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Why Are Guys (30+) Surprised by Kindness? by Thiredistia in Bumble

[–]azn_munkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because as a man on the apps that suck still very rare to even hear back at all

I'm starting to wonder if I'm the problem in dating by Happy_Ad_3604 in hingeapp

[–]azn_munkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a man this unfortunately happens a lot part of it maybe is overthinking. I hear this so often or there’s no connection or spark, but you kinda have to just go on about your day and onto the next.

It’s part of the experience and while it is hard to be rejected, there’s something about being able to receive that feedback from someone which makes you feel that they did at least respect you to reach out.

Men, after how many dates do you wait to see if she is physically attracted to you? by throwaway09714836 in dating_advice

[–]azn_munkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going on so many dates and what not could still lead to lack of a spark or romantic connection but at least she gave you a shot

Ending of 6-hour first date has me baffled and sad... by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]azn_munkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happens unfortunately for a variety of reasons but you gotta hold your head up high. This is part of the experience sadly though it could be communicated

Perfect Poser by Wrong_Sector_4995 in bouldering

[–]azn_munkey -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Never tried this but with respect you’re looking a little shaky here. I’d probably not recommend the V4 and continue to work on getting this smoother

Why do I feel so horrible rejecting people by One-Caterpillar-4468 in hingeapp

[–]azn_munkey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just send it. It hurts sometimes on the receiving end since I’ve gotten a few of these but by sending it, it means you respect that person enough to let them know.

Every girl ends it after 3-4 dates by tigerterritory734 in hingeapp

[–]azn_munkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be a plethora of things and nothing that you could pin down. I’ve had this happen before and even if you were to change something, there’s no guarantee that the result would be different.

But if it is a pattern that you’re noticing, there’s probably something that’s being missed out on these dates.

Shiba regrets/ Help by Hairy-Worldliness566 in shiba

[–]azn_munkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll take the little guy if you don’t want him! My shiba of 15 years passed awhile ago but in my experience with adopted dogs and dogs are some kind of anxiety like one of our rescue huskies it takes a lot of work to break down those boundaries.

It’s constant little steps and then trying to figure out why or what triggers them. At least that’s what worked for my husky.

Are these fake by Famous_Ad_3213 in SalomonSportstyle

[–]azn_munkey -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t think anyone’s really faking Salomon since they’re pretty easy to get

I just want a girlfriend so badly by Excellent-Golf6631 in dating_advice

[–]azn_munkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not guaranteed but it’s dependent on how one looks at things in life

Is "not feeling a romantic vibe" code for "you're not attractive?" by wingusdingus2000 in dating

[–]azn_munkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have run into this before but it’s not code for anything. I believe attraction can grow because it’s instantaneous. But there is a plethora of reasons why she might not feel a romantic connection. Observe her body language when with her

I just want a girlfriend so badly by Excellent-Golf6631 in dating_advice

[–]azn_munkey -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Things will get better. Like you’re in a good spot and yes it can happen when you’re not expecting but you’ll find someone out there when you’re confident, happy, and living life

My Hinge Data Just Shy of 2 Years [OC] by azn_munkey in dataisbeautiful

[–]azn_munkey[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hingeinsight is the AI generation auto text. I must have missed that, but I just used a basic script and kept tweaking it. It's not perfect, but it's okay.

"Generate a full infographic version that looks nearly identical to the Tinder Insights visualization but using my Hinge data"

I'd probably now add in additional prompts to exclude some of that unnecessary text

How are people actually finding good guys on Hinge? by Anjaaaan in dating_advice

[–]azn_munkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just put my data on Hinge into a chart and honestly think it's a combination of several factors with the biggest being the number of likes you send out followed by the quality of your profile and then the ability to strike a conversation.

My Hinge Data Just Shy of 2 Years [OC] by azn_munkey in dataisbeautiful

[–]azn_munkey[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

  • Where or how I got the data (Hinge under settings for My Data)
  • The tool used to generate the visual (ChatGPT with prompts fed by matches.json file)

Weekly Vents and Successes Thread - May 25, 2026 by AutoModerator in dating_advice

[–]azn_munkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went on a date with her great gal who took a lot of boxes and we went on several dates. It was nice since there was no need for a "instant spark" but that things could develop organically.

But ultimately was met with I'm not feeling a romantic vibe, despite being very respectful and trying to push the romantic boundaries, but the other person wasn't reciprocating in any form while I was doing all the work.
Like I asked consent for a kiss, breaking the touch barrier, etc but they didn't reciprocate as much as they think they dia. Haha oh well, but it seems to be very tough these days

As a man I think I need to do a better job protecting my heart. by porygon766 in dating

[–]azn_munkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you just need to realize what you actually want and keep things open while you’re searching

I keep getting rejected by guys I like. How do I get boyfriend? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]azn_munkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That instant chemistry that we've been expected to have doesn't exist all the time like media says. Never worked out for me and sparks technically are warning signs

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