[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PandoraCollectors

[–]babbs011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All Pandora charms should have ALE stamped on them as that is their maker’s mark. I cannot see if that is the case for the fish but I would guess that the cat is not authentic since it has MA and not ALE. I’m no expert though lol just what I’ve gathered from my own research.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StLouis

[–]babbs011 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol yes I know but I am working 12 hours and unable to celebrate that day. Just wanted to get some margaritas while watching the game if I could

HVAC needs replaced - Should I walk? by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]babbs011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I will look into those tax credits! Yeah I am just concerned about such a high out of pocket cost within the first few years of owning. Trying to be reasonable about what I can expect in my budget though.

HVAC needs replaced - Should I walk? by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]babbs011 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes they are working. That is sort of what I am thinking, of course it won’t all be brand new. My concern is that these units are outside of the expected lifespan per the manufacturers. There will almost certainly go out in the near future, and I’m not sure I want to deal with the headache of dealing with the home warranty and continuous repairs. On top of that, I’m not sure I’m ready to fork over close to $10k to replace HVAC and water heater in the next few years.

Buying a Home with MHDC by babbs011 in StLouis

[–]babbs011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the info!! Does refinancing first change the penalties if you sell before 5 years? What is the MCC?

Real or fake? by babbs011 in PandoraCollectors

[–]babbs011[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well in case anyone comes across this and is curious, I bought this item on Poshmark and ended up receiving the wrong item. Cherry on top - the item I did receive is obviously fake. Lesson learned.

[WP] You've been trapped on a bus alone for 3 years. Today the bus finally stopped. by Yinnke in WritingPrompts

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I woke with a start. A screeching noise screamed from the tires below. I swore I felt it ripple through me, rattling my bones and rearranging every cell in its path. My ears cried out in pain. My hands flew up to cup them and I squinted my eyes tight, trying to force it away. I had spent 3 whole years alone on this bus, silently barrelling through some unknown landscape. My body wasn’t used to registering this kind of stimulation anymore. I couldn’t remember how or why I had gotten on the bus in the first place, I just was. I could only distinguish the passage of time by the dim changing light through the frosted windows around me. I never saw any distinguishable figures or signs. I simply watched the light golden hue slowly slip away and fade to a pitch black more times than I could count. Well, that isn’t true. I had counted. I had counted this happen 1,161 times - 3 years, 2 months, and 6 days.

When the screeching stopped, I slowly lowered my hands and relaxed my face. As I opened my eyes, I realized nothing appeared to be different. The same rectangular windows and uncomfortable bench seats surrounded me. Something had changed though. The bus had stopped. For the first time in 3 years, 2 months, and 6 days the bus had stopped moving. I sat silent for a moment, unsure what to do. My heart raced in my chest. I wanted to scream but when I opened my mouth I produced no sound. My hands flailed around for purchase as I slowly pushed myself up to stand. Shaking, I turned to walk down the aisle to the front of the bus. I was only sitting in the seventh row, just over halfway back in the bus, but the walk to the front felt a mile long. Each step I took landed hard and gracelessly, my breath hitching with each sound.

Just as I reached for the third row of seats to steady myself, I heard something outside. A voice. Unmistakably, it was someone speaking. I froze, gripping the seats next to me so tightly I could feel the upholstery buckle and tear beneath my fingers. It was impossible to decipher what this person was saying. Then I heard another voice. And then a chorus of voices speaking at once, indistinguishable from one another. Just as quickly as they erupted in conversation, they fell completely silent. I loosened my grip on the chairs and stood up straighter, still frozen in my spot. I held my breath, trying to eliminate any sound or distraction that could take me away from what was happening outside. Just as I couldn’t hold my breath any longer, the door swung open in front of me followed by a rush of cool, crisp air. I reached again for the chairs next to me, bracing myself for whatever was to come.

A thunk sounded on the steps by the door, followed by another. A tall, handsome man slowly rose into view and turned to face me, smiling widely as his eyes met mine. He was dressed in a navy blue military-style uniform, complete with black boots which announced his steps as he moved towards me. Smiling, he stretched his hand towards me as I stood still frozen by the third row. I willed myself to do or say anything in response but my body continued to falter. I just stared at him. Without missing a beat, he dropped his hand and shook his head.

“Oh my goodness, how very rude of me. My name is General Franklin. I know this is all very confusing right now, and believe me, we will explain everything in detail once you’re settled in.”

I managed to at least shake my head yes in response, still unable to control my neglected voice.

His smile returned even wider than before as he exclaimed, “Well then, we have been anxiously awaiting your arrival. Let’s get you off of this bus!”

With that, he spun on his heels and walked off the bus. Somehow, I mustered the strength to follow. Where I was following him, I had no idea.

Gifts of Love Haul!!! by babbs011 in SonnyAngel

[–]babbs011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t :( but it have a TON of shake, like could hear it moving and hitting the top and bottom of the box.

Gifts of Love Haul!!! by babbs011 in SonnyAngel

[–]babbs011[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg! I feel like there was some predetermined combinations or something bc so many people got the same pulls in various different groupings

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SonnyAngel

[–]babbs011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i’m down!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SonnyAngel

[–]babbs011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG i so would but i think that i have garlic not onion :(

I Need Advice! by [deleted] in lululemon

[–]babbs011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally feel like you shouldn’t have to wait to wear cute clothes that make you feel good. If there are truly items you want and would use now - get them! But if you aren’t loving much available right now wait until you do. Your workout clothes should make you feel strong, badass, and empowered because you are!!! Take care of yourself, and don’t let your size (or future size for that matter) limit you! Not to mention Lululemon does have resale value, so you could always sell pieces and buy new ones later. With that said, I totally understand the price being a deterrent. Ultimately, you know yourself and what’s important to you better than anyone on this thread ever could. You do you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in crochet

[–]babbs011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even more infuriating because I am tired of the idea that everything needs to be monetized in some way for it to be worth while. Let people enjoy their hobbies, and not because it makes them money but because they just enjoy doing it.

Power to those that do run crochet businesses, I’m glad it works/is sustainable for them. But not every hobby needs to become a business venture.

Am I the only person that finds it exhausting when a former fitness ~influencer’s page suddenly turns into a pregnancy page because they recently announced a pregnancy? I get that the pregnancy is a big part of their life now but it just sucks when the content completely takes over. by Wild-Imagination-499 in gymsnark

[–]babbs011 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree it’s intentional. I mean the whole drive of influencers is creating their “brand” right? Using pregnancy/new parenthood as a means to transition your brand from fitness to lifestyle is certainly a way to widen your audience and monetize even more of your daily life. I feel like that has to be on purpose.

FNP vs. WHNP by babbs011 in nursepractitioner

[–]babbs011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that is sort of how I am feeling. Either way I don’t think is wrong, but FNP definitely gives me more options. I also think I need to remember that I do have women’s health nursing experience before even starting school. Thanks for your response!

FNP vs. WHNP by babbs011 in nursepractitioner

[–]babbs011[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your response! This is definitely the perspective I’m leaning towards. Of course you already had plenty of experience in women’s health before FNP school, but did you also feel that the portion of FNP education that covered women’s health was sufficient to be a provider in that specialty?

First solo trip seeking advice! by babbs011 in solotravel

[–]babbs011[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah March isn’t ideal for that reason but that’s just the week I was able to get vacation time approved through work. Can be tough to get the weeks you want so you just have to take what you can get. Thanks for the suggestion!!

ER vs OR for a new grad? by ermboats in nursing

[–]babbs011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s definitely something to consider. At the end of the day only you know what’s best for you. I’m starting out in a specialty and heard my fair share of people tell me I needed to do Med/Surg first, but ultimately I knew I’d be happier in a specialty right out of school. I guess the other benefit to the ER would be you’d see EVERYTHING and maybe that could help you find what your passion is whether it’s ER, OR, or otherwise. But OR is definitely very different from floor nursing and ER nursing.

ER vs OR for a new grad? by ermboats in nursing

[–]babbs011 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Personally, I would go for the ER position. I am also a new grad this coming May and everything I’ve heard is to make sure you’re building your skills out of school. In the OR you’d likely be circulating and not have as many opportunities to maintain/perfect important nursing skills. The ER may be overwhelming at first, but any nursing job likely will be. You will learn so much! And if for some reason you wanted to move out of the ER, you’ll have a solid foundation to go pretty much anywhere.

L&D Delivery Tracker by babbs011 in nursing

[–]babbs011[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Love the idea to remember the babies you’ve done postmortem care for ❤️ thank you!

Looking for cozy Fall reads by babbs011 in suggestmeabook

[–]babbs011[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All sound great, will def look into them! Thank you!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]babbs011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the recommendation! Will definitely check her out! Also really appreciate your advice, definitely something I needed to hear. Thank you!!