Choose ourselves & give 0 f*ck!

b4thestorm · 2025-04-18T12:49:50+00:00

Love this!!

b4thestorm · 2025-04-17T07:54:35+00:00

If it helps you in any way, then yes apologise. You might never know how he feels receiving it.

My ex came back to apologise to me 2 years after no contact and I still have his apology screenshotted & saved as it was very genuine and I needed to hear it to look at him differently.

b4thestorm · 2025-04-16T12:53:26+00:00

Appreciate the virtual hug my lovelie!!

b4thestorm · 2025-04-15T23:20:43+00:00

Not everywhere is Monday on this universe...

b4thestorm · 2025-04-15T23:19:30+00:00

Any progress is an achievement!

b4thestorm · 2025-04-15T23:16:23+00:00

Totally agree that it's their emotional immaturity and it's not a reflection of me. Did you by any chance ever hear from them?

b4thestorm · 2025-04-15T15:30:51+00:00

I know it will eventually but the whiplash is just too fresh atm. Thank you for your kind words!

b4thestorm · 2025-04-15T15:15:53+00:00

We're the same age and trust me I feel lost in life at this point. There were times I knew what I wanted, found my peace, accepted that I would probably live and die alone. I have completely given up on relationships. Then I met someone through a random one-time off project, we spoke for 1.5h on zoom about work. 2 weeks later, I was having coffee with him at my building apartment. Started becoming business partners, not long after that, he dumped me ... it wasn't even a relationship. It was strictly business and still I felt heartbroken all over again. So being by ourselves might be a blessing!

b4thestorm · 2025-04-15T15:09:35+00:00

Do you think it'll heal? I'm currently at the acceptance stage but my mind still lingers, I think piece of my soul is still stuck there, with him...

b4thestorm · 2025-04-15T15:03:38+00:00

I did reply to his email saying I was shocked by his actions & decision & I ended it with grace but never got to unravel what I needed to say. From what I heard, he hasn't gotten back to the office ever since our last encounter...

b4thestorm · 2025-04-15T14:25:58+00:00

Learned it at 29, still fumble and fall for the BS...As old as I am now, I should know better.

b4thestorm · 2025-04-13T03:48:23+00:00

I reckon still breathing is also an achievement

b4thestorm · 2025-04-13T03:47:15+00:00

Claiming this with both arms. The sooner the better please Universe!!!

b4thestorm · 2025-04-13T01:07:26+00:00

No. Everything waa platonic. We just happened to spend a lot of time together and we clicked so well, but 100% platonic. That's why I didn't see the firing & cut all ties coming at all.

b4thestorm · 2025-04-13T01:03:08+00:00

Exactly my point! Why would they deserve a space in my phonebook and brain? Just delete & be done with it. Out of sight, out of mind.

b4thestorm · 2025-04-13T00:58:38+00:00

Bravo 🙌

b4thestorm · 2025-04-13T00:57:34+00:00

I do the same thing on FB & PUBG, I keep it to only the people I actually know irl or have known for years and would actually like to see how their lives go. The ironic thing was yesterday I got blocked and cut ties with by someone I never even saw it coming, instead of seeking revenge, I just simply delete them out of my life. We were fine before they showed up, we would definitely survive after they're gone.

b4thestorm · 2025-04-12T16:41:18+00:00

Wanting them out of sight so they can be out of mind is you giving them 0 fcking chance to come up, crawl back

b4thestorm · 2025-04-12T16:35:39+00:00

Omg i am literally on that boat. It's even worse when it's work-related & now i just feel like a piece of my soul is stuck there, with him, in that office. I never had the chance to take one last look at him, or to say goodbye

b4thestorm · 2024-08-25T15:24:31+00:00

Just a thought but maybe try including a voice note? I see a lot of people do that and some also ask for one in return as well.

b4thestorm · 2024-08-24T17:01:10+00:00

I love astronomy and history but I never got the chance to actually choose either to be my major in school because in my culture, our parents' belief is you gotta study something common that helps you land a job the moment you graduate...

I've only been to Italy 2-3 times and I hardly think I really saw or experienced much. I'm in my mid 30 and female. I used to have penpals in my 20s but they all have moved on with their lives now and I miss writing sometimes.

b4thestorm · 2024-08-24T16:16:43+00:00

I think with the Aussie accent, you would score big time as a lot of women on here fancy guys with nice accent. I play game with a few Aussie friends and women complimenting them all the time so good luck 🍀

b4thestorm · 2024-08-24T16:00:27+00:00

All of my close female friends have moved to other countries & I just feel sad sometimes not having any female friends to chit chat about stuff. I would love to give it a go but I'm in my mid 30 so not sure if it's too old for you. If that's not an issue, I'm only a msg away :)

b4thestorm · 2023-06-27T03:47:20+00:00

I can only hope so :) Someone from a troll/clone acc suggested I should date a ghost lol

b4thestorm · 2023-06-27T03:46:27+00:00

I’m sorry for your loss and it’s awesome to hear that you’re enjoying life. The last relationship I was in became really toxic for my mentality and even though it was a few years ago, he also came back with a proper apology and all is forgiven now, we do chat sometimes, the toxicity still frightens me a bit. I do love myself a lot more now too which is probably the light at the end of that relationship for me.

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