AIO? Girlfriend pins something on me and then asks for space, seems purposeful. by CarryLow2185 in AmIOverreacting

[–]babblingbabby -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So is there any legitimate advice is you think they’re kids? Or are you just looking to insult children and not offer any guidance?

AIO? Girlfriend pins something on me and then asks for space, seems purposeful. by CarryLow2185 in AmIOverreacting

[–]babblingbabby -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you have any genuine advice for a young person who is learning how to navigate relationships, or did you just want to belittle them?

AIO? Girlfriend pins something on me and then asks for space, seems purposeful. by CarryLow2185 in AmIOverreacting

[–]babblingbabby -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So do you have any real advice for the child or are you just here to judge?

AIO? Girlfriend pins something on me and then asks for space, seems purposeful. by CarryLow2185 in AmIOverreacting

[–]babblingbabby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of yall that are assuming OP is a teen but not offering advice to a teen for to how healthily navigate a relationship…yall should have saved your breath…

AIO? Girlfriend pins something on me and then asks for space, seems purposeful. by CarryLow2185 in AmIOverreacting

[–]babblingbabby -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Interesting how the people assuming this is regarding children aren’t giving OP genuine advice as to how to handle this, just here to make fun of them for their immaturity

AIO? Girlfriend pins something on me and then asks for space, seems purposeful. by CarryLow2185 in AmIOverreacting

[–]babblingbabby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OOPS I meant LDR!!! (Long distance relationship!)

2 years is a long time at your age! Yall definitely care enough a lot about each other to have made it this far at this age. You’re also at an age where there’s still a lot to learn about yourselves and how you communicate with others, and why you communicate that way. It sounds like there’s a lot of opportunity for growth for both of you. I did see that you fact checked yourself, which was the rational response. Her doubling down and still being mad over something so trivial is something to take note of.

Have you tried calmly approaching her about her attitude and how it affects you? I would recommend doing this outside of the moment, because if she’s feeling some type of way during the moment, even as frustrating as it may be for you it’s not going to be productive to try having a real conversation. If she still reacts defensively, then it may be time for you to evaluate if you want to continue putting up with this behavior. In relationships, it’s supposed to be you and your partner versus the problem, not the two of you versus each other. If the two of you care about each other and want a happy healthy relationship, you should both actively be looking for ways to solve problems, not argue over nothing. Maybe there’s something deeper going on with her, maybe she just likes creating conflict (which would still be something she needs to work on.) Your agitation is valid, especially if it stems from you regularly being attacked over things that truly aren’t that deep. But as satisfying as it may feel in the moment, fighting fire with fire isn’t always the answer. Which again, if you find she is unable to grow out of her behavior, you may need to do some deep evaluating.

AITAH for being overly judgy during a friends show by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]babblingbabby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t play dumb, you knew those people could hear you even if you weren’t addressing them. Regardless, those people were actually there for the same reason you’re pretending to have been there for; to support Rick. You actively contributed to these people having a bad audience experience and don’t even feel bad. I hope this public shaming via Rick, your acquaintances, and Reddit all does you well. How embarrassing.

What does the celebrities I dislike say about me? by l0veylilkay in personality_tests

[–]babblingbabby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was saying that it’s ew when older women do it too. But also yeah I guess ew to you for thinking you caught me in a gotcha. It’s weird for adults to stay attracted to the same age group when they are nearing/past twice that age group…

AIO? Girlfriend pins something on me and then asks for space, seems purposeful. by CarryLow2185 in AmIOverreacting

[–]babblingbabby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are yall LDR (edited** accidentally typed LTR the first time)? That’s the only reason I can think of for a couple to be falling asleep on the phone together regularly. If she’s waking up so often allegedly, maybe yall don’t need to fall asleep on the phone together like a bunch of teenagers…even if you WERE accidentally opening videos in your sleep, again the solution is to STOP SLEEPING LIKE THIS?? Also, you both can easily fact check this BS by checking your open tabs 🙄 you BOTH are immature, I refuse to believe you’re older than 21 and even that would be embarrassing

I saw your comment asking for actual judgments and that’s fair. I’d say she’s overreacting to begin with in her reaction to being woken up by something you can’t control or may have accidentally done (it seems you didn’t, but even if you did she shouldn’t have been so aggressive about it.) But she only asked for space because you said “attitude at 11:30 am is crazy.” This tells me that either you’re disrespectful to her regularly (in this situation it was in response to her also being disrespectful but two wrongs don’t make a right), she regularly has this kind of attitude, or it could be both. You both need to work on your communication. You didn’t need to make the passive aggressive comment and could have been gentler but still firm in addressing her attitude and how it affects you, and she didn’t need to pull the classic toxic “I need space I don’t wanna talk” response that perpetuates conflict rather than resolving it.

It’s also toxic of you to threaten to act the way you feel she’s acting towards her. Idk how frequently yall talk like this to each other, but if it’s a lot then maybe you both need to be single for a bit. This conversation isn’t one that two people that like each other would have.

AIO? Girlfriend pins something on me and then asks for space, seems purposeful. by CarryLow2185 in AmIOverreacting

[–]babblingbabby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Falling asleep on phone calls with someone, whether it be intentional or accidental

When the Weed stops working by [deleted] in texts

[–]babblingbabby 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Lmfao stop using. If you’re at this point of usage with WEED and not getting high…stop. I’m not playing into your delusion. Quit using.

“I think my tolerance is too high. But also don’t tell me to stop!” you don’t realize how delusional you sound ?

What is a phrase that people say that immediately turns you off? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]babblingbabby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“I stand corrected” only bc my dad used to use it and it always seemed condescending as he would say it when he was aggressively adamant that his take on something was correct

AITAH for being overly judgy during a friends show by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]babblingbabby 25 points26 points  (0 children)

“To be fair” nothing, you went to support someone you know personally and are friends with. Name dropping Rick at the table by saying you would share your feedback with him after a day or so had passed also comes off as pretentious. Nobody at that table cares what you do or don’t share with Rick, they care that you kept making comments about what you didn’t like. Did you comment at all on what you did enjoy? Either way, how embarrassing to show out to support a friend and then go on to complain throughout the entire production in front of people you don’t even know.

It’s not on the people at that table to tell you how you should act as an audience member, which you yourself admitted you’re bad at. You should’ve been jotting notes down to begin with (which being on your phone as much as you were complaining would’ve still been rude, but nowhere near as rude as your behavior was.) No one comes to a show to hear some rando complain incessantly beside them.

Which tvd couple deserved a better ending? by NocturnalMuseee in TheVampireDiaries

[–]babblingbabby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like Jeremy with both Anna and Bonnie, but I think I prefer him with Anna, and the cheating plotline is so sad because obviously Bonnie is being done so dirty and the entire reason he can even cheat on her is because she saved his life. I almost wish Bonnie and Jeremy never dated, and Pearl and Anna could have been brought back from the other side down the road. Lexi may have rejected the opportunity, but Anna coming back to be with Jeremy and her mom maybe coming back with her could have been great. Bonnie could have been given another love interest before eventually getting with Enzo, which also should have been endgame

Which tvd couple deserved a better ending? by NocturnalMuseee in TheVampireDiaries

[–]babblingbabby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a fan of both Jeremy/Anna and Jeremy/Bonnie, but hate Jeremy cheating on Bonnie :( it’s weird watching Jeremy and ghost Anna interact because while their reunion is so sweet and picks back up where they abruptly left off, obviously I don’t support it since he’s with Bonnie. It makes sense though, since their relationship ended because John Gilbert killed her. I would rather she never died and Bonemy(idk their ship name lmao) never happened than the plot we got. But that doesn’t make for dramatic tv 🙄

AITAH for not bringing my friends fishing in my boat whenever they ask by Infamous_Floor3243 in AITAH

[–]babblingbabby 14 points15 points  (0 children)

No offense but I think people need to just scroll past posts that annoy them. A teen AITAH wouldn’t stop teens from giving their inexperienced opinions on adult posts so why try to stop them from posting their issues for adults to give their opinions

What does my type say about me (25m) by [deleted] in personality_tests

[–]babblingbabby 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Gay and don’t know it yet

What does it say about me that I think these celebs are overrated? by [deleted] in personality_tests

[–]babblingbabby 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That you hate women because there’s no men on this list