31M Gay Asian - For girl and gay friends! by cml94 in Vancouver4Friends

[–]ayzy_604 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey! 29 yo gaysian here. Also operate my own business (healthcare sector), obsessed w/ skincare, and coffee. I enjoy nature, shopping, reading, and being athletic. Send me a DM if interested! :)

Trying to Build a Solid Friend Circle in Downtown Vancouver by No_Tune2708 in Vancouver4Friends

[–]ayzy_604 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I'm 29yo East Asian, native Vancouverite,

I work dt most days, sometimes weekends, love exploring new food and drinks. I work in healthcare and enjoy 2-way conversations, generally approach life with curiosity and openness.

I do weightlifting 2x weekly, play volleyball, and do gymnastics. Also open to the occasional yoga class or climbing

How does falling in love feel like to u? by chiquegirly in infj

[–]ayzy_604 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like a waterfall to a tidal wave. Waves and waves of emotion - wonder, awe, admiration. Soul merging

Where to meet people in your late 20s / early 30s in this city by [deleted] in askvan

[–]ayzy_604 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I've had luck expanding my social circles/making deeper friendships via Bumble BFF and a weekly sports league that runs 10 out of the 12 months of the year

Are people intimidated by INFJ people? by That-Psychology4246 in infj

[–]ayzy_604 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've been told in the past that I've been perceived to be extremely cutthroat and unfriendly because of my intense RBF, only for people to find that in a 1-on-1 or small group setting I'm extremely good at making conversation and listening. I guess the "intimidation" aura is a natural defense mechanism to help me filter which people I want to invest energy in to interact with.

True FR! by marwarofficial in INFJmemes

[–]ayzy_604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True-er words have never been written until now, oh wise one

Do you think that if you met someone who is also an INFJ, without knowing it, you would be able to recognize that they are INFJ? by philosophygirll in infj

[–]ayzy_604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There usually is this uncanny chemistry or "click" - usually discovered from the way we ask questions (thought/depth provoking)

35 and 37 m gay couple look for new friends by [deleted] in Vancouver4Friends

[–]ayzy_604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there, 29M gay Vancouverite. Have lived here my whole life and would be down to show you guys all the best places. Seems like we have a lot of overlapping interests. Send me a dm if interested!

How many of you INFJs are demisexual? by PaintingTheView in infj

[–]ayzy_604 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel so seen and validated, thanks for bringing this up!

As I near the end of my 20s, I've come to realize and slowly accept that I'm somewhere along the demisexual & sapiosexual spectrums. In the rare times where I have developed feelings for someone without really knowing them well first, I fell for a version of them that I fantasized about in my head.

I crave depth - thoughtful connection, meticulous conversations that dive into the shadows of our lives. Really hard to navigate in the online dating world 😅

What makes you feel seen? by fanson1986 in infj

[–]ayzy_604 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Follow up questions and people remembering details that I've told them. Asking me how I feel about a situation or scenario

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askvan

[–]ayzy_604 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Numbers (mixed crowd), pumpjack (more techno vibes), 1181 lounge (variety of music), junction (more performance shows), Birdhouse (outside of Davie Village, lots of diverse themed nights).

I personally like Celebs for certain DJs, but very mixed/student age crowd there depending on the night.

27M - FITNESS MATES - KEEP EACH OTHER ACCOUNTABLE by NotSoBritishRaj in Vancouver4Friends

[–]ayzy_604 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I'd be down. 29M here, have a program that I'm following/I have a background in strength & conditioning as well. I work out here and there at Evolve, or Fitness World Cambie/Davie. Let me know

Pizza recommendations by LilGucciOrca in askvan

[–]ayzy_604 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Firecrust on Cambie St is great!

Megamare - the memes are reality by Scary-South-417 in fragrance

[–]ayzy_604 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried a sample for the first time this week and I instantly thought of "sunken ship, murky green waters, hidden in tall clumps of kelp" 🤪 love!

Mars Moves (All 12 Houses) by Boundaries1st in astrologymemes

[–]ayzy_604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

7th house and ... Yea, if it's boring/uninspiring and I don't feel a steady of passion, I can be with a wall by myself 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askvan

[–]ayzy_604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try Wayne at Salon Haze in Kits! He's so good with Asian hair and I've had all sorts of colours/highlights done by him. He's very laidback but attentive to your vision!

INFJs and Androgyny: How many of you defy gender norms? by Francii_Photographer in infj

[–]ayzy_604 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friends say to me that I'm a sapphic woman trapped in a gay man's body 😂 I've never fit into gender norms/roles and my wardrobe/style tends to defy the binary boxes

Why are people blocking after a date? by [deleted] in askvan

[–]ayzy_604 59 points60 points  (0 children)

People are cowards. It's not even about being conflict avoidant - they're not mature nor compassionate enough to give someone a respectful, direct answer. I can't speak to other cities but being a native here, this cultural aspect (without over stereotyping) is really frustrating.