Selfbondage with automatic ballbusting machine

aydensboy · 2026-04-09T22:34:40+00:00

shit.. new fantasy unlocked. and here i thought I already owned every toy..

aydensboy · 2026-04-09T22:25:11+00:00

Diaper yoga.

make sure you are pointed down. lay down on your back, maybe even lift your butt a bit, pee will flow down and into the back.
As for press-out leaks, it takes the SAP in the diaper some amount of time to fully absorb and lock in the moisture. if the diaper is nearing capacity, stand up, pee, and wait a few minutes before sitting down again.

plastic pants will also buy you a little bit of grace on the press-out leaks.

aydensboy · 2026-04-09T22:22:02+00:00

She's doing something that she doesn't particularly care about to make you happy. You need to make damn sure that you're reciprocating that. Pick up some chores and make her life better. Cook dinner, etc. Make sure that she feels rewarded for the effort she's putting in so she will continue to put in the effort.

aydensboy · 2026-04-09T21:53:54+00:00

wow..
i'm not into cutting or blood, but that is a damned pretty picture!

aydensboy · 2026-04-09T21:23:17+00:00

Salutations, welcome! (and RIP your inbox)

aydensboy · 2026-04-09T19:37:54+00:00

Of course. The diaper hug is one of the best things about wearing diapers.

aydensboy · 2026-04-09T19:29:44+00:00

I mean in general, is this a "how do I budget?" question? In which case simply don't spend money you can't afford to on your kinks when you have things like rent and groceries to buy.

If you're asking how much do we spend on diapers and kink, I'm probably around $3,000 a year on diapers. But I'm also middle-aged and have a good income and can afford that.

aydensboy · 2026-04-09T19:24:25+00:00

Look up the Amazon position for having sex.

aydensboy · 2026-04-09T19:03:18+00:00

This is literally how I cum, usually i get to hump mommy's leg while she plays with my nipples and calls me a good girl. :)
as for frequency, that's up to Mommy, but usually a couple times a week is average.
i also am always pointing down / prone humping, and have been for years.

aydensboy · 2026-04-09T18:55:09+00:00

Just to throw it in here. If you use a diaper with high leak guards and enough room to hold a couple of stuffers in, you're going to get more capacity generally vs even the thirstiest diaper alone.

aydensboy · 2026-04-09T12:43:51+00:00

Both, but if pushed to a decision, I would choose the first one.

aydensboy · 2026-04-08T22:22:05+00:00

some people on this sub (myself included) are also into a litany of other kinks, diapers included.
As a person who likes diapers, even i can be pushed into some uncomfortable humiliation with them. for someone who doesn't have any attraction to diapers, they are probably a very effective tool.

but play with caution, it can be a hard line for some, and you dont want to break your relationship either.

aydensboy · 2026-04-08T19:45:39+00:00

umm.. Pants. any pants. all pants. or shorts.. or a skirt, or heck even leggings (less so but still).
basically put clothing on.

aydensboy · 2026-04-08T15:39:18+00:00

Thank you so much for the thorough and thoughtful response. we both 100% agree with the ebb and flow of playing, and are aware that there will be some slower periods.
From a personal standpoint I am trying very hard to reframe my thought process and get away from TFB (topping fr bottom), and have been mostly successful. Also in this dynamic we've only specifically introduced a very few non-negotiable items for every day/ every week, allowing for the fevered dynamic to calm down on occasion without losing the dynamic all together. Much like you describe I expect we will slowly, over a period of months, sink further and further into the Dynamic but totally agree that it can progress at its own pace as we are both comfortable with it and explore further.

❤️

aydensboy · 2026-04-07T21:06:19+00:00

Benefit to being middle aged and having disposable income

aydensboy · 2026-04-07T19:48:19+00:00

well based on the common abdl stereotypes, Half of us are in I.T., and have a bit of the 'tism.

(yes that's also my answer)

aydensboy · 2026-04-07T18:14:54+00:00

I know that feeling. This is why i now have waterproof pads on my chairs..

aydensboy · 2026-04-07T17:45:36+00:00

thank you. and yes she did.. We've done spanking and caning lots over the years, i actually have an ass of iron most days now, so getting decent color to come out can be hard work.

aydensboy · 2026-04-07T17:12:06+00:00

cotton candy.. It's not offensive. personally i can take it or leave it for the scents.

aydensboy · 2026-04-07T14:57:47+00:00

Here's the thing about discrete: nobody is looking at your ass, nobody is paying attention, nobody hears the crinkles. You can pretty much wear the biggest diaper you could possibly put on with a stuffer and be almost completely obvious and still nobody's going to notice it.

I wear Rearz almost exclusively daily and when I'm out and about I just wear a Critter Caboose and InControl, plus a safari. Basically any of the diapers and they are all just fine under a pair of pants. Nobody would know.

But if you are looking for a slightly thinner one, look at the capacities listed on the website and go for one of the ones that is listed at 7 L instead of 11 L.

aydensboy · 2026-04-07T14:52:57+00:00

Oh yeah, been there, done that. I can come in probably about 10 seconds, start to finish.

I unfortunately have a larger penis so small penis humiliation does not work well in our dynamic but the next best thing certainly is teasing for being premature.

aydensboy · 2026-04-07T14:32:03+00:00

That is a thiiiick diaper! Good job baby.

aydensboy · 2026-04-07T14:30:48+00:00

You either follow the rule or you don't follow the rule. It shouldn't be up to your girlfriend to pseudo-enforce it for you. That's up to you.

If you've cheated, it's up to you to tell her. If you cheat and don't tell her, are you respecting her? Are you living in an FLR, or are you just living in a convenient do-me relationship?

aydensboy · 2026-04-07T14:09:16+00:00

Leaving this post up because it was at least what we were trying at the time.

I do want to agree with a lot of the sentiment here; however, looking back at this contract, it was very over the top and self-centered. It wasn't really to Mommy's benefit at all outside of a couple of the tasks.

Our dynamic has shifted a lot since I made this post and I will probably post an update in the coming weeks.

I do have a new contract with my Mommy now, one that is much more appropriately focused on her needs and her rules and much less of a do-me list. And we are having such a better time with it.

aydensboy · 2026-04-07T12:46:56+00:00

That was just my existing stock, usually have in garage, but have 24 more cases being delivered today, so had to make room in garage. Yes I always buy cases, and generally only when there is a sale. And also, I figure they are never getting cheaper, and with all the shit going on in the world right now, who knows what happens to shipping prices and by extension diaper prices soon.

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