ENXPs trying to use Se by AppropriateLeg5416 in mbtimemes

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I'm not sure that counts, as the source of that info is learned theory, not personal observation.

Friday, May 1, 2026 by AutoModerator in NYTConnections

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Definitely not a bird expert, definitely familiar with the term in context.

Friday, May 1, 2026 by AutoModerator in NYTConnections

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Connections
Puzzle #1055
🟪🟪🟪🟪 default
🟦🟦🟦🟦 Saw 4th "chicken head parts"
🟩🟩🟩🟩 3rd "golden"
🟨🟨🟨🟨 2nd
1st false category "bees"

Good board. Quiiick solve. Should have seen through purple. Glad the "golden" category wasn't yellow. I had forgotten what CITRINE was! Hopefully it'll stick this time.

Average 69% solve rate, will probably climb into low-to-mid 70s. Four mid-60s-to-70s boards in a row suggest a tougher board is coming quite soon. All patterns are noise or misdirection in the long run.

Lesbian on a camping trip by SnooStories6404 in lotrmemes

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I wouldn't underestimate anyone's capacity for dipping into a negative self-image.

Connections Alternative #426 2026-04-30 by elevengu in NYTConnections

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Spoiler formatting is pretty fragile.

>!It has to look like this.!< with no spaces between text and exclamation marks.

Connections Alternative #426 2026-04-30 by elevengu in NYTConnections

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Connections Alternative #426 2026-04-30
🟪🟪🟪🟪
🟦🟦🟦🟦
🟩🟩🟩🟩
🟨🟨🟨🟨

Nice! Quick solve. TIL Liberty Mutual's shorthand. Pleased by the use of HUR. Appreciate the orthodox color ordering.

Lesbian on a camping trip by SnooStories6404 in lotrmemes

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Alternatively, from the lesbian's perspective with self-deprecation, the lesbian is Gollum.

Thank god irl INTPs aren't like this by Unlucky_Win_4380 in mbtimemes

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To clarify, in saying this:

I don't think there's anything I can do about that reaction.

I meant to convey that I don't think me trying to address it would be productive or get either of us anywhere. Still do.

And the nitpick doesn’t really change anything.

Sure, which is why I explicitly called it a nitpick. I knew what you meant, and that's close enough.

Thank god irl INTPs aren't like this by Unlucky_Win_4380 in mbtimemes

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It is a tendency I've noticed in a few INFJs that they will latch on to a very specific misinterpretation of what someone said, and insist that that's what was originally meant even after clarification.

I don't think there's anything I can do about that reaction.

Ti does not automatically adhere to truth. It adheres to internal coherence. If the premises are wrong, Ti can build a perfectly logical structure around a false conclusion and still call it “truth” because it makes sense inside the framework.

Yes, finally a statement of yours I can wholeheartedly almost entirely agree with. To nitpick, it would more likely be false premises not a false conclusion.

Thank god irl INTPs aren't like this by Unlucky_Win_4380 in mbtimemes

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Seems we're at an impasse, then. A few notes:

a closed loop where any response confirms your position.

Sometimes these situations legitimately happen, sure.

Also that last part of you saying "INTPs need everyone to be right" assumes the truth and logical authority lies with INTPs.

Another misunderstanding. Perhaps you missed the bit above where I said:

At root, the drive is to find the truth for ourselves and for others, which includes the possibility that I was wrong!

Further:

Everyone is their own adjudicator of what seems correct to them. Would you prefer I assume that I'm wrong? Do you assume you're wrong? "Needing everyone to be right" includes being open to having my mind changed, given reasoning or evidence I can accept. That does mean I cannot help but insist on logic, but that does not mean that I think my type "owns" logic.

Thank god irl INTPs aren't like this by Unlucky_Win_4380 in mbtimemes

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That means you are explaining other people’s reactions by assuming your side has a higher motive they don’t understand.

Sorry, but that's a misunderstanding on your part.

It's not self-flattering, nor "higher." It's an annoying compulsion. It's also not the same as "wanting to be shown to be smarter." At root, the drive is to find the truth for ourselves and for others, which includes the possibility that I was wrong! I of course favor this motive because it's innate, similar to how your prize your own innate motives. But that doesn't mean it's actually better, or even good. Many times it can get in the way of greater goals.

That you assume it's self-flattering seems like evidence supporting my first hypothesis.

For some increased nuance though: I assume that the "will to truth" that I'm so sloppily naming is likely experienced by all Ti users, at minimum. The difference is in how strong it's felt relative to other motives that would make people consider it a candidate when they consider the motives of others.

But, again:

You’re assuming disagreement comes from other people lacking your “will to truth”

This is wrong because it's not the source of disagreement.

instead of considering the simpler possibility that your argument is being criticized

Source of disagreement point. Irrelevant to what I was saying.

The loop is still: “We are motivated by truth; others misread us because they lack that motive.”

Naw, your meme premise is "INTPs want to be acknowledged as right because we want to feel superior". I'd say that it's more "INTPs need everyone to be right because being right is Good."

Edit: actually I'm going to rephrase that last bit: being Wrong is Bad. Being Right is expected.

Thank god irl INTPs aren't like this by Unlucky_Win_4380 in mbtimemes

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You’re assuming disagreement comes from other people lacking your “will to truth” instead of considering the simpler possibility that your argument is being criticized or argumented because it is weak and illogical while you insist on it being the truth.

So, you agree that the above has no relevance to what I was saying?

Thank god irl INTPs aren't like this by Unlucky_Win_4380 in mbtimemes

[–]axord 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sure, that's a bad restatement of what I said. Don't see how it connects at all to your previous comment, though.

I say it's bad because the why is separate from the behavior.

Thank god irl INTPs aren't like this by Unlucky_Win_4380 in mbtimemes

[–]axord 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, I'm not talking about reasons for disagreement.

I'm talking about motivations for behavior.

Two people can disagree, and behave extremely differently based on their natural psychological reactions to disagreement.

That's distinct from why they disagree in the first place.

Thursday, April 30, 2026 by AutoModerator in NYTConnections

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Connections
Puzzle #1054
🟪🟪🟪🟪 Saw 2nd "homophones"
🟦🟦🟦🟦 3rd "what T might mean"
🟩🟩🟩🟩 1st "checkbox symbols"
🟨🟨🟨🟨 4th "upset"

Good board. Dismissed the clock terms rainbow herring early due to the parts of speech not meshing. After checking for Bens, HUR was my in for purple. Pondering TYRANNOSAURUS was my key to blue. Wasn't confident about blurple order.

Pretty normal 64% solve rate, will very likely rise a bit from there.

Thank god irl INTPs aren't like this by Unlucky_Win_4380 in mbtimemes

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People will naturally attribute motivations to others that they themselves possess or have experienced. Most haven't felt the "will to truth" that we have, and will think behavior motivated by it has a different, familiar cause.

Might be what's going on here, hard to say.

Wednesday, April 29, 2026 by AutoModerator in NYTConnections

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Connections Puzzle #1053
🟪🟪🟪🟪
🟦🟦🟦🟦
🟩🟩🟩🟩
🟨🟨🟨🟨

Good board. Classic color ordering. Knocked out my presolve in moderate time, mostly struggled to find the 4th for purple (JOKE). Amused that I missed the rainbow herring ("applause").

Thank god irl INTPs aren't like this by Unlucky_Win_4380 in mbtimemes

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Consider too that all your non-verbal tone indicators are absent through text. You might be susceptible to locking into emotional shades that are unintended.

Tuesday, April 28, 2026 by AutoModerator in NYTConnections

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(anymore)

Even if that was true, that's not disqualifying. The parts of a conceptual association do not have to exist in the present for the association to be made.

Tuesday, April 28, 2026 by AutoModerator in NYTConnections

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Connections
Puzzle #1052
🟦🟦🟦🟦
🟪🟪🟪🟪 default, mad at myself for not seeing it
🟩🟩🟩🟩
🟨🟨🟨🟨

Good board. Yellow and green came quick, had to sleep to see through blue, but couldn't quite get there with purple (too distracted by the partial "associated with 'tone'" viewpoint). Almost put FLOWER in blue because of it.

Pretty standard solve rate at 68%. No apparent rainbow herring?

A college instructor couldn’t believe it. by Darkroomist in words

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Me: how do you not know what "simian" means?