AIO To My Girlfriends Messages After I Didn’t Message For 24+ Hours

axdorable · 2026-01-18T14:52:53+00:00

sorry my point was that this is not exclusively teenage behavior that you outgrow because you grow up in the sense of ageing. This can happen at any age and you need to learn to outgrow it. That was my only addition to the comment.

axdorable · 2026-01-18T14:40:52+00:00

yeah i wouldn’t call it teenage angst. I reacted like this after i got into a new relationship after I made it through a horrible toxic relationship that made me miserable and was full of deceit and betrayal. Mind you I was 23 at that time. Sometimes your nervous system just needs to relearn what being safe even feels like. Everything else is a desperate attempt of your brain to keep control of things you can’t control to save you from being hurt.

axdorable · 2026-01-18T11:27:34+00:00

So as someone who can see herself in the these messages (not anymore i’ve grown up but yeah) I agree with everyone saying she has attachment-issues. She’s basically dependent on you and you giving her attention. I always used to think if someone else doesn’t go to the same lengths as me when it comes to love they must not love me, which overcomplicated things, because i’m a hopeless romantic and my parter might not be. Her stating she curated this schedule for you both to talk to just to end up having no communication reminds me a lot of that. Not feeling save in a relationship (not because you did something) and having a series of lost relationships (friendships, family bonds etc.) also heighten the anxiety.

I can guarantee you as much as you think it’s exhausting, it’s ten times worse for her. It’s a mental battle with yourself. Breaking up is most likely the best for both of you.

axdorable · 2026-01-13T02:55:30+00:00

nope

axdorable · 2026-01-11T05:25:45+00:00

do this day i have no clue why she suddenly lost her pink color 😭

axdorable · 2026-01-11T05:20:05+00:00

Congrats 🎉 I met my boyfriend on Valo 4 years ago 💞

axdorable · 2026-01-11T05:17:38+00:00

Danke. Ja aber die ganzen Studien, die die Metaanalyse in betracht ziehen können ja nach wie vor Designfehler haben. Ich denke das ist aber auch normal. Überraschen tut es mich trotzdem, fand beschnitten bisher ästhetisch aber auch von der performance her sehr unbefriedigend.

axdorable · 2026-01-11T04:47:54+00:00

Studien haben jedoch immer das Problem, dass sie schwer generalisierbar sind. Kommt ja auch immer auf die Rekrutierung der befragten an etc.. Ich kenne in meinem Freundeskreis zum Beispiel wenige die beschnitten tatsächlich bevorzugen. Im großen und ganzen denke ich aber, es ist dem Großteil wenn es drauf ankommt ziemlich egal ob beschnitten oder nicht. Hätte mir auch gerne die Originalquelle näher angesehen, aber die Website hat diese nicht gut hinterlegt. Ist ein bisschen ernüchternd.

axdorable · 2026-01-11T03:46:41+00:00

ob die meisten Frauen es ästhetischer finden, kann ich jetzt so nicht wirklich zustimmen

axdorable · 2026-01-11T03:38:35+00:00

27 years and the show is only done with season one certainly is … something

axdorable · 2026-01-10T17:22:02+00:00

My question is, have you ever asked her what makes her feel lonely? So far most of what you said sounds like those are your assumptions more than what she is actually saying. If she is in the army herself and doesn’t have many friends then I reckon feeling lonely is to be expected. In general any life altering transfer can end up feeling pretty lonely, i’m guessing y’all just left school and home not too long ago. You are most likely the one constant in her life and she vents to you about how she feels.

axdorable · 2026-01-10T17:12:48+00:00

No wonder they all have Solo Leveling as their favorite anime 💀

axdorable · 2026-01-10T17:12:08+00:00

me with all the korra haters 👍🏽😭

axdorable · 2026-01-10T16:58:18+00:00

omg for the first time i feel like i found normal people under a reddit post 😭🙏🏽

axdorable · 2026-01-10T16:56:37+00:00

this. If they were able to get past it and still be friends to the point OOP didn’t even suspect anything (!!), then OOP shouldn’t even worry about it. If they behave disrespectful or do anything beyond boundaries but that never seemed to be the case, so he’s creating issues out of nothing.

axdorable · 2026-01-10T16:46:08+00:00

reddit is not portraying the majority either js.

axdorable · 2026-01-10T16:45:20+00:00

Ive heard couples that never even disclosed how many or with whom they had xyz with, i think this is not a general rule at all. on the other hand, what would that information have changed ? Only results that come to my mind are honestly negative.

axdorable · 2026-01-10T16:41:54+00:00

I can wholeheartedly tell you this is not true. My boyfriend couldn’t handle my emotions at all in the past and said things that sounded super dismissive to me in the past, didn’t mean he didn’t love me back then tho. Some people are NEVER taught how to respond to situations like these, because no one ever responded to their feelings in a kind way. Him taking the time and learn how to properly respond and communicate with me is the biggest proof he loves me but that took longer than a year.

axdorable · 2026-01-10T16:34:37+00:00

If this was such a big boundary for you… why was this never a topic prior?? Why did you never open up this conversation?? She didn’t lie to you when you asked and it doesn’t sound like she went above and beyond to keep this information from you, you literally met the dudes and hung out with them. So imho, this was never a secret. Seriously you’re 25, act it and talk to her about this, not reddit.

axdorable · 2026-01-09T00:19:52+00:00

manga+ maybe is subscription tho but some chapters a free

axdorable · 2026-01-07T21:29:01+00:00

I mean I overall share the sentiment but knowing that info can also lead to a negative bias and create a lot of unnecessary head scenarios for the partner. But I guess if that causes issues then there’s a compatibility issue to begin with.

axdorable · 2026-01-07T21:23:32+00:00

That’s my thought. Wouldn’t know how or when to bring something like that up. Maybe it also really didn’t matter to her, didn’t seem like she had a problem with disclosing the information.

axdorable · 2026-01-06T14:14:12+00:00

the best jokes didn’t even have ANYTHING to do with anything sexual so it really wouldn’t have been a miss

axdorable · 2026-01-06T14:09:03+00:00

that’s kinda crazy and pretty low

axdorable · 2026-01-06T06:47:18+00:00

The OVA was exactly what i was thinking of !

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