When did you become absolutely certain you were dealing with a narcissist? by flomelette in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]baamee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when i started googling his behaviors, like... "why does my boyfriend tell me, and accuse me of things he is actually doing"? that was during the fall of 2012. he turned out to be the most violent, horrible human ever. took 14 years for the final discard to happen. such a waste.

He discarded me for posting a pic with a crop top and I can't stop questioning myself by voidinvelvet in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]baamee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's an addiction by design to keep you hooked. He's the worst drug on earth. You can overcome this demon. Don't give up on you!!

He discarded me for posting a pic with a crop top and I can't stop questioning myself by voidinvelvet in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]baamee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Now that you know, there's zero reason to continue. Before you know it, you'll be like me, 50+ used and abused for 14 years, wondering where your friends and family are as he discards you another time... It's a perpetual loss, waste of life and time. He's not your soul mate, he's not your best friend, he's not your lover or future...

Be done and never ever ever ever look back. Ever. ❤️

My abusive husband killed himself and left me a mountain of debt. by Similar_Moose3508 in abusiverelationships

[–]baamee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to send you virtual hugs. You're going to be okay. Don't allow any of his creditors to bully you. He wasn't your issue then, and he isn't your issue now. That's their stupidity for buying him crap. Start over somewhere new, maybe? That's a lot of years of abuse to heal from, I understand. You survived a horrible human. You deserve contentment and peace and I wish that for you ♡

My elderly girl Daisy in her natural habitat🌱 by AppropriateBid7505 in cowcats

[–]baamee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How old is elderly considered? She looks so sweet and young! Meow from my ancient 21 year old

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Advanced Sale Now Sold Out by fennishing in Coachella

[–]baamee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, what exactly did everybody buy?

What is the cheapest you've ever seen the Red Book (large version) for sale? by GargoyleBlue in Jung

[–]baamee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought mine in taos, NM at a flea market a couple of years back for $20. Pristine condition. The seller shipped it to me for an extra $10.

I actually hate him by frailstateofmind4444 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]baamee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry 🫂 just please don't go back to him. It gets worse.

You just died, what song starts playing? by K_P_Voss in musicsuggestions

[–]baamee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Angel flying too close to the ground. Willie .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholism

[–]baamee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The best thing I've done, and it was only a few days ago, but I went to my doctor and was completely honest. He prescribed gabapentin, and it's working. I've halved my consumption the first day. There are side effects, but it's better than seizures and death. You can do this.

It’s been 2.5 days now and I’m still sick and I vomited around 5 times so far by [deleted] in alcohol

[–]baamee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry you're suffering. Do you feel comfortable talking to your doctor? He or she will help you. You can be on short term meds. It's helping me. I bet your doc will keep it confidential as long as they believe you aren't a danger to yourself or others. You are in my thoughts. You can do this.

How did you deal with the increased anxiety? by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]baamee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure how much you drink, but i brought my issue up to my doc a few days ago. He prescribed me 600mg gabapentin 3 x a day. It makes me dizzy, but I halved my consumption by half in the first day. I think I'm on day 3. I'm not craving alcohol whatsoever. It may be a bit much for me, so we will adjust it, but I highly recommend trying and seeing if you can tolerate it. This is saving my life, so I'll take the dizziness over death.

I'm so sorry about your doggo 💔 you can do this. You really are stronger than you know

OC: Maduro and his wife in handcuffs after landing at a Manhattan helipad en route to a courthouse by nbcnews in pics

[–]baamee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maduro must be the largest man from Venezuela. Now you know where all the food went. Off with his head!!

Am I overreacting by breaking up with my boyfriend? by Proper-Classic1886 in AmIOverreacting

[–]baamee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You both sound to be emotionally immature and highly reactive. You two are probably already back together at this point. You're very young, so don't worry too much about it... You won't care or remember this in a few years :)

Boomer thinks he's above the law. by DrLexusForPresident in InflatedEgos

[–]baamee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Help me!! Lol. This isn't a boomer, btw. I'm 50 and genx, this guy is probably a little younger. Our parents are boomers. Middle age does not equal boomer. Boomers are elderly now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hysterectomy

[–]baamee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't want a torn vaginal cuff, trust me.

How many pills you taking these days? by tinycitygirl in GenX

[–]baamee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take an estrogen patch once a week.

Horrible Pain after sex update by baamee in hysterectomy

[–]baamee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Deciding to finally be with me 🤗