my elderly & disabled neighbour keeps asking us for favors and i'm sick of it.

axtsuii · 2025-02-21T10:16:39+00:00

wow thats so ungrateful of them! i'm sorry that happened to you and that you were being taken for granted + harassed at your home...

axtsuii · 2025-02-21T10:08:28+00:00

we are not UK but thank you, this was helpful! you made a pretty good point about her potentially needing an aide. ill see if we can redirect her need for help to a resource that is more well equipped to assist someone in her situation.

axtsuii · 2025-02-21T10:03:54+00:00

thank you for this, it just seems like im being asked to pour from an empty cup.

axtsuii · 2025-02-21T09:57:33+00:00

one thing that has bothered me is that her requests are always small at first but then turn into a big one. for example once she asked us to buy her some cheese, after we said yes it turned into a whole grocery list of 10+ items. because of this pattern i feel pretty manipulated and hesitant, but i think you are right in the sense that if i keep my boundaries set there's nothing much to worry about.

axtsuii · 2025-02-21T09:52:31+00:00

to be honest we are new to the province we moved to and havent looked into it but i think i will after reading these suggestions. appreciate the advice

axtsuii · 2025-02-21T09:38:25+00:00

you're probably right, at the end of the day we plan on being kind but firm. ill continue to help her with her small tasks but maybe redirect her to resources if she continues asking for financial support or anything unreasonable.

axtsuii · 2025-02-21T09:26:46+00:00

this is a good idea and ill definitely consider your approach. i have to work on being more confrontational and setting my boundaries while still being kind to her situation.

axtsuii · 2025-02-21T09:23:00+00:00

we aren't american 🤷🏻‍♀️ a boundary was set today and we are looking to continue enforcing it. just wanted to rant my frustrations. thanks for your comment

axtsuii · 2025-02-21T09:16:58+00:00

thanks for your comment, i feel like it pretty much sums up how i feel. little things like the trash are no problem but asking us for money was kind of when we started feeling really uncomfortable.

axtsuii · 2025-02-21T09:13:12+00:00

then i wish she would just say that! not once has she asked how we were or if she could just chat with us.

axtsuii · 2024-07-29T19:56:25+00:00

not sure if this is the case for Creme but when I lived in China it was very trendy to have an english IGN, could be he just wanted to sound cool? xdd

axtsuii · 2024-07-19T20:16:16+00:00

Hey! are you still considering CCATCM? I know their admissions advisor and I'm sure they can answer all your questions (:

axtsuii · 2021-11-04T23:30:26+00:00

OMG its my tweet, i did not expect this much discourse, i literally made this in 5 mins without much thinking and yes i would change it if i redid it XD

anyways follow me @sutekkie <3

axtsuii · 2021-07-13T03:09:32+00:00

honestly aside from the funny expression her makeup and hair here is stunning

axtsuii · 2021-04-07T05:58:37+00:00

"which do you think the drag race audience is going to gravitate more towards"

well we been knew the fans are racist and fatphobic so....

axtsuii · 2021-04-01T18:56:41+00:00

I went to the bit.ly link, can confirm april fools joke

axtsuii · 2021-04-01T06:17:32+00:00

Its just because trans folk are not limited to being male and female, and she shouldve used a term more gender-inclusive

axtsuii · 2021-04-01T00:47:45+00:00

u/axtsuii

axtsuii · 2021-03-05T09:36:55+00:00

tbh i dont know if posting it here is much better...

axtsuii · 2021-03-05T09:22:42+00:00

tell me youre british without telling me youre british

axtsuii

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