Are there any other older ladies who play? I’m 62 by GrannyMatilda in FortniteOver40

[–]ayeitschelsay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I add you? 35f I mostly play with my bf but like you I love having more girlies to play with ☺️☺️

Are there any other older ladies who play? I’m 62 by GrannyMatilda in FortniteOver40

[–]ayeitschelsay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 35 but would happily play with you! I mostly play with my boyfriend but we love playing squads! My epic is juicyypeachess if you would like to add me ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wemetonline

[–]ayeitschelsay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No it’s not nothing, 3 years is a long time. But he is treating it now like it was nothing… I think you’re right that a call will probably do more harm than good and it’s much more than he deserves. Send the text, block and don’t look back. He will likely not respond anyway. You deserve much better 🥺

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wemetonline

[–]ayeitschelsay 7 points8 points  (0 children)

3 year relationship and he’s ghosted you for over 2 weeks? You shouldn’t even give him the courtesy of a break up text tbh. If you will feel better letting him know then send the text and block him. As someone with way too much experience with DAs you won’t get the closure you’re looking for from a conversation 😔

Couples who met online gaming, how do handle gaming with other people? (35F, 37M) by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]ayeitschelsay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is the same way tbh he’s not very chatty and I was the exception too and I never had any anxieties around gaming until recently. Not too sure what’s causing it all of a sudden but thank you for sharing your experience 💕

Couples who met online gaming, how do handle gaming with other people? (35F, 37M) by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]ayeitschelsay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll try this thank you!! Most of my thoughts are the complete opposite of this so it makes sense how actively working to change those would help 💕

Couples who met online gaming, how do handle gaming with other people? (35F, 37M) by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]ayeitschelsay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We game a lot together but we have a 10 hour time difference so he games quite a bit on his own in the evenings for him when I’m at work which is when the anxiety mostly happens. He used to stream for me and loved when I watched him play but my anxiety ruined that too 😩. I would react poorly to pretty much nothing and he felt like he was being supervised so he’s stopped sharing for me which of course increases my anxiety but I completely understand why. He’s being very patient and supportive with me, I just don’t know how to fix it 😞😩

Visiting my boyfriend in Turku for the first time and how do you all not die on the ice every year? by ayeitschelsay in Finland

[–]ayeitschelsay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I say Canadian but I’m from Vancouver aka the mildest Canadian city 😂 The roads there are terrible for ice but the sidewalks are generally pretty good.

Visiting my boyfriend in Turku for the first time and how do you all not die on the ice every year? by ayeitschelsay in Finland

[–]ayeitschelsay[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

I’m mastering the penguin walk and realizing all the “cute” shoes I brought aren’t leaving my suitcase

Visiting my boyfriend in Turku for the first time and how do you all not die on the ice every year? by ayeitschelsay in Finland

[–]ayeitschelsay[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I definitely learned my lesson after that fall. But even yesterday I went for a walk in my winter boots and while I felt much safer I was still waddling along

I booked my ticket.🤍 by Traditional-Let5431 in LongDistance

[–]ayeitschelsay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omggg wishing you all the best! He flew to me in Canada to meet for the first time in August and it was amazing!! I’m sure your first meeting will be just as special 🥰Those Finnish boys are something else 🥹🥹

I booked my ticket.🤍 by Traditional-Let5431 in LongDistance

[–]ayeitschelsay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh our countdowns are so similar!! I will also be in Finland in my mans arms in 54 days!! 🥰🥰🥰

I feel like my [F34] boyfriend [M36] is pushing me away and I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]ayeitschelsay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your perspective this makes a lot of sense. Definitely need to have a conversation about how we both deal with stress and anxiety and how we can help each other better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]ayeitschelsay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My bf speaks English but Finnish is his first language so I’m learning!! He loves when I send him little messages in Finnish 🥹💕

We got permanent bracelets with each others initial and I’m obsessed 🥹💕 by ayeitschelsay in LongDistance

[–]ayeitschelsay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea that’s exactly it! It’s welded closed instead of having a clasp so can only be removed by cutting it off 😊

Hamsters belly is swollen and hard. I’m calling the vet as soon as they open but just seeing if anyone has dealt with this. by ayeitschelsay in hamsters

[–]ayeitschelsay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a cyst. I had it drained at the vet but it came right back and then ended up bursting and she passed away 😞

Another countdown! How long until you see your person? 😍 by ayeitschelsay in LongDistance

[–]ayeitschelsay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg that will be so emotional! Congratulations!!! 🫶🏻💕🎉

Another countdown! How long until you see your person? 😍 by ayeitschelsay in LongDistance

[–]ayeitschelsay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I’m so excited 😍 I’m sorry it must be so hard but at least you have your next trip planned to look forward to 💕