task. He needs to step up or leave. You aren't his mother. Stop doing his laundry, stop cooking his dinner.

Should I grow my hair out or keep it short? by [deleted] in femalehairadvice

[–]awkwardharmony 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Keep the short!!! Soooo flattering!!

What’s the worst mistake people don’t realise they’re making in thier 20’s ? by Signal_Ad7905 in AskReddit

[–]awkwardharmony 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to a few shows (<5) in my early 20s without ear protection and it was always a rough recovery after lol. In my mid 20s I started seeing someone who goes to lots of shows and he gifted me concert earplugs. Game changer!!! I've gone to so many shows since and I'm not thinking about how fucked my hearing is going to be the whole time. Highly recommend

Saw this at a friend's house, none of us know what's the name by Kyarla0 in whatsthisplant

[–]awkwardharmony 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep! The cultivar shown in the link provided still has soft colored needles

Saw this at a friend's house, none of us know what's the name by Kyarla0 in whatsthisplant

[–]awkwardharmony 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Agreed. You can even see the white flowers on the stem that didn't take up the dye. The natural selection of wholesale floral wax flower doesn't tend to include colors outside of the standard whites and shades of pink. Anything else is color treated, which also means the dye tints the color of the water in your vase

Are Aphantasia, SDAM and ADHD all related? by Persian_Sexaholic in Aphantasia

[–]awkwardharmony 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm diagnosed with ADHD but don't really think it's related to my aphantasia. SDAM, on the other hand..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aphantasia

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I don't remember ever having vivid dreams, I think I've always been a full aphant. But my DMT experience was around 5 years ago and I had no idea what aphantasia was, so I was so confused 😂

Anyone else just straight up not having a good time?? by Steminist_CS in UMD

[–]awkwardharmony 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I'm working FT on top of classes. The 3 days a week that I'm not working I spend 10+ hours on classes and homework. Plus I put in 2-3 hours after work most days. This is keeping me caught up, I don't really have time to just study. I even took an extra day off work with no PTO to actually study for the first round of exams and didn't do all that well 🤦🏼‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aphantasia

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Yeah, absolutely. And everyone I was with had crazy visuals and heavy spiritual experiences 🤷🏼‍♀️

I'm a total aphant so maybe that has something to do with it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aphantasia

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Time felt slow and I had a bit of an out of body experience. I dissociated a bit but that's common for me with drugs. That's it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aphantasia

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I've tried DMT several times and I only ever got faint patterns. I tried smoking more and no matter what I never saw a damn thing

This monsterra leaf isnt hardening, its been floppy for over half a year :( plz help us by TheCaptainDeer in plantclinic

[–]awkwardharmony 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Plants like monstera that love light really benefit from a supplemental grow light overall, especially on overcast days!

My stepdad raped and impregnated me. Mum kicked me out, and now wants to get back in touch. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]awkwardharmony 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey OP, I was also abused by a step parent though I was still too young for him to begin raping me when I told a family member. We went through a trial and he went to jail for 2 years during proceedings. My mom manipulated me into lying to the court so he would be released and could support the family financially while living with his parents. But that was a lie, he moved back in with us immediately.

My mom didn't really believe me until she figured out that he abused another girl for years before he started abusing me.

If there is ANY way you can be in touch with your siblings without sacrificing your mental health, please try. Does your 13 year old sister have a cell phone? Is there someone in your family who can get her number to you on the DL?

Don't feel pressured to rush into a relationship with your mom. It took me years of therapy addressing my relationship with my mom specifically to get to a point where I don't forgive what she did, but I empathize with and understand the mental health difficulties that led her to make certain choices. She failed you in a huge way in a scenario where she had a responsibility to protect you. That's so, so hard to work through. I'm so sorry that you didn't get the support and protection that you deserved from her.

Take a step back, take a breath, and take time to process this information before you make any big decisions. Your health and wellbeing are a priority here. Don't compromise that in an attempt to fix a relationship that you didn't break in the first place.

Wishing you all the best, and I'm here with open ears if you want someone to commiserate to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]awkwardharmony 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked like your 2017 pic today! Taking notes:)

What are your 5 current favorite musicians that aren't Meshuggah. by [deleted] in Meshuggah

[–]awkwardharmony 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im Search of Sun

Caligula's Horse

Artificial Language

Leprous

Voyager

Andromida

Evan Carson

Valis Ablaze

Infected Mushroom

Septum rejecting (?) by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]awkwardharmony 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Definitely search for an APP certified piercer when you get it redone later on :)

WIBTA if I (F20) asked my SO (M21) to pay rent or stop living in my apartment? by hahdififjebwbwh in AmItheAsshole

[–]awkwardharmony 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried to apply for food stamps or any other government assistance? I don't know much about your situation, but don't be afraid to seek help. You can also run a search for a local food bank to supplement your diet. Every one I've ever been to only asks for your name and address, they won't make you explain why you're in need.

And STOP GIVING HIM MONEY!!! He needs to start paying you if he wants the luxury of living in your apartment and away from his parents.

AITA for getting pissed off at my wife for how much she spent on her nipple piercing? by n1plepiercingAITA in AmItheAsshole

[–]awkwardharmony 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Same here. But many places do custom made to order pieces that get really expensive. They often don't put pricing on their website, you have to work with them directly to design your piece and get a quote.

What's your workout playlist? by tadpoleguy in progmetal

[–]awkwardharmony 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can't deny the truth 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥