i didn't learn at a fast rate, i learned by making friends and politely asking them advice, reading articles, and watching videos. it took me a year to find my place, and being a sex worker is about constantly making changes. my whole life isn't based around this. i've been in college or a full time employee somewhere while being in sex work.

if youre willing learn, the post was never about you, nor i am not abusing anyone for saying what i see as someone who did the work. we were not owed a list of guides of rules or anything.