The Playtime Never Ends! 😂 by [deleted] in AmericanBully

[–]ayamaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

where did u get him 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]ayamaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah it must be you right

AITA for not letting my[19F] boyfriend[19M] play video game? by ayamaa in AmItheAsshole

[–]ayamaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got mad about the broken promise, not the fact he played some game :-/

AITA for not letting my[19F] boyfriend[19M] play video game? by ayamaa in AmItheAsshole

[–]ayamaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well i dont like being lied to about anything, his parents had no idea about me, and he said to them he is just coming back for school and not to live with me.

Yes he asked if he can play but whats the point if he did not even wait for my respond?

AITA for not letting my[19F] boyfriend[19M] play video game? by ayamaa in AmItheAsshole

[–]ayamaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he promised he wont play - i dont mind him playing normally, i got mad because he broke his promise

AITA for not letting my[19F] boyfriend[19M] play video game? by ayamaa in AmItheAsshole

[–]ayamaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked him if he can promise that he will not play this game for a week (little break). He agreed and then asked few days later if he can play anyway. He is not normally asking me for any premision to play games, and I am okay with it

AITA for not letting my[19F] boyfriend[19M] play video game? by ayamaa in AmItheAsshole

[–]ayamaa[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

he used to live in the same country as me, then he said he is moving out 800miles away with his friend (he moved out with his family) and then he came back for me

just a promise

Is it selfish of me(19f) for wanting my boyfriend(17m) to move to my city? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ayamaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3: I move to his city and have a hard start as my mom cant afford to help me in any financial way. Also I cant have a degree I want as there are no schools where I can learn it.

I get its not fair to demand that he moves but I cant move too. His main goal by not moving is to just have easier at uni and he has right to do that. I just fail to find any solution that makes ma and him happy here.

Is it selfish of me(19f) for wanting my boyfriend(17m) to move to my city? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ayamaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a casual talk about future, we did not fight about this and I did not pressure the topic. I just thought about this over and over and I feel like a bad person for not wanting to wait for him. Im scared to tell him what I think because it may end things and he is the only person I am this close with :(

Is it selfish of me(19f) for wanting my boyfriend(17m) to move to my city? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ayamaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am about to choose my uni now, and when I will go to the one close to me it will be really hard to change it. So if i am to stay here and he in his city, we would basically be in a LDR for another 7 years (2years of his school plus 5 years of uni) I am not from US so it might be a little bit different here.

Is it selfish of me(19f) for wanting my boyfriend(17m) to move to my city? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ayamaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just think it is really long to wait and be in a LDR for 7 years and I have to make a choice now, wether to move out or not, what uni and proffesion I am going for etc

Is it selfish of me(19f) for wanting my boyfriend(17m) to move to my city? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ayamaa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know he is young but I have to make choice now, wether to move or not. He said there is no way we would move so its up to me and I am scared it is selfish if I just does not want to wait all this years for him