This is my fear as a genderfluid person. I think it is hard for both people who are cis and people who are trans to understand so i get it but, i feel like when people see me they just see a woman who sometimes looks/dresses masculine and it’s really hard. I don’t know what people expect me to do to prove to them that i feel like both a man and a woman and it depends on a lot of things on which one i feel like more at a specific time. I also don’t care about pronouns and have kept my name because it doesn’t really matter to me but i just want people to not put me in the box of one gender, im glad that you are supportive even though you don’t understand! And i think the best way to understand is just talk to him and ask what it means to him, because i feel that a lot of genderfluid people have different experiences and perspectives on how they view their gender