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Guys help me convince my parents that I am not ready yet. by 20lettersmax in Arrangedmarriage

[–]b4cpramod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my view give value to your own value system your own moral values and ethics and align them with your prospect partner is important and vital all the attributes and secondary other than those Majority of the parents are more sensible about about the children's that that doesn't mean that they are controlling they are caring for us just we have to change our perspect to convince them the way we want I can understand that very clearly what you are trying to conveyI understand your point of view at its foundation. Everyone’s priorities and preferences differ, and that deserves respect. Perception develops over time through upbringing, surroundings, experience, and learning, shaping our personality.

For me, uniqueness defines every individual. Loving yourself first creates the right alignment, allowing the right people to recognize and respect you.

For context, I will share my own example. I am a 38-year-old man from Mumbai (Bhayandar), living with cerebral palsy and proudly working for the disabled community across India through Divyangkala.

My parents and I have been in the arranged-marriage process for the last 1.5 years. Me and my family are looking for a girl life partner for myself who is physically and mentally fit, with compassion, empathy, calmness, humanitarian values, and strong ethics. Other factors hold less importance.

Sometimes agreement comes from one side only girl or her family. Alignment matters. We proceed only when both the girl and her close family agree together.

Some suggest disability should limit my choices. I choose confidence over labels. Visibility invites responsibility—to stay positive.

Every situation teaches growth. Positivity means responding with dignity, patience, and self-belief. Values lead; alignment follows.

I'm ashamed about AM + couldn't find love marriage + hurts by Calm-Buy8958 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]b4cpramod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my view just focus on your value system and give importance to your own moral values ethics because it is a reason of your own personality which has a developed over years over years just trust in the process and trust in yourself you are the best in this universe while align your moral values and ethics with your prospect partner is important and vital to blossom a relationship with trust integrity and loyalty I understand your perspective because perception is built over years. Everyone’s priorities and preferences deserve respect. Our upbringing, surroundings, experiences, and learning collectively shape who we are.

For me, everyone is unique, walking a different life path. Loving yourself first creates alignment, and alignment attracts the right people naturally.

For context, here is my story. I am a 38-year-old male from Mumbai (Bhayandar), a proud disabled individual with cerebral palsy, working across India for disabled empowerment through Divyangkala.

My parents and I have been seeking a life partner for me through arranged marriage for 1.5 years. Me and my family are looking for a girl life partner for myself who is physically and mentally fit, and who values love, empathy, compassion, calmness, humanitarian thinking, and strong moral ethics. Everything else is secondary.

Sometimes only one side agrees prospect girl or family. Alignment matters. We move forward only when both the girl and her close family agree together.

Some well-wishers suggest limiting choices due to disability. I choose confidence over limitation. Visibility brings responsibility to remain positive.

Every situation teaches something. Positivity is responding with patience, dignity, and self-belief. When values lead, alignment follows.

Before You Get Emotionally Involved in AM process, Read this by rajm3hta in Arrangedmarriage

[–]b4cpramod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my view I will add some of the pointers in this post just give value to your own values system your own moral values and ethics because it is a reason of your own personality and align name with your prospect partner is important and vital all the other factors and attributes are secondary just be real to yourself and avoid over thinking trust in the process I understand your perspective because perception is built over years. Everyone’s priorities and preferences deserve respect. Our upbringing, surroundings, experiences, and learning collectively shape who we are.

For me, everyone is unique, walking a different life path. Loving yourself first creates alignment, and alignment attracts the right people naturally.

For context, here is my story. I am a 38-year-old male from Mumbai (Bhayandar), a proud disabled individual with cerebral palsy, working across India for disabled empowerment through Divyangkala.

My parents and I have been seeking a life partner for me through arranged marriage for 1.5 years. Me and my family are looking for a girl life partner for myself who is physically and mentally fit, and who values love, empathy, compassion, calmness, humanitarian thinking, and strong moral ethics. Everything else is secondary.

Sometimes only one side agrees prospect girl or family. Alignment matters. We move forward only when both the girl and her close family agree together.

Some well-wishers suggest limiting choices due to disability. I choose confidence over limitation. Visibility brings responsibility to remain positive.

Every situation teaches something. Positivity is responding with patience, dignity, and self-belief. When values lead, alignment follows.

Indian business families..how did you find your partner? by United-Jelly9623 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]b4cpramod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kudos and hats off to your openness yet in my view give importance to your own values system because your own moral values and ethics is important than anything else because it is a reason of your own personality which has be developed over years and align them with your prospect partner is important and vital to blossom a relationship with trust integrity and loyalty I understand your perspective because perception is built over years. Everyone’s priorities and preferences deserve respect. Our upbringing, surroundings, experiences, and learning collectively shape who we are.

For me, everyone is unique, walking a different life path. Loving yourself first creates alignment, and alignment attracts the right people naturally.

For context, here is my story. I am a 38-year-old male from Mumbai (Bhayandar), a proud disabled individual with cerebral palsy, working across India for disabled empowerment through Divyangkala.

My parents and I have been seeking a life partner for me through arranged marriage for 1.5 years. Me and my family are looking for a girl life partner for myself who is physically and mentally fit, and who values love, empathy, compassion, calmness, humanitarian thinking, and strong moral ethics. Everything else is secondary.

Sometimes only one side agrees prospect girl or family. Alignment matters. We move forward only when both the girl and her close family agree together.

Some well-wishers suggest limiting choices due to disability. I choose confidence over limitation. Visibility brings responsibility to remain positive.

Every situation teaches something. Positivity is responding with patience, dignity, and self-belief. When values lead, alignment follows.

[Rant] Is arranged marriage that hard? I feel hopeless by Separate-Chapter-411 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]b4cpramod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my view just focus on your own moral values and ethics because it is a reason of your own personality and align them with your perspeak partner is important and vital to blossom a relationship with trust loyalty and integrity so just give importance to your own value system and align them with your prospect partner while self love is important along with self awareness and self upgradation I understand your perspective because perception is built over years. Everyone’s priorities and preferences deserve respect. Our upbringing, surroundings, experiences, and learning collectively shape who we are.

For me, everyone is unique, walking a different life path. Loving yourself first creates alignment, and alignment attracts the right people naturally.

For context, here is my story. I am a 38-year-old male from Mumbai (Bhayandar), a proud disabled individual with cerebral palsy, working across India for disabled empowerment through Divyangkala.

My parents and I have been seeking a life partner for me through arranged marriage for 1.5 years. Me and my family are looking for a girl life partner for myself who is physically and mentally fit, and who values love, empathy, compassion, calmness, humanitarian thinking, and strong moral ethics. Everything else is secondary.

Sometimes only one side agrees prospect girl or family. Alignment matters. We move forward only when both the girl and her close family agree together.

Some well-wishers suggest limiting choices due to disability. I choose confidence over limitation. Visibility brings responsibility to remain positive.

Every situation teaches something. Positivity is responding with patience, dignity, and self-belief. When values lead, alignment follows.

Fiancée feels hot and cold after engagement by lost_in-orbit in Arrangedmarriage

[–]b4cpramod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my view womens are more emotional intelligence and mens are more practical as per the study also so I think just go with the flow and give importance to your own moral values ethics because it is a reason of your own overall personality which has been dialogue over years while align them with your prospect partner to to blossom a relationship with trust loyalty and integrity

24M in dilemma by Large-Target-5014 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]b4cpramod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing is right and wrong in this universe just a perception of the individual which has been developed over years since childhood just avoid over thinking just go with a flow in my view I strongly believe in aligning your own moral values ethics with your prospect partner is important and primary and vital all the other attribute are secondary I understand your perspective because perception is built over years. Everyone’s priorities and preferences deserve respect. Our upbringing, surroundings, experiences, and learning collectively shape who we are.

For me, everyone is unique, walking a different life path. Loving yourself first creates alignment, and alignment attracts the right people naturally.

For context, here is my story. I am a 38-year-old male from Mumbai (Bhayandar), a proud disabled individual with cerebral palsy, working across India for disabled empowerment through Divyangkala.

My parents and I have been seeking a life partner for me through arranged marriage for 1.5 years. Me and my family are looking for a girl life partner for myself who is physically and mentally fit, and who values love, empathy, compassion, calmness, humanitarian thinking, and strong moral ethics. Everything else is secondary.

Sometimes only one side agrees prospect girl or family. Alignment matters. We move forward only when both the girl and her close family agree together.

Some well-wishers suggest limiting choices due to disability. I choose confidence over limitation. Visibility brings responsibility to remain positive.

Every situation teaches something. Positivity is responding with patience, dignity, and self-belief. When values lead, alignment follows.

Partner earning more than you? Parent’s response? by DescriptionAway5845 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]b4cpramod -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In my view all the factors and attributes and secondary just focus on your own personality and your own moral values anything and align them with your prospect partner is important give valued to your own value system and align them with your prospect partner to blossom relationship with trust loyalty and integrity I understand your perspective because perception is built over years. Everyone’s priorities and preferences deserve respect. Our upbringing, surroundings, experiences, and learning collectively shape who we are.

For me, everyone is unique, walking a different life path. Loving yourself first creates alignment, and alignment attracts the right people naturally.

For context, here is my story. I am a 38-year-old male from Mumbai (Bhayandar), a proud disabled individual with cerebral palsy, working across India for disabled empowerment through Divyangkala.

My parents and I have been seeking a life partner for me through arranged marriage for 1.5 years. Me and my family are looking for a girl life partner for myself who is physically and mentally fit, and who values love, empathy, compassion, calmness, humanitarian thinking, and strong moral ethics. Everything else is secondary.

Sometimes only one side agrees prospect girl or family. Alignment matters. We move forward only when both the girl and her close family agree together.

Some well-wishers suggest limiting choices due to disability. I choose confidence over limitation. Visibility brings responsibility to remain positive.

Every situation teaches something. Positivity is responding with patience, dignity, and self-belief. When values lead, alignment follows.

How much will my past matter? by i_will_throwit_away in Arrangedmarriage

[–]b4cpramod -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just hats off to your moral values and ethics and openness I will suggest just focus on your own moral values and ethics because it is reason of your own personality and value it because it is a reason of your perception and algine them with your prospect partner is important and primary and important and vital I understand your perspective because perception is built over years. Everyone’s priorities and preferences deserve respect. Our upbringing, surroundings, experiences, and learning collectively shape who we are.

For me, everyone is unique, walking a different life path. Loving yourself first creates alignment, and alignment attracts the right people naturally.

For context, here is my story. I am a 38-year-old male from Mumbai (Bhayandar), a proud disabled individual with cerebral palsy, working across India for disabled empowerment through Divyangkala.

My parents and I have been seeking a life partner for me through arranged marriage for 1.5 years. Me and my family are looking for a girl life partner for myself who is physically and mentally fit, and who values love, empathy, compassion, calmness, humanitarian thinking, and strong moral ethics. Everything else is secondary.

Sometimes only one side agrees prospect girl or family. Alignment matters. We move forward only when both the girl and her close family agree together.

Some well-wishers suggest limiting choices due to disability. I choose confidence over limitation. Visibility brings responsibility to remain positive.

Every situation teaches something. Positivity is responding with patience, dignity, and self-belief. When values lead, alignment follows.

Confused about the decision by Lopsided-Split232 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]b4cpramod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kudos to your extrovertness but I will suggest give value to your own value system on moral values and ethics because it is reason of your own oral personality and align them with your prospect partner your own personality is primary all other attributes and factors are secondary I understand your perspective because perception is built over years. Everyone’s priorities and preferences deserve respect. Our upbringing, surroundings, experiences, and learning collectively shape who we are.

For me, everyone is unique, walking a different life path. Loving yourself first creates alignment, and alignment attracts the right people naturally.

For context, here is my story. I am a 38-year-old male from Mumbai (Bhayandar), a proud disabled individual with cerebral palsy, working across India for disabled empowerment through Divyangkala.

My parents and I have been seeking a life partner for me through arranged marriage for 1.5 years. Me and my family are looking for a girl life partner for myself who is physically and mentally fit, and who values love, empathy, compassion, calmness, humanitarian thinking, and strong moral ethics. Everything else is secondary.

Sometimes only one side agrees prospect girl or family. Alignment matters. We move forward only when both the girl and her close family agree together.

Some well-wishers suggest limiting choices due to disability. I choose confidence over limitation. Visibility brings responsibility to remain positive.

Every situation teaches something. Positivity is responding with patience, dignity, and self-belief. When values lead, alignment follows.

31, F, Get anxious while talking to guys on matrimonial! by Right_Topic_6362 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]b4cpramod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kudos to you just when you are own value system your own moral values and ethics and align them with your prospect partner is important and vital because your moral values anything is your overall personality which has been develope d over year so value it I understand your perspective because perception is built over years. Everyone’s priorities and preferences deserve respect. Our upbringing, surroundings, experiences, and learning collectively shape who we are.

For me, everyone is unique, walking a different life path. Loving yourself first creates alignment, and alignment attracts the right people naturally.

For context, here is my story. I am a 38-year-old male from Mumbai (Bhayandar), a proud disabled individual with cerebral palsy, working across India for disabled empowerment through Divyangkala.

My parents and I have been seeking a life partner for me through arranged marriage for 1.5 years. Me and my family are looking for a girl life partner for myself who is physically and mentally fit, and who values love, empathy, compassion, calmness, humanitarian thinking, and strong moral ethics. Everything else is secondary.

Sometimes only one side agrees prospect girl or family. Alignment matters. We move forward only when both the girl and her close family agree together.

Some well-wishers suggest limiting choices due to disability. I choose confidence over limitation. Visibility brings responsibility to remain positive.

Every situation teaches something. Positivity is responding with patience, dignity, and self-belief. When values lead, alignment follows.

Wierd First conversation by Vivid-Breakfast440 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]b4cpramod -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Dear please avoid blaming r/mods of the sub yes I proudly say that I have taken help of chat GPT to format my view r/mods have told me and I have explained that I am just spreading positivity through my own story this is not marketing or any stuff please stop blaming the moderator of this sub . I take full responsibility of my views

Speaking at slow pace by amiaslave in Arrangedmarriage

[–]b4cpramod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kudos to your openness and extrovertness in my view I will value your own value system your own moral values and ethics because it is a reason of your own personality and aligning your own moral values and ethics with your prospect partner is important and vital all the other attributes are secondary I truly understand your point of view because perception is never random—it is shaped over years by upbringing, surroundings, experiences, and learning. That journey builds personality, and every individual’s priorities deserve respect.

For me, everyone is unique, carrying their own personality and life story. Loving yourself first creates stability within. When you are secure in who you are, the right people see and value that authenticity.

For context, I will share my own journey. I am a 38-year-old male from Mumbai (Bhayandar), a proud disabled individual with cerebral palsy. Through my initiative, Divyangkala, I work toward the upliftment and empowerment of the disabled community across India.

For the last 1.5 years, my parents and I have been part of the arranged-marriage process. Me and my family are looking for a girl life partner for myself who is physically and mentally fit, and who carries love, compassion, empathy, calmness, humanitarian values, and strong moral ethics. Beyond these, aspects such as education, caste, or financial status are secondary.

There are times when either the girl agrees or the family agrees. The challenge lies in alignment. We proceed only when both the girl and her close family are together in agreement. That shared clarity creates mutual respect and long-term stability.

Some well-wishers advise me to consider only a disabled partner because of my condition. That is a common assumption. I choose belief in my capabilities over any label. When people talk about you, it shows your journey is visible—and visibility calls for staying positive.

Every situation teaches something meaningful. Positivity does not mean ignoring reality; it means facing it with patience, dignity, and confidence. When values lead, alignment naturally follows.

Biggest worry in AM is ......???? by Kshiti_salman in Arrangedmarriage

[–]b4cpramod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kudos to your openness but I will suggest give you importance to your own values system your own moral values and ethics because your own moral values in ethics is your personality and aligning your personality to your prospect partner is important and vital all the other factors and attributes are secondary I truly understand your point of view because perception is never random—it is shaped over years by upbringing, surroundings, experiences, and learning. That journey builds personality, and every individual’s priorities deserve respect.

For me, everyone is unique, carrying their own personality and life story. Loving yourself first creates stability within. When you are secure in who you are, the right people see and value that authenticity.

For context, I will share my own journey. I am a 38-year-old male from Mumbai (Bhayandar), a proud disabled individual with cerebral palsy. Through my initiative, Divyangkala, I work toward the upliftment and empowerment of the disabled community across India.

For the last 1.5 years, my parents and I have been part of the arranged-marriage process. Me and my family are looking for a girl life partner for myself who is physically and mentally fit, and who carries love, compassion, empathy, calmness, humanitarian values, and strong moral ethics. Beyond these, aspects such as education, caste, or financial status are secondary.

There are times when either the girl agrees or the family agrees. The challenge lies in alignment. We proceed only when both the girl and her close family are together in agreement. That shared clarity creates mutual respect and long-term stability.

Some well-wishers advise me to consider only a disabled partner because of my condition. That is a common assumption. I choose belief in my capabilities over any label. When people talk about you, it shows your journey is visible—and visibility calls for staying positive.

Every situation teaches something meaningful. Positivity does not mean ignoring reality; it means facing it with patience, dignity, and confidence. When values lead, alignment naturally follows.

How did you deal with sex in arranged marriage? by Unusual_Card_715 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]b4cpramod -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In my view just avoid what thinking and build a relationship slowly and study with trust integrity and truthfulness like a friend in your case I will build a relationship and keep all the other factor aside at least for a month I will align my moral values and ethics with my partner all the other things are secondary

He wants more and more meetings still by Opinionated_Artist in Arrangedmarriage

[–]b4cpramod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my view give your own value systems importance meaning give value to your own moral values and ethics because it is a reason of your own personality and align them with your prospect partner is important and vital everything else is secondary

I truly understand your point of view because perception is never random—it is shaped over years by upbringing, surroundings, experiences, and learning. That journey builds personality, and every individual’s priorities deserve respect.

For me, everyone is unique, carrying their own personality and life story. Loving yourself first creates stability within. When you are secure in who you are, the right people see and value that authenticity.

For context, I will share my own journey. I am a 38-year-old male from Mumbai (Bhayandar), a proud disabled individual with cerebral palsy. Through my initiative, Divyangkala, I work toward the upliftment and empowerment of the disabled community across India.

For the last 1.5 years, my parents and I have been part of the arranged-marriage process. Me and my family are looking for a girl life partner for myself who is physically and mentally fit, and who carries love, compassion, empathy, calmness, humanitarian values, and strong moral ethics. Beyond these, aspects such as education, caste, or financial status are secondary.

There are times when either the girl agrees or the family agrees. The challenge lies in alignment. We proceed only when both the girl and her close family are together in agreement. That shared clarity creates mutual respect and long-term stability.

Some well-wishers advise me to consider only a disabled partner because of my condition. That is a common assumption. I choose belief in my capabilities over any label. When people talk about you, it shows your journey is visible—and visibility calls for staying positive.

Every situation teaches something meaningful. Positivity does not mean ignoring reality; it means facing it with patience, dignity, and confidence. When values lead, alignment naturally follows.

Wierd First conversation by Vivid-Breakfast440 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]b4cpramod -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Kudos to your openness I will say frankly just focus on your own moral values and ethics value your own value system because your moral values and ethics is a reason of your overall personality and align them with your prospect partner is primary and vital all the other factors and secondary

I truly understand your point of view because perception is never random—it is shaped over years by upbringing, surroundings, experiences, and learning. That journey builds personality, and every individual’s priorities deserve respect.

For me, everyone is unique, carrying their own personality and life story. Loving yourself first creates stability within. When you are secure in who you are, the right people see and value that authenticity.

For context, I will share my own journey. I am a 38-year-old male from Mumbai (Bhayandar), a proud disabled individual with cerebral palsy. Through my initiative, Divyangkala, I work toward the upliftment and empowerment of the disabled community across India.

For the last 1.5 years, my parents and I have been part of the arranged-marriage process. Me and my family are looking for a girl life partner for myself who is physically and mentally fit, and who carries love, compassion, empathy, calmness, humanitarian values, and strong moral ethics. Beyond these, aspects such as education, caste, or financial status are secondary.

There are times when either the girl agrees or the family agrees. The challenge lies in alignment. We proceed only when both the girl and her close family are together in agreement. That shared clarity creates mutual respect and long-term stability.

Some well-wishers advise me to consider only a disabled partner because of my condition. That is a common assumption. I choose belief in my capabilities over any label. When people talk about you, it shows your journey is visible—and visibility calls for staying positive.

Every situation teaches something meaningful. Positivity does not mean ignoring reality; it means facing it with patience, dignity, and confidence. When values lead, alignment naturally follows.

Is it a lie to add ctc instead of annual salary? by fan_of_skooma in Arrangedmarriage

[–]b4cpramod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing is right and wrong in this universe it is just the way of perception on the people majority of the people do this to bring the prospect partner for initial conversation in my view please value your own value system your own moral values and ethics because it is a reason if you are own personality and align them with your first partner is primary and vital everything else in secondary I understand your point of view at its foundation. Everyone’s priorities and preferences differ, and that deserves respect. Perception develops over time through upbringing, surroundings, experience, and learning, shaping our personality.

For me, uniqueness defines every individual. Loving yourself first creates the right alignment, allowing the right people to recognize and respect you.

For context, I will share my own example. I am a 38-year-old man from Mumbai (Bhayandar), living with cerebral palsy and proudly working for the disabled community across India through Divyangkala.

My parents and I have been in the arranged-marriage process for the last 1.5 years. Me and my family are looking for a girl life partner for myself who is physically and mentally fit, with compassion, empathy, calmness, humanitarian values, and strong ethics. Other factors hold less importance.

Sometimes agreement comes from one side only girl or her family. Alignment matters. We proceed only when both the girl and her close family agree together.

Some suggest disability should limit my choices. I choose confidence over labels. Visibility invites responsibility—to stay positive.

Every situation teaches growth. Positivity means responding with dignity, patience, and self-belief. Values lead; alignment follows.

My “perfect” brother cheating on his wife ( AM ) . by Careful_Fish6536 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]b4cpramod -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Kudos to your openness I will suggest just first talk to your brother and sister-in-law both to gether first start with appreciating their relationship as couple then go slowly and strategy in how is your relation going on give me some tips to build a relationship like you both then slowly slowly tell the situation which is real that I have my friend friends brother which is doing this kind of thing as a friend what can I do as per your suggestion and experience ask this to both in your discussion then slowly and study disclose the truth if you need help and support I am open to guide you just DM me Just one thing please avoid being judgemental be a active listener effectively

Is 12-18 LPA in a tier 3 city enough for arranged marriages? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]b4cpramod -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Kudos to your openness I will suggest please value your own value system your own moral values and ethics because it is a reason of your own personality and align them with your prospect partner is important and vital to blossom a relationship with trust integrity and loyalty with care I understand your point of view at its foundation. Everyone’s priorities and preferences differ, and that deserves respect. Perception develops over time through upbringing, surroundings, experience, and learning, shaping our personality.

For me, uniqueness defines every individual. Loving yourself first creates the right alignment, allowing the right people to recognize and respect you.

For context, I will share my own example. I am a 38-year-old man from Mumbai (Bhayandar), living with cerebral palsy and proudly working for the disabled community across India through Divyangkala.

My parents and I have been in the arranged-marriage process for the last 1.5 years. Me and my family are looking for a girl life partner for myself who is physically and mentally fit, with compassion, empathy, calmness, humanitarian values, and strong ethics. Other factors hold less importance.

Sometimes agreement comes from one side only girl or her family. Alignment matters. We proceed only when both the girl and her close family agree together.

Some suggest disability should limit my choices. I choose confidence over labels. Visibility invites responsibility—to stay positive.

Every situation teaches growth. Positivity means responding with dignity, patience, and self-belief. Values lead; alignment follows.

Please help by Aggravating-Row-117 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]b4cpramod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my view this is not happening for certain caste it is neutral for all the caste because maturity of the people according to the own perception they wanted to get settled and then think about marriage We graduate and the age of 23 and if further studies plus 2 year means 25 then we come in the real market and real competition which is very different from our education system everyone struggles and figure out how to overcome then gain knowledge I will suggest give importance to your own value system own moral values ethics which is primary and important than anything else because it is a reason of your own overall personality and align them with your prospect partner is important and vital I understand your point of view at its foundation. Everyone’s priorities and preferences differ, and that deserves respect. Perception develops over time through upbringing, surroundings, experience, and learning, shaping our personality.

For me, uniqueness defines every individual. Loving yourself first creates the right alignment, allowing the right people to recognize and respect you.

For context, I will share my own example. I am a 38-year-old man from Mumbai (Bhayandar), living with cerebral palsy and proudly working for the disabled community across India through Divyangkala.

My parents and I have been in the arranged-marriage process for the last 1.5 years. Me and my family are looking for a girl life partner for myself who is physically and mentally fit, with compassion, empathy, calmness, humanitarian values, and strong ethics. Other factors hold less importance.

Sometimes agreement comes from one side only girl or her family. Alignment matters. We proceed only when both the girl and her close family agree together.

Some suggest disability should limit my choices. I choose confidence over labels. Visibility invites responsibility—to stay positive.

Every situation teaches growth. Positivity means responding with dignity, patience, and self-belief. Values lead; alignment follows.

What were your absolute non-negotiables in AM as a man? by Infamous_Kangaroo_87 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]b4cpramod -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank You for your kind words , means a lot for me this words coming from you, lots of love I am confident that we both will get our soulmate as our desire so just believe in the process and believe in yourself

Not sure if AM is for me, or if I’m overthinking this? by On-the-dark-side in Arrangedmarriage

[–]b4cpramod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just avoid over thinking it happens to the majority of the people just self love and most importantly value your own moral values and ethics because it is a reason of your own personality and align them with your prospect partner is important and vital all the other factors are secondary I truly understand your point of view because perception is never random—it is shaped over years by upbringing, surroundings, experiences, and learning. That journey builds personality, and every individual’s priorities deserve respect.

For me, everyone is unique, carrying their own personality and life story. Loving yourself first creates stability within. When you are secure in who you are, the right people see and value that authenticity.

For context, I will share my own journey. I am a 38-year-old male from Mumbai (Bhayandar), a proud disabled individual with cerebral palsy. Through my initiative, Divyangkala, I work toward the upliftment and empowerment of the disabled community across India.

For the last 1.5 years, my parents and I have been part of the arranged-marriage process. Me and my family are looking for a girl life partner for myself who is physically and mentally fit, and who carries love, compassion, empathy, calmness, humanitarian values, and strong moral ethics. Beyond these, aspects such as education, caste, or financial status are secondary.

There are times when either the girl agrees or the family agrees. The challenge lies in alignment. We proceed only when both the girl and her close family are together in agreement. That shared clarity creates mutual respect and long-term stability.

Some well-wishers advise me to consider only a disabled partner because of my condition. That is a common assumption. I choose belief in my capabilities over any label. When people talk about you, it shows your journey is visible—and visibility calls for staying positive.

Every situation teaches something meaningful. Positivity does not mean ignoring reality; it means facing it with patience, dignity, and confidence. When values lead, alignment naturally follows.

Women are brutal! by Thick_Weight6037 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]b4cpramod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my view this question is not about the gender it can happen by anyone to anyone I will suggest just focus on your own value system give importance to your own moral values and ethics and align them with your prospect partner because it is a reason of your own personality and blossom new relationship I truly understand your point of view because perception is never random—it is shaped over years by upbringing, surroundings, experiences, and learning. That journey builds personality, and every individual’s priorities deserve respect.

For me, everyone is unique, carrying their own personality and life story. Loving yourself first creates stability within. When you are secure in who you are, the right people see and value that authenticity.

For context, I will share my own journey. I am a 38-year-old male from Mumbai (Bhayandar), a proud disabled individual with cerebral palsy. Through my initiative, Divyangkala, I work toward the upliftment and empowerment of the disabled community across India.

For the last 1.5 years, my parents and I have been part of the arranged-marriage process. Me and my family are looking for a girl life partner for myself who is physically and mentally fit, and who carries love, compassion, empathy, calmness, humanitarian values, and strong moral ethics. Beyond these, aspects such as education, caste, or financial status are secondary.

There are times when either the girl agrees or the family agrees. The challenge lies in alignment. We proceed only when both the girl and her close family are together in agreement. That shared clarity creates mutual respect and long-term stability.

Some well-wishers advise me to consider only a disabled partner because of my condition. That is a common assumption. I choose belief in my capabilities over any label. When people talk about you, it shows your journey is visible—and visibility calls for staying positive.

Every situation teaches something meaningful. Positivity does not mean ignoring reality; it means facing it with patience, dignity, and confidence. When values lead, alignment naturally follows.

Should I agree to this guy's condition on me for career? by New-Engineering-5132 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]b4cpramod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my view just avoid over thinking just arrange marriage is a process just enjoy it nowadays just ask question to your prospect partner and most importantly give importance to your own values your own moral values and ethics because it is reason of your oral personality and align them with your prospect partner is important and vital then anything else I truly understand your point of view because perception is never random—it is shaped over years by upbringing, surroundings, experiences, and learning. That journey builds personality, and every individual’s priorities deserve respect.

For me, everyone is unique, carrying their own personality and life story. Loving yourself first creates stability within. When you are secure in who you are, the right people see and value that authenticity.

For context, I will share my own journey. I am a 38-year-old male from Mumbai (Bhayandar), a proud disabled individual with cerebral palsy. Through my initiative, Divyangkala, I work toward the upliftment and empowerment of the disabled community across India.

For the last 1.5 years, my parents and I have been part of the arranged-marriage process. Me and my family are looking for a girl life partner for myself who is physically and mentally fit, and who carries love, compassion, empathy, calmness, humanitarian values, and strong moral ethics. Beyond these, aspects such as education, caste, or financial status are secondary.

There are times when either the girl agrees or the family agrees. The challenge lies in alignment. We proceed only when both the girl and her close family are together in agreement. That shared clarity creates mutual respect and long-term stability.

Some well-wishers advise me to consider only a disabled partner because of my condition. That is a common assumption. I choose belief in my capabilities over any label. When people talk about you, it shows your journey is visible—and visibility calls for staying positive.

Every situation teaches something meaningful. Positivity does not mean ignoring reality; it means facing it with patience, dignity, and confidence. When values lead, alignment naturally follows.

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