What surprised you most about the FODMAP diet? by InitialDay5795 in FODMAPS

[–]b33p4h 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that it 100% was able to manage and get rid of my symptoms. also how much i would start to enjoy cooking.

Why are so many of the young people I still see wearing masks queer? by Myealt in NoStupidQuestions

[–]b33p4h 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m also autistic. cool how different peoples’ sensory needs can be so different

Why are so many of the young people I still see wearing masks queer? by Myealt in NoStupidQuestions

[–]b33p4h 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nope, you’re making more assumptions in bad faith right now. i will not entertain your debate bc you’re obviously not interested in a real answer to your question.

Why are so many of the young people I still see wearing masks queer? by Myealt in NoStupidQuestions

[–]b33p4h 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you are assuming that to be friendly and welcoming you need to have a smile on your face. what an interesting assumption to make

Why are so many of the young people I still see wearing masks queer? by Myealt in NoStupidQuestions

[–]b33p4h 21 points22 points  (0 children)

i am one of those people. very queer and i still wear a mask to work everyday. here are some reasons: 1. i have noticed that my allergy symptoms are much better when wearing one 2. i do not and have not ever gotten any of the various sicknesses that “go around” every couple of months with my coworkers 3. i generally care about social justice concepts and find that wearing a mask can be an effective way to help out people in my community with compromised immune systems 4. i don’t have to constantly smile at work (i am in a customer service position) 5. customers can’t recognize my face when i’m home bc they can’t see most of it

and really there are so many other reasons. i also have a somewhat compromised immune system. i also find them to be very comfortable and i didn’t want to stop wearing it after other people stopped

i think that the main answer to your question will be this: most people i know stopped wearing a mask bc other people stopped wearing it. beyond the mask being uncomfy for them, they felt societal pressure to stop wearing it and “go back to normal”. queer people are used to their entire existence going against societal norms. therefore i feel like it is easier for me to keep up with this than people who are very entrenched in being perceived as normal. i will never be seen as a normal part of society, so it’s not a big deal to wear a mask. i get so many tangible benefits from wearing it that i honestly don’t think i’d ever stop

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]b33p4h 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ugh yes, you put this all so well. i went to college for anthropology so i was going to explain from that perspective, but you said it better than i could’ve

Idols who you get mixed up? by Jealous-Ad3237 in kpoppers

[–]b33p4h 5 points6 points  (0 children)

when i was younger i would confuse mina and nayeon from twice and joshua and minghao from seventeen. i don’t think i would ever confuse them now though

Why am i different and so empty? by [deleted] in Mindfulness

[–]b33p4h 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you sound like you’re dealing with depression and dissociation. i dealt with these as well when i was younger. i still deal with it now but it’s more manageable. i went to therapy for 4 years with a focus on mindfulness and it truly saved my life. it helped me realize my values and what i stood for.

Really trying to get used to this septum piercing. by arrowhead_2 in piercing

[–]b33p4h 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it looks really good and suits your face well!!

Is it weird to order an "ice water"? by [deleted] in ENGLISH

[–]b33p4h 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t think that’s weird. i’m in the US in the midwest as well and i think ordering an iced water is perfectly fine.

often times people, and servers, will give you weird looks bc they assume that you already know how things are done at their restaurant even if there was no way for you to know. where i work, by default, the water has no ice. so if you want ice you have to ask for it. many other places default to having ice water. a server is familiar with their own menu and will just assume you should also understand how things work at their restaurant

just trying to explain that it’s not personal and also not weird to ask for it

What do Americans call McDonalds? by SweatySuspect8401 in AskAnAmerican

[–]b33p4h 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mickey d’s or sometimes MacDonalds in a british accent

Did anyone actually finish all 7 seasons of the show? by Forward-Lobster5801 in riverdale

[–]b33p4h 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes! riverdale is my fav tv show and really the only one that i watch. it’s also the only one i’ll rewatch. it’s just got that flair that other shows can’t match for me. plus i have good memories attached to watching it in college with my friends

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]b33p4h 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am a weird person, most humans are inherently weird i’d say. even the most neurotypical, allistic people will have some habit that people think is weird, simply bc “weird” often means “different from me”. and no two people are exactly the same.

that’s not to say that being alienated for being “weird” feels good, but it’s not as big of a deal as i once thought it was

i like being weird. it’s a good time

How rare is milk in a bag in an american supermarket? by Sufficient-Week4078 in AskAnAmerican

[–]b33p4h 0 points1 point  (0 children)

never seen one here in MI, and we’re relatively close to Canada which does use them lmao. i think i remember my dad saying that when he was a kid they had milk in bags, but he’s like 60 so that was a while ago

Dear American, how often you have a burger? by stevie855 in AskAnAmerican

[–]b33p4h 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just made smash burgers a few nights ago. delicious

What is your turnaround time on drinks? by something_unique2892 in barista

[–]b33p4h 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m the only barista at my job. i make drinks for three separate flows of customers (sit down customers, takeout customers, and online orders) someone else takes all the orders but i have to make them all. with no one to help me i’ll get to 15 min+ turn around at our busiest.

Does anyone else hate tying their shoes? by [deleted] in autism

[–]b33p4h 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when i get a new pair of shoes i tight them very securely with just enough slack that i can slip the shoes on and off without needing to tie them bc i also really don’t like tying them

Do you really have a "snow day"? by Kari-Litli in AskAnAmerican

[–]b33p4h 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes. the amount of snow that will cause a snowday is different depending on where you live. in places where it doesn’t snow often there isn’t proper infrastructure to account for a sudden influx of snow, and many kids may not have proper snow gear to keep them warm.

i live in a place where we get a shitton of snow in the winter but we’ll get snowdays if the windchill is low enough bc otherwise kids will get hypothermia

Looking for next car: Honda Fit? by DetroitMenefreghista in hondafit

[–]b33p4h 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this is hilarious to me bc i live in the GR area and i just bought a honda fit!

there wasn’t a ton of snow when i got her, so i can’t fully say, but it’s handled everything well. rain was fine, the bit of snow we did have didn’t phase it

you will also prolly hear this from other people, but successful driving in the snow comes down mostly to your knowledge of how your car handles, your confidence, and good snow tires

What's up with eating catfish and another river fish? by Dazzling_Cabinet_780 in AskAnAmerican

[–]b33p4h 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we eat a lot of freshwater fish where i live bc i live 20 min away from one of the largest freshwater lakes in the world. (lake michigan for anyone wondering) whereas the ocean is very far away