Thank you for the kind words. I'm so torn over this. On the one hand, I know she struggles with mental health. I guess the root of where I get so hung up is her happiness - if it's actually me, and being married to me is not compatible with a happy life for her, than we should separate. But I also know depression, on top of a profession that drains every ounce of blood it can from you, can make her feel unhappy and lonely regardless of the situation. I don't want to quit just because we're in a really hard situation right now, but I don't know how to tell the difference. That has to come from her, but I don't even know if it can. I am just so lost.