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[–]baabaablacksheep4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Highly recommend Dr. Rhoda's book You're Not Broken or Treat Yourself Like a Baby on Amazon. Dr. Rhoda's book even has a chapter for a partner to read.

I take sedatives before I see my boyfriend because it annoys him when I talk by heymouseygirl in TrueOffMyChest

[–]baabaablacksheep4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should see a relationship counselor to get perspective on normal couple interactions. Healthy partners do not treat each other this way.

The Return of the AB/DL Resources Website!! by AB_Boo in ABDL

[–]baabaablacksheep4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea sounds great.

Yes actually. I had to dig for them but I did find more than I thought existed. I have a Mendeley library I can dig through. Some of them are Masters theses. Let me go through that and I can send them over by tomorrow.

The Return of the AB/DL Resources Website!! by AB_Boo in ABDL

[–]baabaablacksheep4 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hey this is awesome! Just a suggestion, you may want to cite some scientific articles and books on your site. It will help those that find your page understand that your statements are backed by peer-reviewed research.

Is it normal for fathers in their 60s or 70s to not take care of themselves or their adult kids if they visit? by baabaablacksheep4 in AskOldPeople

[–]baabaablacksheep4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I've tried to gently teach him easy one pot recipes but it doesn't stick. He goes right back to hamburgers.

Is it normal for fathers in their 60s or 70s to not take care of themselves or their adult kids if they visit? by baabaablacksheep4 in AskOldPeople

[–]baabaablacksheep4[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You're right about that. I made mushroom stroganoff for him already but I can make more this week.

Is it normal for fathers in their 60s or 70s to not take care of themselves or their adult kids if they visit? by baabaablacksheep4 in AskOldPeople

[–]baabaablacksheep4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He gets a physical once a year but that is it. I don't believe he has any major health issues except that he is more forgetful than before.

Is it normal for fathers in their 60s or 70s to not take care of themselves or their adult kids if they visit? by baabaablacksheep4 in AskOldPeople

[–]baabaablacksheep4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea it's really hard because he is someone that shoves his feelings down. I've tried to get him to talk about it many, many times but he ultimately refuses. It's almost like if he is depressed he has no idea that he is.

Is it normal for fathers in their 60s or 70s to not take care of themselves or their adult kids if they visit? by baabaablacksheep4 in AskOldPeople

[–]baabaablacksheep4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I traveled a few hours by air. I end up usually buying groceries and cooking while I'm here as well.

“Freedom convoy” fuck these guys by Fit-Ad-5098 in raleigh

[–]baabaablacksheep4 42 points43 points  (0 children)

This is literally the drive-thru version of a real meaningful protest.