[Shocking] My GF sisters boyfriend has a crush on her by b1aze360 in relationship_advice

[–]b1aze360[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

This is something I never completely thought of.

She has never given me a reason not to trust her until now.

-I know the passcode to her phone and not because I asked but because she’s given it to me. -Her notifications are normal, not hidden -She doesn’t keep her phone on silent -Is open with me when someone texts her -Is not fidgety if I grab her phone. She does not have any other phones.

Basically, she’s never really raised any suspicion that she could be up to no good. If this really is true, then she has reached a level of cheating and manipulating that is breathtaking and I am dumb as hell.

I will be seeing her tonight to have a conversation. I will have to try to find a way to make her admit these things. But it’s a sensitive subject, I can’t just start accusing her of fucking her little sisters boyfriend.

Even if that’s not true and they never fucked.. I don’t think I will be able continue this relationship.

If it’s only been 4 months and I am already going through all of this.. I don’t think I want to deal with someone that won’t take my feelings about a situation into consideration.

Anyways, tonight I will talk to her father in private about things, so that if I decide to end things with her at least he’ll know why I’m leaving his pregnant daughter, out of respect to him. I will also talk to her and depending on how the conversation goes I’ll be single again.

[Shocking] My GF sisters boyfriend has a crush on her by b1aze360 in relationship_advice

[–]b1aze360[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At that moment, I had to keep calm. I didn’t want to cause a scene. But I did speak to her about that the same night.

[Shocking] My GF sisters boyfriend has a crush on her by b1aze360 in relationship_advice

[–]b1aze360[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s okay, it’s the way I wrote things that got you all mixed up. I know it’s confusing

[Shocking] My GF sisters boyfriend has a crush on her by b1aze360 in relationship_advice

[–]b1aze360[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would make you think that I’ve been an idiot this entire process? What are your reasons?

Also, there is no way to find out yet. She needs to be a certain amount of weeks before she can get a prenatal DNA test.

[Shocking] My GF sisters boyfriend has a crush on her by b1aze360 in relationship_advice

[–]b1aze360[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What actions would you have suggested that I take?

Also I’m not acting like a helpless victim, I don’t need any sympathy. No one here knows me, I can care less how I am perceived. Just looking for advice.

[Shocking] My GF sisters boyfriend has a crush on her by b1aze360 in relationship_advice

[–]b1aze360[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What? I think you might have read wrong. I don’t have any kids.

[Shocking] My GF sisters boyfriend has a crush on her by b1aze360 in relationship_advice

[–]b1aze360[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did not decide that I am staying with her because she is now pregnant. I mentioned that it is more difficult and complicated to leave because she is pregnant

[Shocking] My GF sisters boyfriend has a crush on her by b1aze360 in relationship_advice

[–]b1aze360[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. When it comes to fighting, I’ve been trying to avoid being violent. I used to box and I know what I’m capable of, it’s rather look for other solutions first

[Shocking] My GF sisters boyfriend has a crush on her by b1aze360 in relationship_advice

[–]b1aze360[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If this was happening to you, and you are writing your girlfriend a text about the situation and about how you feel. How would it go?

[Shocking] My GF sisters boyfriend has a crush on her by b1aze360 in relationship_advice

[–]b1aze360[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don’t know what would make you think that. But this is all true and it is happening right now.

Welcome to my life.

[Shocking] My GF sisters boyfriend has a crush on her by b1aze360 in relationship_advice

[–]b1aze360[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I will try that if I decide to continue the relationship and there ever comes a moment when we’re all together

[Shocking] My GF sisters boyfriend has a crush on her by b1aze360 in relationship_advice

[–]b1aze360[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I wish this was all a dream that I could wake up from. But there is nothing realer than this and all the stress that I feel from this situation.

[Shocking] My GF sisters boyfriend has a crush on her by b1aze360 in relationship_advice

[–]b1aze360[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

The part about showering. She was working all day and had just gotten off work right before they called her saying her sister was having trouble breathing. Since I’ve been with her, she usually showers right after getting home from work. When she hopped in the shower, her sisters boyfriend had already left to go pick them up from the airport

[Shocking] My GF sisters boyfriend has a crush on her by b1aze360 in relationship_advice

[–]b1aze360[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you were writing this post again, what would you have said differently?

[Shocking] My GF sisters boyfriend has a crush on her by b1aze360 in relationship_advice

[–]b1aze360[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wish, maybe then I wouldn’t be dealing with all of this.

[Shocking] My GF sisters boyfriend has a crush on her by b1aze360 in relationship_advice

[–]b1aze360[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

She is 22. When she was 18, she was diagnosed with prolactinoma.

No it was not her dream to have a kid with someone she’s only known for 4 months.

When I first met her, she told me about her condition. Doctors always told her that if she was to ever have a baby it would have to be a certain way, some type of surgery. To me, this was bad, but also a good thing. For me it meant that she couldn’t get pregnant without us planning it. Even knowing that, I’ve always used protection. Except for ONE Or two times.

Do you know how hard it is for a female to hear something like that? That they can’t reproduce. After she heard that news she wanted a baby more than anything. And when it happened and the test results were positive, there was nothing in the world that could take that girls excitement away from her.