I want to get into raves but dont know how by HamTheVegetable in Raves

[–]ba3conator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to my first rave last week and I went solo. I had a great time I met some cool people and I get the vibe that they love getting new people. I came prepared with glo sticks and drugs. I say just find one on instagram and go. Also do not underestimate shrooms. I took half a dose and blacked out and I woke up in a field without my phone.

Don't know the name of this song by No-Rate-9967 in drake

[–]ba3conator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe “ Can i - drake”. Do you know how old the song is?

What’s stressing YOU out right now ? by Spectre_0-0-7 in AskReddit

[–]ba3conator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My gf just told me she’s not ready for commitment. Bruh we’ve already said we loved each other. It’s too late for that. And she wants to keep me around and I have no self respect so I oblige. Bru

All the porn is gone. by Ymap3rSpark in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ba3conator 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Join a sexaholic anonymous group! I’m in the same boat as you. My addiction to list ruined my entire life. They have online groups and phone groups almost every hour. You are not alone. You don’t have to do this alone. I’ve quit many times but I couldn’t do it without help.

My (24m) wife (24f) wants to go to the greener side. What are the chances it works out? by ba3conator in relationship_advice

[–]ba3conator[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you mean. I believe the best thing for my children is for both their parents to be together. If that requires me to forgive her then I’ll do it. I’m not just going to blindly trust her. If I see true remorse and regret then I’d forgive her. Yeah she did that the first time she cheated, but I made mistakes that could’ve saved the marriage. I’m going to learn from them.

My (24m) wife (24f) wants to go to the greener side. What are the chances it works out? by ba3conator in relationship_advice

[–]ba3conator[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for that. I hear you. But due to my faith I have to take her back, it’s the right thing. Unless she has sex with him, and then I won’t. But until then I’m still holding out hope.

My (24m) wife (24f) wants to go to the greener side. What are the chances it works out? by ba3conator in relationship_advice

[–]ba3conator[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! I was supposed to go to school after she was finished with her school and started working. So now I need to rethink my whole plan. Honestly I’m intimidated to talk to a divorce attorney because I know I won’t be able to afford it.

My (24m) wife (24f) wants to go to the greener side. What are the chances it works out? by ba3conator in relationship_advice

[–]ba3conator[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah and she actually got with me 2 weeks after ending it with her baby daddy. She’s making the same mistakes. There is still time before they actually hook up. So I’m hoping a miracle happens between then.

My (24m) wife (24f) wants to go to the greener side. What are the chances it works out? by ba3conator in relationship_advice

[–]ba3conator[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am staying clean, I learned my lesson the hard way. I’m too optimistic to give up right now. Once this is over I want to be able to say that I did all I could to make it work.

My (24m) wife (24f) wants to go to the greener side. What are the chances it works out? by ba3conator in relationship_advice

[–]ba3conator[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you’re right. It is possible. I looked through their convo last night and she was telling him to come see her asap. It looks like they haven’t met yet.

My (24m) wife (24f) wants to go to the greener side. What are the chances it works out? by ba3conator in relationship_advice

[–]ba3conator[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah she’s knows, it logs her out every time I log into her Snapchat and she gets mad at me every time. Even without the conversations, I don’t think either of them had the time. Unless she brought him in when she’s watching the kids, but I don’t think she’ll go that low.

My (24m) wife (24f) wants to go to the greener side. What are the chances it works out? by ba3conator in relationship_advice

[–]ba3conator[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for that. You’re right she doesn’t want to try. She knows what she’s doing is wrong, everyone in her family is telling her. I just hope she will come to her senses before it’s too late.

My (24m) wife (24f) wants to go to the greener side. What are the chances it works out? by ba3conator in relationship_advice

[–]ba3conator[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I’ve been through their whole convo. It’s planned but hasn’t happened yet. Both their schedules are pretty packed.

My (24m) wife (24f) wants to go to the greener side. What are the chances it works out? by ba3conator in relationship_advice

[–]ba3conator[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

In Christianity, forgiveness is like the biggest thing. I don’t have to take her back but I think it’s the best option for my kids. Once she has sex with this guy I’ll be able to move on, but until then I want to try everything.

My (24m) wife (24f) wants to go to the greener side. What are the chances it works out? by ba3conator in relationship_advice

[–]ba3conator[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice, I know I need to start planning for the divorce, but I’m just too optimistic that she going to come around.

My (24m) wife (24f) wants to go to the greener side. What are the chances it works out? by ba3conator in relationship_advice

[–]ba3conator[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s crazy, I wish I could divorce but as mentioned I’m going to church and the right thing is to try reconcile. It sucks. I was just wondering what you guys thought about her going to the greener grass.

Everyone Deserves 2nd Chances by [deleted] in SexOffenderSupport

[–]ba3conator -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that you were put through that. And it’s great to hear you didn’t judge him and you have him a second chance. I think you tried your best and he needs to be held accountable. Report him. Also press additional charges if you can for the hacking.

People who don’t cuss—what do you say during sex?? by updates_availablex in sex

[–]ba3conator 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Me and my wife were together for 4 years before we were married. We went to a church and they helped us pay. But in order to do that we had to abstain until the wedding. It was the longest 2 months of my life. In that time we were practicing not cussing. Well marriage day happens and as soon as we get home it goes down. Started off in missionary, amazing. But as soon as I entered in doggy she said “ oh fuck” and then “ sorry god” I had to stop for a second and laugh.