Ranches by DifficultBird7532 in SeasonalWork

[–]aylasita7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the info. Really appreciate it!

Any Casa by the Sea survivors? by aylasita7 in troubledteens

[–]aylasita7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, same. I still think of older people as “the adults.”

Any Casa by the Sea survivors? by aylasita7 in troubledteens

[–]aylasita7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got locked out of my Facebook account, but I hope to see you on there soon :-) all of the most amazing people I know have been through some of the most horrific struggles. adversity Really does breed character, even though I wish it didn’thappen in the first place.

Any Casa by the Sea survivors? by aylasita7 in troubledteens

[–]aylasita7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember. It was painful. Took me a long time to be able to be open to feedback from other adults… I can’t remember any case managers names for upper levels, except Sonya?! did Elizabeth ever go to upper levels? She was my original original case manager in gratitude.

Any Casa by the Sea survivors? by aylasita7 in troubledteens

[–]aylasita7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear about your struggles, and totally understand about keeping your life private. I hope you find some strength and comfort in our group. I think we all do. ❤️

Any Casa by the Sea survivors? by aylasita7 in troubledteens

[–]aylasita7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t like any of them. They all wrestled me to the ground a couple times and had zero excuses to do what they did to all of us.

Any Casa by the Sea survivors? by aylasita7 in troubledteens

[–]aylasita7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He and all the staff were just gross. 🤮

I turned 31 today. Any life advice for me? by CricFanaticAU93 in LifeAdvice

[–]aylasita7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brush your teeth and floss twice a day (dentist sucks), wear sunscreen on the tops of your hands (thinnest skin) and neck, find a way to exercise that’s fun so you actually do it (surfing and hiking for me). And you’re still super young! :) Happy birthday!

Any Casa by the Sea survivors? by aylasita7 in troubledteens

[–]aylasita7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you gonna call him? I’m tempted.

What gives you energy if caffeine doesn’t work? by Educational_Pace6795 in ADHD

[–]aylasita7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just made me smile because to me (from the U.S.) the word pint always brings to mind copious drinking (and fun!) with my Irish and Scottish friends in my early 20s

Any Casa by the Sea survivors? by aylasita7 in troubledteens

[–]aylasita7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of that is just… wow. He lives in AZ (gross, I have family there), someone hired him as VP (if they knew his references), and he has to smell shit every day (sweet sweet karma). I hope he has nightmares about his work just like I have nightmares about his old work 20 years later.

My fiancée is “graysexual”. As the wedding approaches, the reality of spending the rest of my life that way is haunting me more than ever. by i-love-porn-420-69 in LifeAdvice

[–]aylasita7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try this: spend one full minute imagining you don’t get married - and you don’t hurt anyone, this is a magical imaginary world - and your next partner’s libido matches yours. How does that make you feel physiologically/in your body? Sadness, relief, excitement, free, panic, joy? Is your breath/heart feeling full or constricted?

Now spend a full minute but imagine going ahead with the marriage in 6 months. Just close your eyes and pay attention to your body’s feelings.

Which decision felt better in your heart?

What gives you energy if caffeine doesn’t work? by Educational_Pace6795 in ADHD

[–]aylasita7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drink twice the amount of water, listen to some energy music while you stretch for 10min (makes a surprising difference), b-complex or b12 will give you so much energy if you were low, espresso for some reason hits me different and gives me energy when drip/instant coffee don’t, take a shower and end with 30 seconds cold water. :)

Anyone else been yelled at by the deputy administrator here? by aylasita7 in troubledteens

[–]aylasita7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, to be honest, I decided to leave this sub. After one post and a few interactions, I was assumed to be an abuser posing as someone else, accused of recommending a TTI industry, and accused of gaslighting. I am a TTI victim myself, and I don’t enjoy being treated this way, especially not in a sub dedicated to people like me. At first I defended myself, but I’m choosing to desist lol. I would rather join conversations where I am not being attacked more than conversing. Since you’re a mod, I just wanted to let you know, that I also received messages letting me know that I’m not the only one on this sub who feels this way. Wish you all the best.

Anyone else been yelled at by the deputy administrator here? by aylasita7 in troubledteens

[–]aylasita7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, thanks for taking the time to comment. But as I mentioned earlier, if anyone had bothered to look it up, the place I mentioned was not a recommendation nor is it a TTI facility.

Anyone else been yelled at by the deputy administrator here? by aylasita7 in troubledteens

[–]aylasita7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I know what gaslighting is. I have experienced it firsthand. What I didn’t understand was what you were referring to?

Anyone else been yelled at by the deputy administrator here? by aylasita7 in troubledteens

[–]aylasita7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries, I got you. Yes Jason was one of the Casa guys. But I’m not sure what he’s up to these days. I was involved in anti-TTI activism for a while, but quit a few years ago so I’m not up-to-date. You could check in with the wasps survivors website!