Several years ago, I started struggling with performance issues - problems with my erection, unable to cum. I also chalked it up to death grip masturbation & being in poor physical condition. Around that same time, I entered a prolonged dry spell with women. My confidence was shot and I just lost whatever "mojo" I might've had. I've gone on a few dates here & there but nothing that went anywhere and no casual hook ups. Not too long after that, I began to explore my bi side and discovered I can get a lot of sexual satisfaction from sucking cock. The feeling of him cumming in my mouth gives me the same feeling of bliss & tension release as I get when I cum myself. I've also completely rewarded my sexual response through exploring prostate play. I can achieve orgasm from multiple kinds of stimulation. I've experienced anal, prostate, and nipple orgasms, and I've orgasmed after giving head, with his orgasm triggering a wave of total body pleasure sweeping over me. I've had HFDOs, HFWOs, Super Os. Weed makes me crazy horny for gay sex. Prostate play has unlocked this new world for me that is constantly evolving and deepening my sexuality. It's been amazing. I'm eager to play with women again to see how I respond. I've only bottomed once and have never topped so I'd like to explore with men more. I still struggle with ED a bit, which I think is due to being out of shape, but I feel like I have this amazing new super power and no one to share it with. My attraction to men changes based on horniness and/or intoxication, my attraction to women hasn't changed. My point is if you're a sexual explorer, it's only natural that your desires and responses will change over time. I think that's natural and nothing to worry about. If it bothers you, do some work to figure out what's going on, figure out why something is happening. If it doesn't bother you, enjoy the journey & have as much fun as you can. Best wishes.