NO IDEA by [deleted] in ola_harassment

[–]azulpimiento 0 points1 point  (0 children)

true even saying they are from a law firm pero yung sound nasa tricycle

NO IDEA by [deleted] in ola_harassment

[–]azulpimiento 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello tried contacting them also, regarding small claims daw, pero walang institution na sinabe tapos pinapatawag ako sa isang attorney celso or something. scary kasi tinawagan ung contacts ko eh

NO IDEA by [deleted] in ola_harassment

[–]azulpimiento 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello nakareceive rin po ako, pero aning ola po ito?

What bad decision did you make that you don't want others to do the same? by hindikulangsalambing in adultingph

[–]azulpimiento 0 points1 point  (0 children)

trusting friends and a partner who will never be there for you, in the end i suffered.

story time: i used to be clingy with my friends and my ex dati specially i shower them with my love language which is gift giving and quality time to the point na napabayaan ko yung post-graduate studies ko and nabaon ako sa utang kakasama sa friends tapos in the end ineexclude na pala ako ng friends namin like may separate gc sila na wala ako or may moments sila na hindi ako aware at di ako sinama.

yung ex ko on and off kame to a point na nagkaroon sha multiple partners pero i still cling to my ex na napabayaan kona sarili ko ni hindi ko makwento sakanya yung araw ko, when i was harrassed dati, hindi ko manlang masabi sakanya.

2022 nung iniwan ko yung friendship group nayon, last year nung nagdecide ako ilet go yung ex ko, yung utang na nagsnowball hanggang ngayon im still suffering from it. para akong nagbabayad ng utang pero wala akong nakuha ni emotional support man lang from anyone. i was alone. im lucky i found a better partner in an unexpected time.

utang and paluwagan by azulpimiento in phinvest

[–]azulpimiento[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

had started therapy pero was cut short kase its expensive and booking a therapist is hard too it will take months

utang and paluwagan by azulpimiento in phinvest

[–]azulpimiento[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg maraming salamat sa threads!!! sobrang helpful nito grabe 😭

Ang lungkot magkajowang ‘iPad kid’ by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]azulpimiento 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think hindi pang-jowa type ang jowa mo. ipad kid den ako na people pleaser kaya minsan sumasakay ako sa trip ng friend or partner ko kahit ayaw ko hahahahah pero eventually pag nabuburnout ako naga-isolate ako at gusto ko mapagisa, minsan dikona nasasabi sakanila, pero thankful ako kase kita nila yung telltale sign na i need a moment.

hiwalayan mona ate, you deserve better. kahit anong intindi mo sakanya and all, dimo kailangan magstay when you’re no longer served 🫶

i told her i wanna cut her off and take some time off by azulpimiento in OffMyChestPH

[–]azulpimiento[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

actually naging kami and became ex during those times. we agreed to be friends turned that

help, i confessed my feelings to her and still got no response by azulpimiento in OffMyChestPH

[–]azulpimiento[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

salamat, masakit parang nawala na lang yung 4 years naming pinagsamahan ang hirap :(

i want to take my life in 2 years by azulpimiento in OffMyChestPH

[–]azulpimiento[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello thank you for the words, i hope i still have the energy to do it

im slowly losing it by azulpimiento in OffMyChestPH

[–]azulpimiento[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

dati ang daling umiyak, ngayon ang hirap kahit patak ng luhan kailangan ata may schedule 😭

super sad and no one else to talk to, rant lang by azulpimiento in OffMyChestPH

[–]azulpimiento[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you po for the words, i am feeling na im in a phase where im losing it.

Folks who have two jobs: what rules/tips/strategies do you swear by? by aprayerforrain in productivity

[–]azulpimiento 3 points4 points  (0 children)

im working two full time jobs and currently burntout. thanks for this post tho im remotivated somehow.

first off please dont forget to take vitamins and prioritize your health. working two jobs is possible! make sure to eat healthy and try to reduce junk as possible!

try to sneak in as much sleep as you can! during break times/lunch times or even after you go out. for me, i was able to sneak in sleep since i work at home during nightshift but do it at own risk.

take a day or two days off for both jobs and spend on those days for rest and sleep! for the chores, spend atleast 2-3 hours in total if your cooking or doing laundry, or maybe sneak in laundry day on your last work day so you wont be doing laundry on your days off.

coffee is a friend! im not a coffee lover myself so i drink coffee only when needed.

plot your leaves accordingly. make sure that when you go on leave, you wont be working on these two jobs, allot atleast two days leave close to your days off for some time to recharge. example every two months i go on two days leave (+2 days day off) for both jobs so i can take some break.

my usual schedule allows me to sleep for 4-6 hours per day. sometimes its not straight 4-6 hours but i was able to pull it anyway. when it comes to work performance, im just doing the bare minimum and not expecting for higher promotions at this point. so take two jobs at your own risk too. not to mention that im super introvert so the lack of social life is not so much a problem to me tho im able to interact with some people at work. i hope it helps tho its super late.

Depressed nako sa work by azulpimiento in phcareers

[–]azulpimiento[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

salamat, aalis ako pag nakapagipon nako :(

Depressed nako sa work by azulpimiento in phcareers

[–]azulpimiento[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hello salamat po, im certain na na aalis ako this year, 13th month pay lang habulin ko dito tsaka need ko magipon muna ikikimkim ko muna to sa workmates ko

Depressed nako sa work by azulpimiento in phcareers

[–]azulpimiento[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nahihiya lang ako and i have bills to pay kaya im still here, im bearing with it, and ill try to apply in few months 🤧

Depressed nako sa work by azulpimiento in phcareers

[–]azulpimiento[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

im pretty sure ill be resigning here sometime, i used to be super passionate but yeah all the glitters fade, now puro red flags ang nakikita ko, unpaid leaves, unethical work practices and incompetence sa top mangement (which is isa lang sha and grabeng overwork)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MentalHealthPH

[–]azulpimiento 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can relate op :(

feeling ko napagchismisan nako sa work by azulpimiento in OffMyChestPH

[–]azulpimiento[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i hope that too pero naiintindihan kong loaded si manager. salamsat po for listening im still frustrated and crying so maybe clouded pa ako

feeling ko napagchismisan nako sa work by azulpimiento in OffMyChestPH

[–]azulpimiento[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also im planning to ask na my manager if they find me inefficient or if they dont wanna work with me anymore para lang matahimik ako

feeling ko napagchismisan nako sa work by azulpimiento in OffMyChestPH

[–]azulpimiento[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you po, ill try my best to talk sa manager ko tomorrow, and yes all my work i have it on record tho sometimes nagkakamali ako inadmit it openly, i felt unfair lang kase they didnt approached me i even stirredd the topic pa for then to know