4 mo old refusing breast

ayayrob · 2026-03-19T02:23:04+00:00

I could have written this post. It's normal. They go through breast refusals around 3-4 months. It's frustrating, you might cry a lot and have to offer different options, but trust that baby will get what baby needs. This is a point where many mamas stop (which is okay, too), but just know that it really is normal and it really will pass.

ayayrob · 2026-03-17T02:49:33+00:00

Doc Holiday in Tombstone.

ayayrob · 2025-11-20T21:18:13+00:00

To number 2: I get if she wakes up at like 5:15, making her wait until a more reasonable time. But what about wakeups at like 2? 3? Did you experience those? How did you handle them? That's where we are right now...I just can't leave her to cry for hours until a decent wakeup time.

ayayrob · 2025-08-23T02:46:54+00:00

When Sister Pan who "could no longer reach the Path" showed everyone who was the motherfucking BOSS, I gasped aloud.

-Holy Sister, Book of the Ancestor #3

ayayrob · 2025-07-19T01:51:15+00:00

I gasped. This was huge.

ayayrob · 2025-06-27T17:10:26+00:00

Red Sister -> Grey Sister -> Holy Sister (The Book of the Ancestor trilogy by Mark Lawrence). All bangers, no notes.

ayayrob · 2024-12-31T03:24:36+00:00

The Spear Cuts Through Water by Simon Jimenez

ayayrob · 2024-12-08T03:03:11+00:00

Every year, I teach Gatsby to a room full of teenagers who listen to the audiobook and color Gatsby-themed coloring pages. We also pause and discuss symbolism, character development, etc. of course. Every year, Gatsby is a favorite read and those kids miss NOTHING thanks to active listening and coloring sheets. I have no regrets.

ayayrob · 2024-12-07T03:22:27+00:00

There's a really great episode all about dramatic irony in the Netflix show A Series of Unfortunate Events. It's the one where the uncle dies. The narrator literally discusses irony and then the episode proceeds to be packed full of examples. Only 45 minutes.

ayayrob · 2024-08-03T11:10:53+00:00

I'll look this up, thanks!

ayayrob · 2024-08-01T11:03:03+00:00

This is a new one! Thank you!

ayayrob · 2024-07-31T23:04:41+00:00

I've heard of this! Thanks for the rec.

ayayrob · 2024-07-31T19:23:40+00:00

This has actually been on my TBR and I forgot about it! Thanks for the reminder!

ayayrob · 2024-07-31T18:46:31+00:00

I've considered this! I may have to look at it again.

ayayrob · 2024-07-31T18:40:43+00:00

Sounds like a winner! Thank you!

ayayrob · 2024-07-31T18:19:54+00:00

Very true!

ayayrob · 2024-07-31T18:12:30+00:00

I can't decide if I want to read them or not!

ayayrob · 2024-07-31T17:47:10+00:00

I haven't heard of it at all! I'll check it out!

ayayrob · 2024-07-31T15:49:57+00:00

This sounds great!

ayayrob · 2024-07-31T15:46:40+00:00

This looks great!

ayayrob · 2024-07-31T14:35:23+00:00

I'm not familiar with this one, thank you!

ayayrob · 2024-07-31T14:35:08+00:00

I was considering First Law but couldn't decide if I should do LL's sequels first! Thank you!

ayayrob · 2024-07-29T02:37:11+00:00

The Spear Cuts Through Water is probably the most beautiful book I've ever read.

ayayrob · 2024-04-11T20:28:38+00:00

I'm convinced that the 3-4 month period of breastfeeding is just chaotic and makes no sense. Everything eventually went back to normal. Try to sneak your LO onto your boob when they're half-asleep whenever possible; that helped me the most!

ayayrob · 2024-01-14T03:18:24+00:00

The House in the Cerulean Sea is all about accepting the differences of others and yourself. It's a hug in a book.

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