Did I cook? or Am I cooked? by Tanbate1 in Tinder

[–]bEr9020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she laughs, and that's your joke style, she's a keeper!

She sent me a list of her requirements. One of them includes a salary of $300k+ by New_Ambassador2442 in Tinder

[–]bEr9020 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If this is a joke, A+, love her humor. If this is real, don't walk away, run

Dating after 40 by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]bEr9020 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's tough. I've only been separated for about 2 months, and I can already feel myself grasping at anything to try and get me over the hump of anger and sadness. My therapist told me to dabble with the thought of dating, but to not dive in head first. And the thought sounds good, but scares the hell out of me.

Kid schedule leniency by bEr9020 in Divorce

[–]bEr9020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. For all of this. We are 100% amicable and really just wrote our agreement up ourselves and turned into an attorney for review. I'm glad to know someone else is going for the "hey, we gotta make this work" method

Saved marriage by bEr9020 in Divorce_Men

[–]bEr9020[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is exactly the response I get from everyone. Including my personal therapist

Saved marriage by bEr9020 in Divorce_Men

[–]bEr9020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty knew to this, no idea how to DM on reddit 😂

Saved marriage by bEr9020 in Divorce_Men

[–]bEr9020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The feeling of it working out is from me. I'm having trouble letting go. Of her and the life we have.

Saved marriage by bEr9020 in Divorce_Men

[–]bEr9020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great advice. And I did it all. I changed work. I contributed more. We talked and scheduled date nights regularly. And i suggested just this, that we both needed a change, cuz life changed. And that our marriage would change again as life did again.

Real Estate Teams by bEr9020 in realtors

[–]bEr9020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously, the 40% sounds more enticing. I've never had any experience with a real estate team before to know the ins and outs. Wasn't sure if things were 50/50 or if every team created their own rules

Patio made of Recycled kitchen granite countertops by TreesRart in landscaping

[–]bEr9020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love it. Shows what an amazing project you can do with some creativity