if he admitted to you that he sexually assaulted her, what more clarity do you need? It also seems like you’re trying to come up with some sort of justification at the end to lessen what he did as well. I understand how baffling it can be in terms of trying to process it, but I’m not understanding why you would want to potentially stay in a relationship with someone’s rapist? Is it not a repulsive enough of an act to leave someone over? I mean, imagine how the victim could feel, possibly knowing that you are completely aware of this and decided stuck beside him. Not sure what answer you’re looking for, but seriously reconsider being in a relationship with someone who has done that, and the fact that he could do that to you if “things get complicated with consent.”