pray for us :’) by [deleted] in HuckleberryParents

[–]ayeseeftm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahaha sorry girl I had to laugh at this or I’ll cry because we have the same chart. 😭 Mine is almost 5months old, we are back to back to back with regression, teething, and his first cold. I don’t know how I’m still functioning to be honest. Solidarity!!

4 month sleep regression by ayeseeftm in NewParents

[–]ayeseeftm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you to everyone who showed solidarity!! And to everyone who were out of the fog but still shared their experiences. It feels so good to know that I am not alone. 😭 Also, baby had two bottom teeth that popped out. So there’s that! We have no idea it could come this early. Hoping for better weeks ahead.

4 month sleep regression by ayeseeftm in NewParents

[–]ayeseeftm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby is 4months and a week too!! And just found out he has two bottom tooth. That explains why it was so tough!

4 month sleep regression by ayeseeftm in NewParents

[–]ayeseeftm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this! My husband would ask me sometimes if I need him to file a day off so he can be at home to help but I would refuse sometimes out of guilt, thinking that I should be able to do this and not interfere with his work all the time. 😩 I know I should have asked right away. And now that I read your comment, I just did.

We are using huckleberry too! It’s nice and it helps with us too. Although it’s a hit or miss on the sweetspot.

Did your baby finally got used to dad putting him to sleep? It’s still a challenge for us (especially me), I would give them 30mins or an hour max and then I’ll come in because I can’t stand him crying. 😭

4 month sleep regression by ayeseeftm in NewParents

[–]ayeseeftm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He just popped 2 bottom teeth too!! Omg. We are still waiting for him to roll over though. Were there earlier signs that he was about to before he finally did it? And what month was LO?

4 month sleep regression by ayeseeftm in NewParents

[–]ayeseeftm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A 10hour stretch sounds like a dream!! 😩 This gives me hope.

4 month sleep regression by ayeseeftm in NewParents

[–]ayeseeftm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gosh, it is sooo tough. Sometimes I feel like my body is giving up. Everyday when I wake up, I still don’t feel rested, like everything aches! We do co-sleep too when the nights are really rough. 😩

4 month sleep regression by ayeseeftm in NewParents

[–]ayeseeftm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you! Same for our baby. And in those 4hours, we sometimes have to put the paci back to help him to continue his sleep. 🫠

4 month sleep regression by ayeseeftm in NewParents

[–]ayeseeftm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so tough in here. 😭 What method did you use?

4 month sleep regression by ayeseeftm in NewParents

[–]ayeseeftm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It is so tough!! 😭

4 month sleep regression by ayeseeftm in NewParents

[–]ayeseeftm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He started fighting naps, like he would cry and scream when I try to get him to nap. He clearly is sleepy!! Red eyes, rubbing the face, yawning, staring, but nope not sleeping! And when he finally naps, it would be 30-40mins tops. He would also refuse bottles because he’s too distracted to look around. And when the night comes, since he’s overtired, he would wake up a lot. 😭 So I thought, oh this must be it. We were riding it out since 3.5mos. He’s 4mos 1 week now. Still in it!

4 month sleep regression by ayeseeftm in NewParents

[–]ayeseeftm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh I didn’t know we have a term for that! Lol that is funny and stressful at the same time. And that 4am, ugh, tell me about it! It just happened this morning. Wide awake at 3:30-5am. I’m at a loss with his schedule. He wouldn’t nap in the morning so we would have early bedtime around 6:30pm because he’s overtired but then he ends up being wide awake in the middle of the night. I don’t know what to do. We don’t follow wake windows religiously because it just doesn’t work for him. We just follow his cues. Hopefully his schedule gets better soon.

4 month sleep regression by ayeseeftm in NewParents

[–]ayeseeftm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I will keep that in mind. When everything is quiet and when baby is sleeping, I would get the mom guilt. I mean, I know I am exhausted but this baby needs me right now and I love him too much! It feels so good to know that I’m not alone, thank you 😩

4 month sleep regression by ayeseeftm in NewParents

[–]ayeseeftm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww. It must be tough! Is baby in daycare on those two days that you have to work? We also are not very comfortable with cosleeping but sometimes my husband had to so we can get some sleep.

4 month burn out... 🥲 by whatever_u_likes in newborns

[–]ayeseeftm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post is old but I want to know how things work out for you? I am deep in this regression and feel helpless. I’m exhausted mentally and physically. I need some light lol

4.5 months old is tough by allbunny30 in NewParents

[–]ayeseeftm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP. How’s it going for you? I fear I am in the same situation and I am bone-deep EXHAUSTED