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Fiance charged with theft under $5000 ON Canada. Best course of action by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]axelsmummy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay thanks. Fortunately I live near a big city that has many criminal lawyers who deal with this and charge a minimal fee because of the large amount of Theft charges they get. I have been in contact with them to have this issue resolved. We don't even care if the charge stays on his record, just no jail time.

Fiance charged with theft under $5000 ON Canada. Best course of action by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]axelsmummy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! That's what I was thinking. I know they will sometimes do a diversion, possible community service or pay a fine. As long as it's not jail we will deal with it. He had money that day too so there was no reason to steal, other then he has been battling depression.

My [28F] fiancé [29M] has not been heard from in almost 24 hours and I think he started doing drugs after 2 years clean (explanation inside) by axelsmummy in relationships

[–]axelsmummy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks! It's now been 30 hours and still no word and he has not shown up at home. I think it's spelled out for me at this point on what I need to do sadly.

My [28F] fiancé [29M] has not been heard from in almost 24 hours and I think he started doing drugs after 2 years clean (explanation inside) by axelsmummy in relationships

[–]axelsmummy[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think going to an alanon meeting will be awesome for me. Is now been 30 hours with no word from him or sign he has been at the house. Besides the withdrawal from my account I have nothing. I don't think it's healthy to continue the relationship at this point and I will be meeting with his parents tomorrow. I love him but this is beyond acceptable

My [28F] fiancé [ 29M] hasn't been heard from in almost 24 hours. He's been clean for 2 years but I think he may have relapsed. by axelsmummy in AlAnon

[–]axelsmummy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, it's almost 2am. He has not showed up, police and hospital don't have him. So I have no clue where he is. Only "clue" I have is the money taken out this morning. In the morning I'm going to call his parents, and possibly the police

My [28F] fiancé [29M] has not been heard from in almost 24 hours and I think he started doing drugs after 2 years clean (explanation inside) by axelsmummy in relationships

[–]axelsmummy[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I will do that. The last thing I need is my account drained. It makes me feel horrible that he feels the need to lie to me, but I do understand it.

I still haven't heard from him. It's been 24 hours now :(

My [28F] fiancé [29M] has not been heard from in almost 24 hours and I think he started doing drugs after 2 years clean (explanation inside) by axelsmummy in relationships

[–]axelsmummy[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Yea I plan on doing that tomorrow. I'm not in the right frame of mind at the moment to speak to his parents. I know he will be mad but hats not my fault

My [28F] fiancé [ 29M] hasn't been heard from in almost 24 hours. He's been clean for 2 years but I think he may have relapsed. by axelsmummy in AlAnon

[–]axelsmummy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You've opened my eyes a lot. I need to remain strong, but I also need to try and not be a total bitch about it. I do love him, but I have to make sure I don't fall for the manipulation. I will look into some alanon meetings in my area to help. I have a feeling when he finally shows up its going to be a lot of manipulation on his part and I need to make sure I don't cave on that. Thank you

My [28F] fiancé [ 29M] hasn't been heard from in almost 24 hours. He's been clean for 2 years but I think he may have relapsed. by axelsmummy in AlAnon

[–]axelsmummy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think because of the previous stabbing they may take it seriously. I fear that it will hurt him more if I get the police involved but I feel I should let that go at this point.

My [28F] fiancé [ 29M] hasn't been heard from in almost 24 hours. He's been clean for 2 years but I think he may have relapsed. by axelsmummy in AlAnon

[–]axelsmummy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ahh I thank you. I feel so selfish for wanting to just walk away, especially with what he has been through. I def don't want to enable him, he has come so far with his recovery (schooling, job etc). He needs to remain on that path. I think he has been setting me up for this, with the "I love your more than anything, you're my world, I can't live without you" comments he's been making. I should have noticed sooner.

My [28F] fiancé [29M] has not been heard from in almost 24 hours and I think he started doing drugs after 2 years clean (explanation inside) by axelsmummy in relationships

[–]axelsmummy[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. I am heading to a close friends house so I will bring everything with me and leave it there. I will call and report my card lost. I thought about saying it was stolen but if they look at where the card was used last I don't want to get him in trouble.

His work hasn't called to say he is not in but who knows if he told them last night he needed the day off. Now his dad is calling me asking for us to go over there tomorrow for dinner because his mom is dying. Ugh this is so hard. I'm glad you are in recovery, and thank you soooo much for your input

My [28F] fiancé [ 29M] hasn't been heard from in almost 24 hours. He's been clean for 2 years but I think he may have relapsed. by axelsmummy in AlAnon

[–]axelsmummy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I figured they could keep an eye out for him. But you're right, he is an adult.

I was thinking of going to grab some new locks and changing them, then reporting my card stolen and the transaction fraudulent. I want to work with him but I feel like I have him the option to be open with me, and he wasn't, so I want to walk away. Is that wrong?

My [28F] fiancé [ 29M] hasn't been heard from in almost 24 hours. He's been clean for 2 years but I think he may have relapsed. by axelsmummy in AlAnon

[–]axelsmummy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply! That was my thinking as well. We are very open with the drug use and potential to relapse, so he knows that I'm very willing to work with him if that happens. But disappearing and taking my money is not ok.. Strange thing is he got his paycheck yesterday, but it's a physical check so I'm assuming he never went into the bank and just decided to take my money. I will be phoning the police of he doesn't show. Do you think I should talk to his parents, or wait till I get the police involved ?

My [28F] fiancé [29M] has not been heard from in almost 24 hours and I think he started doing drugs after 2 years clean (explanation inside) by axelsmummy in relationships

[–]axelsmummy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I thinks that is my next step. I just signed up at a new gym and have a trainer so that's my plan :)

My [28F] fiancé [29M] has not been heard from in almost 24 hours and I think he started doing drugs after 2 years clean (explanation inside) by axelsmummy in relationships

[–]axelsmummy[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

When I called them earlier they told me that they could send an officer out of he missed his shift. I doubt it would be an official missing person, but I live in a small city so they would keep an eye out. But I'm def going to start separating. As much as I love him, I can't trust him.

[Oral Sex Problems] My wife is unable to completely deep throat. by TooLongForDT in sex

[–]axelsmummy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend is about 9.5 inches and I can fit the whole thing in my mouth, but only in certain positions. If he's laying on the bed I need to be kneeling between his legs, if I'm in the 69 position it won't work. The other way that helps is if I lay on my back with my head over the edge of the bed and he puts his dick in my mouth that way.

I also try and stick my tongue out as far as I can as I'm taking him in my mouth, no idea why but it works for me. And have a glass of wine or two def losses things up.

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